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Danielle Bean

Danielle Bean
Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her work, the two …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the author of A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also enjoys speaking around the country, is employed as webmaster for her parish web sites and spends time on various …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their 4-year-old daughter, 2-year-old son, and twin boys born May 2011. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is a 30-something, single lady, living in Connecticut in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law and six kids ... and two doors down are her parents. She received her undergraduate degree from …
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Daria Sockey is a freelance writer and veteran of the large family/homeschooling scene. She recently returned home from a three-year experiment in full time outside employment. (Hallelujah!) Daria authored several of the original Faith&Life Catechetical Series student texts (Ignatius Press), and is currently a Senior Writer for Faith&Family magazine. A latecomer …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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Brotherly Love?

Looks like we need to have a little chat about oral hygiene!

When I went into my sons’ bathroom this week to clean it, I was greeted by this note which I found perched between their two sinks.

Written in Adam’s most menacing handwriting, it warns his big brother to “STOP STEALING MY TOOTHBRUSH!!!”  I love the “all caps” emphasis for added effect.

My first thought when I saw the note was, “Gross!”  My second thought was of the lovely Danielle Bean, who manages the teeth of eight children (plus her own!) and blogged recently about the fact that her family’s toothbrushes are sanitized on a daily basis to eradicate creepy crawlies

“Oh man, if anyone finds out about this I’m sure to get my invitation to Faith and Family Live revoked!” I thought to myself.

But these little episodes are too good to pass up.  I called Adam and Eric into the bathroom and asked for an explanation.  Eric copped to using his brother’s toothbrush, explaining that “Mine is downstairs, and I’m too busy to go get it!”

I’ll agree that my seventeen year old has been very busy lately, and has been working diligently.  But I couldn’t keep a straight face when he seriously thought I was going to accept this excuse.  First I sent him on the transcontinental journey to the downstairs bathroom to retrieve his own toothbrush.  Then we discussed, once again, the importance of good oral hygiene and also the sanctity of “personal space” and respect for other members of the family.  For those of you with little ones who are anxious to be through the diaper phase, just know that sometimes kids act like babies regardless of their chronological age!

Both boys were issued new, out of the box toothbrushes and a stern warning about “sharing” and “stealing”.  No fistfights ensued, although a lot of germs were likely swapped in the process!

Danielle, I regret that in the area of toothbrush sanitization, I’m a failure!


Comments

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Hahaha!  Also, EW. 

But I don’t think it’s your fault, Lisa.  What’s that phrase?  “Boys will be boys.”  When Danielle’s are teenagers, maybe they’ll do the same thing!

 

Very cute! If you could see the drink sharing and binky swapping that has gone on around here over the last 13 years or so, though, you would not think I was so “sanitary” after all.

“Transcontinental journey” ... I love it. I say buy that poor child a spare toothbrush—one for each bathroom.

 

Danielle…you mean binkys aren’t communal property?

 

We keep finding our daughter (who is only 2) using her toothbrush to “clean” the tub or sink. Ugh. We always throw them away and give her a new one, but who knows how often she does that and we don’t catch her. (Her older brother often forgets to close the door after he uses the bathroom.)

 

Y’all are making me feel like less of a mom-loser!  Oh, and the extra toothbrush purchase thing happened at Walmart yesterday, so there should be no excuses! L.

 

Lisa: TyTy is suddenly all into brushing his teeth.  This weekend he kept running into the bathroom to retrieve his and Evan’s toothbrushes, handing one to Evan and saying “Evie, let’s brush teeth!”  And Evan would enthusiastically join in.  The only problem was, there was no attention paid to which toothbrush either boy was using, so there was lots of germ sharing to say the least.  And Evan is often jealous of Tyler’s toothbrushes, if he thinks they are cooler than his.  I want to know how Danielle sanitizes her toothbrushes, in the diswasher?  I can totally see Evan (the older brother, like Eric) “stealing” Tyler’s (the younger brother like Adam) toothbrush and then making up an excuse about it.

 

Okay, Lisa, so they “borrow” a toothbrush…big deal!  LOOK at how younger brother is handling the situation!!  Writing a note versus sneakily waiting for said culprit to come into the bathroom and pounce on him!  WHAT IS YOUR SECRET???  Yes…the ‘all caps’ are a riot!  That note is going in the memories box, right? 

Thanks for sharing this with us!

 

Who has time to sanitize toothbrushes daily?!?!

 

My Grandpa came back home from WWII to his family of 13.  His younger sister, Sis was preparing for her upcoming marriage at the time.  About 2 weeks went by & she got married and moved to her new home.  Suddenly Grandpa noticed “his” toothbrush was missing.  He confronted her on her “mistake” and they got a good laugh.  They had been using the same toothbrush for 2 weeks!  See Lisa…this has been an ongoing problem in American families for at least 60 years!!


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