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Catholic School Closings

Has your family been impacted?

I’ve been watching and praying for the situation in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia, where a Blue Ribbon Commission on Catholic Education recently issued a report which will result in the closing and consolidation of many of the Archdiocese’s Catholic schools.

This morning, I spent some time reading Archbishop Chaput’s message following up on the commission’s recommendations and the response the suggested closures have prompted around the Archdiocese. Among the points he makes in his pastoral message, this one stood out to me:

Third, one of the bright spots of a difficult week has been the number of business leaders and elected officials who have approached me privately to voice their support for Catholic schools and offer their help going forward. So maybe this is a moment when we can start imagining and doing the future differently. It’s useful to wonder how many of our schools might have been saved if, over the last decade, Catholics had fought for vouchers as loudly and vigorously as they now grieve about school closings. Some Catholics – too many – seem to find it easier to criticize their own leaders than to face the fact that they’re discriminated against every day of the year. They pay once for public schools; then they pay again for the Catholic schools they rightly hold in such esteem. Something’s wrong with that equation. It’s important for Catholics to hold the leadership of their Church accountable. No bishop or pastor should fear that. But Catholics should hold public leaders – beginning with our elected officials in Harrisburg – to an equally demanding standard. School choice may not answer every financial challenge in Catholic education; but vouchers would make a decisive difference. They’d help our schools enormously. To put it simply: Vouchers are a matter of parental rights and basic justice.

Archbishop Chaput points to a sad tendency many of us fall prey to—a complacency that arises out of our own busyness or the sense that someone else (anyone but us!) is more equipped to step forward and take action. As I watch this situation play out in Pennsylvania, it’s come at a time when I myself have become involved in a project in my own home diocese to assist with the promotion of Catholic education here in the Diocese of Fresno. This volunteer role has me working closely with Catholic school principals and committed parent volunteers, and reminds me once again what a jewel our Catholic schools can be.

I don’t write this post today with any solutions or suggestions—I simply wanted to open a dialogue on the topic of Catholic schools, closures, success stories, and how we might better support the state of Catholic education—including parochial schools, but also homeschoolers, religious education in our parishes, and what happens in our domestic classrooms—in this age of financial woes and strained resources. Please join me in praying for all of the teachers, administrators, and families who will be impacted by this situation in Philadelphia, and please feel free to charitably chime in on any experiences you have with this in your own home diocese or school.


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Plain old lack of funding is one very real aspect of the loss of so many schools, as is demographic change. Financial worries in the family surely enter into the picture, as more and more families may not feel they can afford tuition. But I suspect that another (perhaps deeper) issue is the likelihood that the Catholic schools were contracepted out of business. How many parish schools were built at a time when each young family was likely to enroll three, five or more siblings. With Catholics practicing artificial contraception at about the same rate as everybody else,  there are fewer children being born into parish families. Naturally, then, the number of schools cannot be sustained unless there is some way for non-parishioners to enroll and make up the loss. But is it also possible that contracepting parishioners are slightly less motivated to send their children for a Catholic education, when they themselves are making such a compromise with Church teaching?

I do not write this to judge so many couples; I am convinced that hardly anyone has been exposed even briefly to what the Church really says about marital love and the real meaning of openness to life. Most adult Catholics seem to get their knowledge of Church teaching in this matter from references (mostly inaccurate) in secular media, and given the ocean-tide of a culture that firmly believes in personal autonomy (to the extent that birth control ads almost always portray individual women, with no man in sight!), poorly catechized Catholics can’t be held completely responsible.
But still.
Catholic schools are closing for lack of students.

 

But what about when you find Catholic families limiting their family size in order to be able to afford Catholic schools? Or homeschooling because they feel being open to life is a more pressing concern than affording to send their children to the local Catholic school?

 

Kate… this is such an issue to me. We have two little ones now and really struggle with the decision about increasing our family size vs the desire for Catholic education.  We could afford Catholic education only if we keep it at two kids.  More than that, it’s impossible at $7K per year per child- and that’s just tuition. Sadly enough, I am sure the issue of cost leads a lot of people to be more likely to sterilize or contracept in order to be able to pay for Catholic school- quite the irony in my opinion.

 

The Church recognizes parents as the primary educators of their children.  The home is the domestic church & has always been seen as the first & foremost place where children are to be educated, especially in matters pertaining to passing on the Faith.  We homeschool, but we also recognize that our children are being educated in a Catholic school…ours just happens to also be the home.

 

I think about this often as well.  My in-laws intentionally used NFP to only have two children so that they could afford to send them to Catholic schools.  I very much feel called to have more children and NOT worry right now about how much we might have to spend on schooling (if we stay in our current town, there won’t even be the option of a local Catholic school).  My husband and his brother both are very smart and received the highest merit scholarships possible at the college they attended, which in the end was worth more than what their parent’s spent on twelve years of Catholic schooling.  But was it the right choice to place their education *above* having more children?  I really have trouble with that—not that I hold it against them in any way, but it certainly sets a different model for my husband than what I would have ever imagined.

 

Pope John Paul II once said, “The greatest gift you can give your child is another sibling.”  While each family must discern what God desires of them as the Church asks families to be generous & open to life—I believe the late Holy Father was trying to express that there is nothing more precious to a family than the gift of an immortal human soul.

 

Closing for lack of students and lack of vocations. Catholic schools were viable options, even for the poor because most teachers were religious. Now most teachers are lay people who need to support themselves and often a family therefore require much more compensation than a professed, childless, debt-less, mortage-less priest, monk or nun. God Bless the young, growing orders such as the Sisters of Mary Mother of the Eucharist who are opening affordable, quality schools again.

 

It seems that the lack of vocations stems partly from the same reason as to why there are less Catholic children to enroll in parochial schools, as mentioned in Sr. Anne’s post above.  There was a huge uproar when the local Catholic School (K-12) in our town reduced to being a K-8th grade school.  Several families sent their older children to the new PreK-12th Christian school where, sadly, Catholics are essentially viewed as non-Christians.

 

I find the discrimination/social justice perspective on vouchers to be interesting. I hadn’t really thought of it that way. Our area has many non-Catholic private schools (episcopal, baptist, Methodist, non-denomination) as well, so perhaps more anti-Christian sentiment than anti-catholic here.
The voucher argument generally gets shot down here with the argument that it would create a lack of funding for public schools, and merely benefit those who could already afford the private schools.
The contracepting causing smaller school enrollments does not apply in my area. Catholic schools with high academic scores find themselves setting geographic boundaries for their pool of students. The closures and realignments here can be directly linked to the move to suburbia and the improvement of the public school system.
Thanks for sharing what’s happening in your part.

 

The Catholic schools in my diocese are all doing quite well.  Unfortunately because of expense enrollment is mostly limited to families with only a couple of kids and families with more than 3 children are a rarity.  It’s a shame when families who are faithful to the Catholic faith are shut out of Catholic education while so many other families use it as a private school and the faith inside the school dwindles to little more than a name on the building.  Just my experience.

 

We’ve experienced consolidation in our parochial schools over the past 25 years here in northern NJ.  Perhaps the faulty thinking is the one where nobody expects change - it seems self indulgent now for every parish in each town to have it’s own school.  Why do we have a dozen parochial schools within a 15 mile radius?  I guess when land and labor were cheaper back in the 40s and 50s it was a no brainer to attach a school to every parish.  That’s just not the way it is anymore around here. Successful enterprises, no matter what business they are in, learn to adapt quickly to what’s coming down the pike.  The schools that have survived in my area have done so because they’ve become magnet schools. 
I know vouchers are a popular call, but I wonder what more government $ will do to the independent nature of the schools.  One only has to look at the fate of “Catholic” colleges and universities that accept gov’t funding to see where that went. 
I don’t know what the answer is - in my area the Catholic high schools are doing very well.  The elementary schools are doing well because they’ve consolidated, but I do think that less and less parents see the benefit of a Catholic education at the elementary level because the public elementary schools are considered very good.

 

Anybody struggle with the fact that the majority of children attending Catholic schools are wealthy and therefore typically more stuck-up and feel entitled?  This may be my personal experience with my diocese, but I am wondering if this is common around the country?  This is the main reason why I hesitate to send my children to Catholic schools. I don’t want my children to be part of an “entitled” culture. That and the religious education is not very well-done at our local Catholic schools.

 

We saw a huge bullying issue in our local “catholic” school because there were so many only children and children from families with greater means than others.  Our local school also made a big deal out of becoming accredited by the state.  They teach to the state test (even though private school students don’t take it), and they use secular curriculum and brain fluff religious materials.  It is really no longer a Catholic school, but a public school that charges tuition.
We homeschool now.  I can be sure that the social teachings of the church are taught to my children without the liberal agenda that comes along with the secular curriculum being used in the local parish school.

 

In my area the Catholic elementary schools are ‘everyman’ but the older the children get the less that is true. While there are many Catholic elementary schools, including attached to very working class parishes but by the time you reach high school tuition is about $15,000 a year to a handful of high schools. Those high schools do not exist to form the next generation of Catholics but to provide an expensive prep school education to the local elite/rich.

 

Karen, we have the same exact issue in our area. We’re very open to life, but have only been married for two years and have only one child. If we have more than 2 kids (which I hope), I will have to home school. Athletic scholarships are present for the high schools, but I am not holding my breath. It is really such a shame that so many devout Catholic families will never be able to afford Catholic school because they have more than a few children, and, therefore, cannot afford it. Imagine how different the Catholic school system would be with the influence of more children raised in devout homes? It would be amazing! As for now, I will continue to tithe at my parish (which has a school) and pray that God blesses Catholic schools.

 

It saddens me to hear parents think of homeschooling as if it were only an option by default when the Catholic schools are too expensive (which I agree wholeheartedly that they are).  We have chosen home education for our family & know that, by God’s grace, we are providing them with a solid Catholic & educational formation.  Even if our local Catholic school were solidly Catholic (which it unfortunately is not) & if we could afford to send our children…we would still choose home education because we feel it is our responsibility as parents & because of the wonderful opportunities it affords our family.  It is certainly not without its challenges, but what a tremendous blessing it has been for our family!

 

Very interesting discussion.  Do many of you think the public schools are not an appropriate choice partnered with strong CCD?  This is how I was raised.  This is more of what my husband and I are thinking of doing, and we would of course incorporate a lot of education around our household, too.  Not just education, but LIVING the lifestyle that God calls of us.  My only hesitation about public schools is their education on contraception, life, gay marriage, sex in general.  But I thought we could pull the kids out of class during these discussions, especially on contraception.  Public schools teach how to put condoms on!  That is definitely not something I want my children participating in.

 

There is no “one size fits all” for public schools because they are local institutions serving a local population.  A public school is run by the school board.  My advise to you is to attend your local board of education meetings and learn what the curriculum standards are for your zoned school.  The schools in my town do not teach about putting condoms on nor do the school nurses dispense birth control pills.  You need to get informed about what is taught and what isn’t, and be an involved parent.  In my district, all of the health and life materials used in the school are available for the parents to view and decide if their children should be taught it or not.
We’ve been very pleased with our public schools and I have been a catechist for 10 years now.  It is my unofficial observation that if a parish does not have a parish school attached to it, it has a better CCD program.  That is not always the case, but it seems like the more resources that are available to the CCD program, the better it is.  A school can be a huge drain on parish finances.

 

Kate W.,
I was also raised in the public schools (at the time, considered some of the best in the country & in an affluent area) & with a decent parish-based CCD program.  Even though it was not as bad as it is today (this was the mid-70s to late-80s), the indoctrination in public school was ingrained into the educational system.   
Despite your best intentions to protect your children’s purity & innocence from the things you expressed concern about, it can be very difficult to know what type of flawed worldview your children are being taught (oftentimes under the guise of diversity, tolerance & someone else’s values).  This type of worldview is spread throughout the curriculum, so the “opt out” option isn’t always as easy as it might seem. 
Of course, as you mentioned, your family’s example of living the Faith is always the best education for your children.

 

Some of you are talking about Public school systems and CCD. This just isn’t something I am comfortable with right now. My husband is now working with the middle school kids that are homeschooled or go to public school and attending CCD. The program is quite weak. Its only once a week and the parents are often not involved at all. Some of the kids are into it, but most are more into Lady Gaga and facebook than the program. In my area the public school system is very good, but, I just can’t feel comfortable sending my kids there. To me, morality is the most important thing that a child can learn, and I fear that morality is not of importance in our relativistic and narcissistic- driven society its school system.

 

You are right that I need to get informed.  I am not 100% informed on what the sex education curriculum is in our local school district.  Also-it is impossible to opt out of a worldview taught in public schools.  But, I don’t see much of a difference in the worldview education that my little brother is getting in the local Catholic high school right now from what I got growing up in the public schools.  This could just be my local Catholic schools, though, I am definitely not speaking as a whole.

 

Why do faithful Catholics continue to sacrifice to send their children to CINO (Catholic-in-name-only)schools?
Now check this out:
http://www.ewtnnews.com/catholic-news/World.php?id=4668
This Bishop’s on the right track!  May God reward him!

 

Go Bishop!  Our local “catholic” school has a liturgical dance club and does all sorts of save the animals drives.  Do I need to say more than that about how CINO it is?

 

I have to agree with Sr. Anne that our Catholic schools have been “contracepted” out of business.  Our local Catholic school has shrunk tremendously for many reasons, contraception being one of them. The Catholic element is barely recognizable as the children do not wear uniforms or have guidelines for hair or jewelry; not to mention the fact they are using a Protestant curriculum.  There are some good things happening, and I have hope for the future. But, for now, by the grace of God, we are homeschooling our 7 children.  My best advice is to pray to be open to life. It is not easy in our culture today, but
God has always provided, and I trust He will continue to do just that!

 

I feel blessed to be from the Diocese of Wichita, Kansas, where there is no tuition in our Catholic school system.  Families simply live a stewardship way of life, and the parish schools (which continue to grow, even to the point of opening new schools) are supported entirely by tithing dollars.  It really is a beautiful system that I would love to see implemented in more diocese’.  Our diocese is able to educate children at about half the $$ per student that our local public schools do, and they do a marvelous job as evidenced by not only test scores, but vocations.  Truly, truly a blessing.

As for vouchers, I understand the appeal, but with any sort of government money or involvement comes strings attached, and sometimes ones that are very undesirable.  Something to definitely bear in mind….

That said though, I certainly feel blessed to live in the Wichita Diocese.  While my children are not yet school age, we do intend to send them to Catholic schools and I can not imagine coming up with potentially tens of thousands of dollars a year simply for their educations.

 

Yes!  I’ve heard of this through my brother—also a resident of the Archdiocese of Wichita.  I would love to know the history of how that system came to be and be so successful.  I haven’t heard of any other part of the country doing this.  I know in San Antonio our schools are not only closing but the quality of education they offer is dismal when compared to our top 3 public school districts.  I just moved my children from Catholic school to public—after 8 years in Catholic schools.  It was an extremely difficult decision but now a semester under our belt—our only regret is not moving them sooner.  I am a product of Catholic school and believe they were still getting it right at that time—but we had nuns, brothers and priests.  Sadly, I think there is this emotional pull that those of us who have such fond memories of the schools coming into play.  I wish it was still what it once was but it isn’t—and I can’t wait at my kids’ expense until it bounces back.  :-(

 

I know of a few articles that talk a lot about the history of schools in our diocese.  Let me see if I can dig them up and post them here, it’s been awhile since they were published but they were really informative.

 

Here’s a great article about our system here in Wichita.
http://www.ilsussidiario.net/News/English-Spoken-Here/Education-Schooling/2011/7/26/CATHOLIC-SCHOOLS-Wichita-where-tuition-is-no-problem/196636/

 

I am praying about this often!  I have one in Catholic school and one homeschooling and two too little, so I am intensely interested in this discussion.  This is a great conversation.  Please keep talking I am so inspired by the Diocese of Wichita!  I notice that in that Diocese, some of the schools also incorporate Children’s Adoration in the school and I can’t help but think there are blessings attached to such Faith from the parishes and adoration by the children!  God bless!

 

Catholic schools have been closing steadily in my area for years and they continue to close for the following reasons:

1.  Large families or families with one wage-earner can’t afford it.  The families that do use the Catholic schools almost always have two-wager earners.
2.  Homeschooling has picked up steam.  These are also the largest families.  In my parish I know of about 40 children being homeschooled even though there is a Catholic elementary school.
3.  Smaller families, either due to contraception or NFP.
4.  The economy is especially bad in this area and families have fled to find jobs.

 

The local Catholic school (K-8) here has grown considerably in the four years we have lived in the area - from about 85 students to 165 students!  A lot of it is because of the public school situation here in CA, with rising class sizes and the decline of non-core offerings.  However, while the school has grown, I wonder if it really is in the best interest of the school as most of the new students are not Catholic.  I was at a Mass with the school and it was amazing how many students filed up the Communion lines with their arms crossed.  I’d be surprised if more than 50% of the kids were Catholic, and of those, only a handful attend Sunday Mass with their parents. 

Of the families I know who do attend weekly Mass and do try to follow the teachings of the Church, most homeschool and a few have their kids in public school.  Both groups don’t see the point of spending 3500/kid/year to attend a school where some of the teachers and most of the students live in families that either disregard the taechings of the Church or don’t care because they aren’t even Catholic to begin with.  There are a few still at the school, but it seems more out of nostalgia or a sense of this *should* be the right thing to do, rather than being truly pleased with the education their children are receiving.

And I am very hesitant to promote vouchers - it seems very easy to go from accepting government money for tuition to having to toe a line about what the school does and does not teach (since the government is paying for it, after all!)  And since Catholic schools generally need to be stronger in their teaching in their faith, rather than weaker, I don’t think it would be movement in a positive direction!

 

We just started vouchers here in Indiana for private school, but in order to qualify, the student has to have attended a public school in the last year.  That and the income limits which are low have disqualified us.  So, the vouchers were set up to provide an alternative to failing public schools, not to help Catholic school families continue to send their kids to Catholic schools.  The result is that families that are not Catholic or have never sent their kids to Catholic school, can now send them to Catholic school rather than public, but Catholic parents who are poor and have always struggled and sent their kids to Catholic school, can not get a voucher.  So we have been unable to send our kids to Catholic high school. We have sent them to our parish Catholic grade school.    Our parish has a stewardship program for the grade school only, and it has been very helpful to us.  Still we would like to send our kids to Catholic high school, but can’t.  We have five children, one in college now, one going to college this year, two in elementary and one in high school.  We are doing the best we can in educating our children in the Catholic faith, but I know they aren’t getting as much as they would in a Catholic high school.  However, they also are not involved in all the cliques that were so strong in the grade school, and for that we are thankful.  The big failure I see in our parish is the failure to provide ANY religious education for high school youth.  It is just not a priority because 75% of the kids go to Catholic high school.  They don’t care about the rest of the kids or the families that can’t afford it.  All the funds go to supporitng the parish school or the assessment they have to pay to the Archdiocesan high school.

 

This may not be economically feasible for the schools, but, it sure would be nice if the tuition was set up in such that if you have 3 or more kids in the school you only pay for 3.  Maybe this would bring more families in, and potentially earn them more money in the long run?

 

This is what we have in our diocese (Long Island). You only pay for the first three children. We didn’t realize it when we first started looking at Catholic schools but were happy to see that offered. So if you’re looking at schools, see if that’s offered! It might be and you don’t know it.

 

When I lived in another state, the school my children attended investigated a diocese in Ohio (Toledo?) where an arrangement used to fund tuitions has gradually become a means to lower Catholic school tuition.  But you have to have a large enough Catholic school population to make it work.  Where I live now, the parish schools are very much on their own, the tuitions are high, and very few large families can afford them.  In my town, there is a financial aid program - but what’s expected is hard on families.  It doesn’t take into account children in the middle school of the same parish!  Let alone children in Catholic high school or in college.  There is little awareness that one family might have children in many different tuition-paying situations.  When my oldest child started kindergarten, there was precisely the sort of family discount program (K-8) proposed by RealMom4Life - by the time you got to four children, you paid for three and never paid more.  That discount is gone, and so are many large families.

 

Our Catholic school got rid of the multi-child discount plan. Used to be, 4th-plus child enrolled went for free. We fought this change, as it is simply the Catholic way to support large families, but unfortunately, there are very few truly “Catholic” voices in Catholic schools these days as many of them are homeschooling. We were well in the minority, and the change happened. The school didn’t notice a change in enrollment immediately. Families that were there, such as ours (we had 5 enrolled at the time) did everything they could to not have to switch schools. The change was seen down the road when young families with many children just could not enroll due to the cost with minimal or no discount for large families. So now our school has to advertise (used to have a waiting list) to attract students, and virtually all classrooms have empty desks. (Wouldn’t it be better to have filled classrooms, even if some were attending for free? IE, wouldn’t it be better to have a family with 5 enrolled children, paying for 3 of them, rather than none of those 5 children attend?) Even from a financial standpoint, it makes sense. Our 6 children are growing and our youngest is now in 7th grade, but I worry about the future of Catholic schools. Will they be there for our grandchildren? My crazy dream? That large families will once again produce healthy numbers of priests and religious. Nuns will live in community, thus eliminating the need for a full salary needed when they each live independently. This will save the schools money, rein in tuition costs, and allow schools once again to offer a multi-child discount. And God will bless the faithfulness of all involved!

 

The local anglican rite catholic church has a phenom school and they max out tuition at 5 children (k-12) but that still is about $20000 a year. Plus all the extras which add uo and for families like us, who don’t live close…we’d have thousands of dollars added to our gas bill.

 

The Catholic schools in my diocese have been been dwindling in numbers.  The closest Catholic school is now 45 miles away and for some reason that seems to be okay.  There doesn’t seem to be a huge amount of support for the schools from the powers that be.  I had looked into tuition a couple of times.  It was $5000+ for one student.  I have four in elementary school right now.  Even with the family discount, there was no way that we could afford that. 

What the diocese (the bishop and those he has surrounded himself with) doesn’t seem to see, is that when a Catholic school closes, parents are going to look to other parochial schools.  About half of the Episcopal school is Catholic.  There is a school run by a Baptist church in town, that has a heavy population of Catholics now as well.  How do you keep your children Catholic when they are learning and participating in a different faith at school?

 

There is one diocese that has seemed to figure out affordable Catholic education and that is Wichita.  One of my cousin’s children go to Catholic school for free.  Several years ago, their bishop asked the diocese to start going to Adoration.  People started and amazing things have happened there.  People are tithing and are funding the diocese in an awesome way.

 

I live in Wichita and it really is a blessing.  Here’s a great article about our thriving school system.

 

We were impacted by our parochial school closing this past June.  It was consolidated with three other elementary schools and the new campus was nearly a half hour’s drive down an interstate highway away without busing.  It was no longer an option for my family.  We made all the financial sacrifices we could but when coupled with the time constraints and enormous fuel costs, the school was placed out of our reach.  I don’t know what the solution is or if Catholic schools can be saved.  My children now attend public school.  They are doing well but we do miss the closeness and the culture of the parochial school system.

 

Well, I live in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia.  I went through Catholic grade school here.  My old school, which is in the Manayunk section of Philadelphia, became the regional school for that area @ 10-15 years ago.  Now it will be absorbing another school slated for closure.  I also attended Catholic high school, but it’s a private school that isn’t subject to these closures.

In Philly and the surrounding area, after finding where someone is from (which suburb or area of the city), the next question is “Which parish?”.  This is a habit I carried with me when my husband and I lived on Long Island for a few years as well as New Hampshire.

My son graduated from our parish school a few years ago and is now attending an archdiocesan high school with an academic scholarship.  But we had to take the girls out of our school and place them in the local public school.  We simply can’t afford it anymore.  My husband is the main “breadwinner” but I also have a part-time job.  Our lives are anything but extravagant.  But our school district is a good one and I teach in our very large and active religious ed program.

One thing that hasn’t been mentioned much about this blue ribbon report is the fact that more than half the Catholic children in this archdiocese receive their formal religious education through parish programs (once know as CCD now PREP - Parish Religious Education Program).  And the rules for our PREP programs are about to be strenghtened.  There will be more required hours for the children to attend every year, the curriculum is going to be reviewed more regularly and the children will be making their Confirmation a few years later than they do now (currently 6th grade, moving to 8th).  This is going to take a lot of work.  And as both a teacher and parent involved in this change it’s going to make life even crazier than it is now.

So while I am saddened by the loss of these schools and I understand the pain of those who can’t afford it, I am very thankful that those of us outside the school system were included in this study.

 

I live in Wichita, and it truly is wonderful.
Here’s a great article about our thriving school system.
http://www.ilsussidiario.net/News/English-Spoken-Here/Education-Schooling/2011/7/26/CATHOLIC-SCHOOLS-Wichita-where-tuition-is-no-problem/196636/

 

I live in the AOP also, and our parish school is slated to be closed.  My kids are homeschooled, so we are not immediately affected.  I do think however, that what led me to homeschooling over choosing a parish school, was the lack of religious education in the Catholic schools.  We allowed them to become more like any other private school.  The hope might have been to siphon off some disgruntled public school students while not focusing on Catholicism, which might turn them away.  Instead, they went to charter schools, Christian schools, or stayed at their public schools while the family size of Catholics went down, Catholics sent their kids to a variety of schools rather than remaining faithful to their parish school, and those who wanted their kids to get an unabashedly Catholic education were left with little choice but to homeschool.  With fewer students, higher paid teachers (not as many nuns around!), and higher demands in the realm of technology and programs, the schools were forced to raise tuitions.  This of course led to fewer families being able to afford the schools as well.  It is a vicious cycle in many cities and towns, and I truly think the best way to turn it around is to make our schools Catholic FIRST.  Relook at textbooks that teach secular lessons and contradict Catechism.  Relook at textbooks that are unfairly critical or continue teaching long debunked myths in Catholic history (Galileo, the Inquisition, the Dark Ages, etc…) in their most biased form.

Catholics saved education in our monasteries while Rome was falling apart.  We started the most amazing schools and universities in the world.  We need to shift the paradigm here to be on top again. Following in the footsteps of secular culture is not the path to success.  We need to Be Not Afraid to be Catholic in our school systems.

 

I agree with you here to an extent, but I think the problem is less the orthodoxy of the schools and more the steep property taxes that fund public education in my state (NJ).  When the average property tax in your town is 12K per year, you have less families willing to pay tuition on top of taxes.  The upside of course, is that there are a lot of practicing Catholics in the local public schools, including teachers and administrators.  The downside, is that the powerful teacher’s union has successfully run many Catholic schools out of business here in NJ.  If something drastic happens and my property taxes are lowered substantially (and we pay far more than 12K per year), I would enroll my children in Catholic school in a heart beat.

 

I love our local Catholic schools, and went all the way through them, 1st through high school.  Back then we had the Vincentian sisters to keep it affordable and high quality.  Now, we survive on constant fundraising and a committed country parish that will not let its school fail.  Despite that, there is talk of consolidating with the more middle class and expensive school in the next town.  Guess which scool is likely to get the ax? 

Until just five or so years ago parishioners went tuition-free because our priest believed strongly that every Catholic child deserves a Catholic education.  But the lay teachers, about half of whom are protestant, eventually overrode him.  Even with all these troubles, the last thing I want to see is government assistance to keep our schools solvent.  Vouchers will render us totally helpless against o what is happening to other Catholic institutions right now.  If hospitals and charities are not permitted an authentically Catholic identity under this government, why would Catholic schools fare any better?  If it all has to go to homeschooling to keep Catholic education truly Catholic, I won’t like it, but I’m ready.

 

Check out this amazing option in the Diocese of Wichita, where they operate parish schools on a stewardship model rather than tuition.  Every child of a stewardship family can send their child(ren) to elementary and high school without paying tuition. 

http://catholicdioceseofwichita.org/about-us-schools/we-are-parish-schools

 

Oops…I see some have already written about Wichita!

 

My husband and I wish we could send our children to our parish school. We have four children and we CAN afford to send them all to a Catholic school. However, each one has a learning disability of some sort (nothing major) and most Catholic schools have NO support for that. Instead, we homeschool because we don’t consider our local PS an option.

 

It is important to me that it is pointed out that your taxes are not paid for public education to send your child to public school. Everyone in society pays for public education because it is for the benefit of a society, for the society to educate all of its citizens.


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