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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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Eating to Control Pregnancy Nausea

The trick is protein

You might notice up there under the menu bar that there’s a Food category on this site.  I was excited about that when I first saw it; since cooking is one of my favorite hobbies, I figured I’d have a lot to contribute there.  Then right before the site launched, I found out I was pregnant, and the nausea of the first trimester hit me hard.  Now… oh dear.  I can barely manage to get food on the table for my family, and I certainly don’t want to spend any extra time talking about it.

However, Darlamom asked about tips for keeping the nausea at bay during pregnancy.  I’ve suffered big-time from nausea right from the beginning of both my pregnancies.  It is my constant companion, reminding me minute-by-minute that having food taste good and stay in my stomach is a privilege, not a right. 

Bearing in mind that every woman is different, I do have a tip for nausea control.  It’s research-based (which means, um, that I got the idea from a friend whose husband is a doctor) and was developed through a lot of trial and error on my part. 

It’s simple: as long as I eat lots of small meals throughout the day, avoid high-sugar foods and drinks, and include protein every single time I eat, then I don’t get sick.  The trick is that every meal helps keep my blood sugar steady: doesn’t drive it up quickly, and doesn’t set it up to crash later.  I’m craving fruit constantly, but as long as I have peanut butter with my apple or milk with my blueberries, I’m fine.  Sometimes I have to force myself to prepare and eat things I don’t really want, and end up forcing down a fried egg on toast before I’ll let myself eat the juicy peach on the counter.  But it’s totally worth it because it keeps my nausea within reasonable limits, and my rate of lunch-losing episodes is much lower this time around.

I hope this’ll help Darlamom or any of the rest of you who might be dealing with first-trimester nausea, because it’s the best I can do on the topic of food right now!  I can’t wait until I’m in the second trimester and can start reading and writing about food without having to cower and clutch my stomach at the same time.


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Marilyn Shannon has a helpful book published by Couple to Couple League, Managing Morning Sickness that explains the whole blood sugar /nausea connection.  You are so correct about this.

 

Protein and many other remedies can help ease the nausea and vomiting of pregnancy. Be aware though that severe nausea and vomiting is hyperemesis gravidarum, known as HG.

“Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of nausea and vomiting in pregnancy. It is generally described as unrelenting, excessive pregnancy-related nausea and/or vomiting that prevents adequate intake of food and fluids. If severe and/or inadequately treated, it is typically associated with:

loss of greater than 5% of pre-pregnancy body weight (usually over 10%)
dehydration and production of ketones
nutritional deficiencies
metabolic imbalances
difficulty with daily activities
HG usually extends beyond the first trimester and may resolve by 21 weeks; however, it can last the entire pregnancy in less than half of these women. Complications of vomiting (e.g. gastric ulcers, esophageal bleeding, malnutrition, etc.) may also contribute to and worsen ongoing nausea.”

Just a little FYI from an HG survivor. So many women are told that it is their fault that the home remedies don’t work for them or it is all in their head or they aren’t tough enough or don’t really want their babies.
It is a disease and a disease that can be treated.

http://www.hyperemesis.org

God Bless.

 

Arwen,

You’re absolutely correct about eating protein with every meal or snack during the first trimester. I found that this was the only way I could keep food down and continue eating throughout the day during my (ahem) 15 weeks of nausea and vomitting for this, my current pregnancy.

My doctor also told me to eat a little protein right before bedtime to help ease my stomach into morningtime. I found that keeping saltine crackers by my bed never helped me at all, but if I ate some yogurt or string cheese w/crackers before I fell asleep, then I was better off in the morning.

Thanks for your post. I pray that your morning sickness doesn’t last too long!

 

I’ve suffered through more pregnancy nausea than I care to remember and you are absolutely onto something with the protein, Arwen. Last pregnancy, my husband was my hero because he grilled me a steak every single night during that first trimester. Not so good on the grocery budget, but awfully good on my poor stomach. The only thing I would keep down most days.

 

Arwen speaks truth!

I was leveled by the nausea with my third.  A friend told me to think of protein in terms of a through-the-mouth I.V.:  small, constant amounts of the protein/carb balance to keep my blood sugar from spiking.  100% better.

With respect to HG, it’s no figment of the imagination, character flaw or weakness of the part of the mother.  My cousin was so sick with her second baby that she was in the hospital on the verge of organ failure (she was determined to carry the baby, praise God) when her feeding tube finally started to turn the tide.  What a frightmare.  God love those of you precious mothers who have endured this trial for your children.

 

I also survived HG, Karen, and thank you for the explanation of the disease.

It’s a whole different ball game when drinking a sip of water makes you vomit bile and blood. Ugh.

That being said, it’s nice to know protein can help with normal morning sickness.

 

During the first and second trimester I had a lot of morning sickness and I tried any suggestion I could get. I did read the Couple to Couple League book and tried what they wrote, but it didn’t work. The only thing that landed out working were cups of hot ginger tea and ginger candy. I would drink the tea morning and night and eat the candy whenever I started feeling ill…it worked liked a charm.

 

I always took comfort in the following, I hope it helps!  Morning sickness helps pregnant women from ingesting teratogens (substances which can be harmful to the baby).  Women are most morning sick to those foods highest in teratogens, and least morning sick to those foods low in teratogens.  It’s not like these are super dangerous, just that while full grown humans can eat them without any trouble, things like plant toxins or BBQed meat aren’t things you want a baby ingesting large amounts of.  Also, morning sickness peaks during the first trimester, during the time the baby is most vulnerable, given the formation of the major organ systems.  Last, morning sickness is unpleasant, but it is a sign of a healthy pregnancy - it is your body doing what it should be doing.  I know it’s no fun - but it’s not actually a bad sign!

 

Another thing that can help is citrus. Not eating it, but smelling it. A fresh lemon, lemon juice, an orange, whatever…. I learned this tip from the nurses in Maternity when I went for my umpteenth bag of fluids and Zofran drip because I was so sick. It didn’t work for me everytime, but then again, I had HG my entire pregnancy, and lost 18 pounds in the first trimester this last time (and I am of a low-regular body weight to begin with). I vomited at least once every day for each of my pregnancies, usually multiple times…. and have to say, that it wasn’t only the thought of the babe that made me look forward to delivery, but that an end to the sickness would come. lol Morning sickness bites! I hope you feel better soon!

 

Interesting to read your tips.  There are suggestions that morning sickness could be an evolutionary function designed to stop foods being consumed that might hard the pregnancy.  I guess it makes sense, though I wish nature wasn’t always so cruel!

 

All, these are great tips, especially the one regarding eating proteins. I am 13 weeks along, and my nausea has gotten worse from it originally was. I have tried all home remedies, but to no avail. I will surely try to get more proteins into every meal and see if that works. Good luck to all of you dealing with morning sickness, or must I say, all-day-sickness!

 

I tried to start out the day by eating saltine crackers or dry toast. sprite or ginger ale also helps. i did have to ask my ob about this and he told me to take dramamine to help to prevent this. when you take this about an hour and a half before you eat it works miracles. also having peppermint candies in my purse helped too. my nausea lasted until about 16 weeks.fertility

 

When trying to control nausea: Drink clear or ice-cold drinks. Eat light ... can be used to control vomiting associated with pregnancy, motion sickness, ... Thanks…..good post

 

I think you can also use pure resveratrol ultra. However, I suggest that you consult your doctor first. Never ever drink any medicine, supplement or other pill before your doctor nod to it.

 

I’ve suffered through more pregnancy nausea than I care to remember and you are absolutely onto something with the protein, Arwen. Last pregnancy, my husband was my hero because he grilled me a steak every single night during that first trimester. Not so good on the grocery budget, but awfully good on my poor stomach. The only thing I would keep down most days.


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