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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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Feast of Guardian Angels

to light and guard, to rule and guide

Today is the Feast of Guardian Angels.

Do you pray to your guardian angel? Do you pray to your children’s angels? What about your husband’s angel?

A wise priest once advised me to pray frequently to my husband’s guardian angel.

I know the guardian angel prayer and I often invoke my children’s angels when praying for their safety. I must admit, though, that it had never before occurred to me to pray to my husband’s guardian angel.

This priest suggested that particularly when a husband and wife are in disagreement or even feeling hostile toward one another, our angels can act as intermediaries for us. They want only what is best for us and of course that will include what is best for our marriages.

“Send your angel to greet your husband before you greet him yourself at the end of the day,” this priest suggested. “And always ask your husband’s angel to draw him closer to you and closer to Christ.”

An opportunity to send your husband tiny whispers and nudges toward all that is good and holy? What wife can resist?

Angel sent by God to guide him,
Be his light and walk beside him,
Be his guardian and protect him,
On the paths of life direct him.
Amen.


Comments

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LOVE this idea! smile

 

I must admit I’ve never thought of this idea before!  I was just teaching my 2nd graders in their CCD class on Sunday about guardian angels, too. 

Perhaps I could pray to my EX-husband’s guardian angel?  He is so difficult & very hard for me to deal with, especially regarding our 12-year-old daughter.  I think I will try this….I have been offering my daily Eucharist time for our relationship.

Thanks!!!
Laura

 

That is a good one. We had 3 winters when my husband was very ill. While he slept I would lay a hand on him and invoke the Holy Spirit. This would be easy to remember.

 

Yes, our Guardian Angels are POWERFUL! They are our beloved friends and are beholding the face of God while they are nudging us! They are amazing intercessors and we should never hesitate to call upon them for all of our needs. Did you know that your family has its own Guardian Angel appointed for the family? A wise and holy priest told me that.

We invoke our Angels at least several times a day. It’s also a good idea to send your Angel to the person’s Angel that you will have dealings with - a meeting, a visit, or whatever. Your Angel will pave the way!

God bless!

Donna-Marie

 

We celebrated our Guardian Angel’s feast day by turning it into a birthday celebration!

Cake, ice cream, balloon and singing the Happy birthday song! 
It was fun and a neat way to remember our angels.

 

I look at it as our Guardian Angels are always on the job and our prayers to them are more to help us with this awareness and faith. I don’t think praying to them changes their actions.  Aren’t they intervening for us all along or only when we ask them to?  I usually look to the Holy Spirit for intervention with commincation and peace between my husband and I but do understand intercessary prayer is powerful.

If you could be patience with me on this thought I’d appreciate it.  At this point in my life I have more questions about certain aspects of my faith than I have answers.  So I am not trying to argumentative but just looking for thoughts.

I wish it were that simple, that you pray to your husband’s, children’s and your Guardian Angels to keep them all safe and they are.  I see and read about terrible family/child tragedies among orthodox believers (and others) who certainly have been invoking their Guardian Angels.  It is just no guarentee and I have trouble reconciling that.

 

Thank you, what a lovely idea.

 

Beth—I’ve been wondering about the same thing.

Thoughts from others?

 

I love that Danielle - thank you!

I will add a stanza -

“And though his wife does dearly love him”
“Stay her hand when she would shove him.”


wink

 

Beth and Ryan,

There are a lot of great references to Catholic articles and many popes’ reflections on the guardian angels over at Catholic Culture. I found this one to be most helpful.

It reads, in part,

“Although the angel who abides before God with perpetual attention toward us is witness to our every word and act, he cannot know our thoughts unless we manifest them. God alone has entrance to the sanctuary of our soul. Our angel presents good suggestions to our senses and imagination to strengthen our faith and increase our charity.”

and

“How often do we call upon our guardian angel for assistance in our efforts toward holiness or for guidance in our apostolic work? Confidence in his help requires that we share with him our intentions and problems, our successes and failures. Let us learn to cultivate the friendship of our guardian angel and to seek his cooperation in our efforts toward sanctity and in our work for souls.”

Our angels do always intercede for us, but how much more they can help us along our way toward heaven if we remain mindful of their presence and share with them the inner struggles of our souls!

 

And one more thought for you, Beth: I understand your struggle with the lack of a “guarantee” of safety when we pray to our guardian angels.

But we lack that “guarantee” when we pray to God for anything. Sometimes God says no and we might never understand why in this lifetime.

The only “guarantee” we have when we pray is that our God, who is all-knowing, all-good, and all-powerful, loves each of us perfectly and will answer our prayers in the way that is best.

 

Thanks, Danielle—I’ll check out that link.

As you mention, this topic leads to some of the even bigger questions of faith and God’s role in the world…

 

My greatest consolation in asking those ‘before the throne’ to pray for me or a situation is I cannot imagine they would ever pray for something that was actually bad for me. I might join my husband in praying for a new car but God’s Will might be that we meet those others depending on buses. I always see Mary, the Angels, etc changing my prayer always into whatever Your Will is Lord.

 

I try to pray to my guardian angel when I am experiencing a temptation that he (my angel) might not know about.  If I tell him about it, he can help with the strength to overcome the temptation or even alter the circumstances to help the temptation disappear.  I guess this doesn’t really apply to praying to others’ guardian angels!

 

I used to pray to my daughter’s angel when she was in the womb and I was desperately, life-threateningly sick. I used to pray her angel would protect her from me, since I was contemplating an abortion.

Her angel did not fail us, and I thank her angel every sweet day. My daughter is now two years old.

 

“And one more thought for you, Beth: I understand your struggle with the lack of a “guarantee” of safety when we pray to our guardian angels.

But we lack that “guarantee” when we pray to God for anything. Sometimes God says no and we might never understand why in this lifetime.

The only “guarantee” we have when we pray is that our God, who is all-knowing, all-good, and all-powerful, loves each of us perfectly and will answer our prayers in the way that is best. “

Thanks for the replies Danielle.

In the cases of safety and tragic deaths of children I don’t believe that is God saying no to our prayers.  Sure God says no when we ask for things that just are not the best for us.  I don’t think God makes decisions allowing tragic events
or that they are some how caused because we did not pray to our Guardian Angel enough. I don’t think they need to be reminded to stay on the job or that God tells them no just let this one go when a child is drowning in a lake.  I think it is the result of living in a fallen world.

(I know that is not what you may have been implying but that is what I extract in my head with this particular topic)

Praying to them does serve to remind us of God’s presence and certainly they do intercede for us.

I know your intention is just to offer simple encouragement without complicated theological questions and I do appreciate that.  I really don’t think that there are answers for some questions and that is ok.

I just hope that no parent ever feels like it was their fault a tragedy happened because they didn’t remind their Guardian angel to keep their child safe.  Seems like angels shouldn’t need reminders for that or that they only act when we ask them to.


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