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Danielle Bean

Danielle Bean
Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is editor-in-chief of Catholic Digest and Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the author of A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also enjoys speaking around the country, is employed as webmaster for her parish web sites and spends time on various …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their 4-year-old daughter, 2-year-old son, and twin boys born May 2011. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is a 30-something, single lady, living in Connecticut in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law and six kids ... and two doors down are her parents. She received her undergraduate degree from …
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DariaSockey

DariaSockey
Daria Sockey is a freelance writer and veteran of the large family/homeschooling scene. She recently returned home from a three-year experiment in full time outside employment. (Hallelujah!) Daria authored several of the original Faith&Life Catechetical Series student texts (Ignatius Press), and is currently a Senior Writer for Faith&Family magazine. A latecomer …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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How Much Must I Believe?

Ask a Priest vol. 7

Q: Do I have to believe “everything” to identify myself as Catholic?

A: I read the conversation that followed this question at Faith & Family Connect, and once again I was impressed by the honesty, wisdom, and compassion so evident in exchanges here at the Faith and Family online community.  I had two thoughts that may be of use to those who are following this conversation.

The World around Us

First, isn’t it interesting that all of the specific doctrines brought up in the context of this question have to do with gender and sexuality? Homosexuality, contraception, women priests, abortion … These are the hot-button issues of our cultural moment. 

Catholics engaged in today’s culture sooner or later discover that today’s culture doesn’t value or accept the Catholic view of sexuality. Five hundred years ago, Catholics engaged in the culture ran head on into different issues, things like: Is Jesus really present in the Eucharist? Did Jesus really start a visible Church?  If Oprah had had a show in 1500, those would have been the hot-button issues for a Catholic guest. 

And if we were to turn the clock back even further, say, 1500 years ago, the issues would have been different yet again. In those early centuries, for example, it was not uncommon for Christians to start riots over whether Jesus had two wills (a human will and a divine will) or just one.

My point is simply that many times, the difficulties we have with our faith are not really grounded in our faith. Rather, they stem from the Christian’s strange position as a dual citizen. We are residents of this fallen world, but we are on our way to an eternal city. This creates tension. 

We want to feel completely at home here on earth, but we can’t, because we are meant for something greater. “We have no lasting city in this life …” (Hebrews 13:14).  The Church, Jesus taught, is like a fishing net, partially subject to the ebb and flows of the ocean’s currents, but not fully.  Therefore, we should not expect the demands of our faith to always be comfortable.  We often have to swim upstream, which can be quite demanding (just ask the martyrs).

The Right Perspective

Second, as we face our difficulties and strive to mature in our faith, we should remind ourselves that doctrine is not divorced from life. Our Catholic faith consists of what God himself has revealed to us for the sake of our happiness and fulfillment, in time and eternity. 

After original sin, human nature was wounded. Our ability to understand the meaning of the world and our lives was impaired. We became vulnerable to the deceptions of evil and the often subtle seductions of sin. We lost our way. The path of communion with God (the only path to lasting happiness) became full of obstacles.

God didn’t abandon us in that condition.  He had a plan of salvation designed to guide us back to spiritual health and true happiness. This plan he revealed to us in Christ. And so, what Jesus taught us, and what he continues to teach us through his Church, guided by his Holy Spirit, is not just a list of abstract principles. It always has as its goal guiding us along the path of deeper and deeper communion with God.

The Church’s teachings on morality, then, are connected with a bigger picture: How to fulfill our vocation to live in communion with God. When we keep that in mind, we are better able to deal – patiently and humbly – with the difficulties and struggles we run into.  We are better able to “fix our gaze on Jesus” (Hebrews 3:1), even while striving to understand better the wisdom of his ways.


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