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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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  • Pray Is there someone who inspires feelings of inferiority in you? Offer a Memorare for her intentions.
  • Fast Refrain from self promotion. “The only way to make rapid progress along the path of divine love is to remain very little and to put all our trust in Almighty God. That is what I have done.” -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Give Page through your wedding album with your children today. Remember how loved you felt that day. Love your family well.
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In Case You Missed It

Since Rachel’s talking about Super Bowl ads today, here’s a look at the “offensive” and “demeaning” pro-life commercial starring Tim Tebow and his mom. Kind of makes you wonder what all the fury was about, doesn’t it?


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I’m not sure what all the fuss was about either. They got more attention before the Superbowl then they did during or after. I just about missed it and didn’t realize it was that particular commercial until it was over. I suppose if people went to the website they listed, they would learn more. They didn’t really explain their purpose during the commercial which I thought was odd and unfortunate. That being said,  it was the most decent commercial of the evening! We had to keep changing the channel during the commercials while our 3 year old was still awake.

 

I think it ended up showing how out there and rabid the abortion lobby is.  The bile that was spewed in anticipation of this ultimately very innocuous piece of fluff (ala olympic “human interest” segments we’ll soon be seeing) probably did more for the pro-life cause than an in your face ad would have.

 

Definitely, not much to worry about here. This ad was much better than the GoDaddy.com ads, that’s for sure! LOL!

Maureen: I agree with “it ended up showing how out there and rabid the abortion lobby is.” I even saw such comments on friends’ facebook pages. It made me think, “Wow! I have this many friends who think this way? Sad.” I changed my status to “What’s so wrong with respect for LIFE?” Yeah, didn’t get much fight from that - and I usually get several comments on my statuses….

 

I was disappointed that it was so low-key.  I was expecting them to tell the story about how she was told her baby would have severe deformities and that she should abort, and how she chose life instead and gave birth to a perfectly healthy baby boy.

But, I guess it did cause such a stir before-hand, that the story got out somewhat anyhow.

 

They can’t even admit they were wrong now:

NOW president Terry O’Neill said it glorified violence against women. “I am blown away at the celebration of the violence against women in it,” she said. “That’s what comes across to me even more strongly than the anti-abortion message. I myself am a survivor of domestic violence, and I don’t find it charming. I think CBS should be ashamed of itself.”

 

what the heck commercial did she watch?  that is the most insane, unrelated to the actual ad comment i’ve ever heard.

bizzare!

 

If they’re so upset about the Tebow ad I sure hope that they’re protesting against this Snickers ad: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NEH1omnG77c….violence against women, men and the elderly!!!!  Geez!

 

Tim Tebow is AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Enough said.  smile

 

Glad they aired it, sad it was not done better.  It was very weak in content and what the point was.  It sounded to me like a pro health commercial, nothing wrong with that, just not didn’t have much of a point in my opinion.  I personally thought the tackle was cheesy!

 

People had a problem with THAT!?  I’m a bit miffed that none of the details of their story were divulged.  You have such a large audience and yet you do not even mention how his life was in danger?  Personally, I think Focus on the Family was a bit weak here.  Maybe now, however, people will realize just how extreme the so-called feminists at NOW and PP are.

 

LOL! The pro-aborts did more for the cause of life with the furor they created than that mild commercial! They only showed how anti-life they really are. I thought the tackle was cute and in keeping with the secular expectations of SB commercials.

 

If you didn’t know the intent was pro-life, I don’t think the commercial tells you.  As far as the tackle being “violence againest women” maybe the woman who said that never had children or at least children who played.

 

After finally watching the ad, I was severly disappointed.  They really missed an opportunity to put forth a powerful ad that so many people were keen on seeing.  It was so subtle, that if you hadn’t heard the story previously, you wouldn’t have an idea what their message was.  At least the controversy pre-commercial airing did a good job of pointing out the hypocrisy of the “pro-choice” crowd. 
I really wish it had been a Catholic Vote Action commercial.  They always make powerful beautiful pro-life commercials with a clear message.

 

While it was pretty light on content, I felt that the commercial was appropriate and really, all the pro-life work was done *before* it showed for the Super Bowl!  NOW coming back and saying that it glorifies domestic violence is like the lame comeback a bully pulls out after being put in his place. 
I saw the commercial and thought, “really?”  That’s what NOW and the pro-aborts have their panties in a wad about?  How silly.

 

I actually DID miss it. I was trying to watch for it but it must have aired during one of the times I blinked =P I had to look it up online and when I finally saw it thought to myself “Oh…that’s IT?” It was nice but…I feel like it could have been better. Could have told the story better.

 

I too was disappointed with how weak the commercial came off—BUT, given the furor this ad drew, I wonder if anything more pointed would have been shown at all. In the end, the stupidity of pro-aborts made the message very clear. I bet a lot of people found out the rest of the story after seeing the ad and saying, “What’s all the fuss about?”

 

The problem with this is that unless you are prolife or antilife you probably didn’t hear too many ramblings before the game over this ad.  It really missed a great opportunity to catch the hearts of MANY people out there who are relativistic in their minds and the teens, college age youth, etc..  We have truly become a weak nation, afraid to say much for the sake of everyone.  I wish Focus on the Family would have been more creative at airing a super bowl ad than this!

 

Woman is tackled by her Heisman trophy winning son, gets up without skipping a beat and gently chides him for interrupting her, and they call that glorifying domestic violence. All I see is one tough Mama.

I’m glad the ad was so mild.  I agree with those above who point out the pro-aborts’ rabid reaction to anything hinting that “choice” might actually mean letting your baby live.  The bottom line for them is that all pro-life speech must be squelched, so when a pro-life group takes out air time during the most watched TV show of winter, they have to stop it.  Or try to, anyway. 

While true that many people may not have heard the controversy surrounding the ad, many of them may have been in a social setting with others who have.  I’ll bet the conversations following the ad were interesting, and since the ad was so mild, the vast majority of folks would agree that there was nothing offensive requiring censoring.  Score one for the pro-life movement.

 

Michelle said, “All I see is one tough Mama.”

The best part of the ad was the end, when she said to her son that yes, she still worried about him—“you’re not nearly as tough as I am.” And listening to her story, I think I believe her. It’s a witness to strong women that I found appealing.

 

I think all of us who were wishing for a more powerful ad might be forgetting last year’s attempt. Do you remember the ad “Life, imagine the potential?” highlighting the birth of President Obama, featuring a sonogram image? It wasn’t approved by the network, and didn’t air even though the money was there to pay for it.
I think Focus on the Family did the right thing here. Totally innocuous ad, no reason for the newtork to reject it, and all the buzz and hysteria before it aired, getting the real message out. To me, it was the perfect way to work the imperfect system. Yes, they could have had a more powerful ad, but it would have never gotten aired so who would have won then? I think the pre-air debate spoke volumes about the so-called “pro-choice” position revealing it to really be pro-death, not honoring a mother’s choice to give life. Even some left-leaning columnists called them on this, now that’s what I call a powerful ad.

 

The ad itself is definitely tame! smile

The only thing that confuses me about the whole Tim Tebow story is that they were in the Philippines - where abortion has been illegal since 1930…so why would someone there tell them to get an abortion?

 

Euthanasia is still (mostly) illegal here but doctors and nurses still advise and perform it sometimes. Even more so, I dare say, with abortion before Roe v. Wade. Its illegality did not prevent its practice. Same would be true, I suppose, in other countries.


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