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Danielle Bean

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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her work, the two …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com, a Catholic web site focusing on the Catholic faith, Catholic parenting and family life, and Catholic cultural topics. Most recently she has authored The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also employed as webmaster for her parish web sites. …
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Arwen Mosher

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Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

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Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord

Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Elizabeth Foss

Elizabeth Foss
Elizabeth Foss, an award winning columnist for the Arlington Catholic Herald, published her first book, Real Learning: Education in the Heart of My Home in 2003. The book is now in its third printing. Her popular blog, In the Heart of My Home is a source of inspiration and support for Catholic women …
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It's Not About the Scale

But seeing results helps provide motivation...

Last week, I shared with all of you that I had taken myself back to Weight Watchers as my birthday present to myself.  Those of you who have done WW in the past know that sick feeling that comes from falling “off program” and then having to go back at some point in the future and climb back on that scale.  Once the initial weigh-in is behind you, it becomes easier to focus on the journey ahead.

On Monday morning, I woke up bright and early to head to my meeting, after having been back on Weight Watchers for a full seven days.  It’s amazing how your mindset can change in a week if you’re in the right “place” inside your head.  For the two months prior to my birthday, I’d been feeling frustrated beyond measure with my efforts to get this part of my life back under control.  I’d spent that time losing and regaining the same two pounds, teetering on the edge of giving in and letting myself go for good.  “Maybe I’m too old for those… maybe it’s the prescription medication I’m taking… maybe I should just give up,” became my daily mantra.

But the thing is, I truly believe we are never too old to care for ourselves physically, spiritually and emotionally.  While I don’t want to be obsessed with a dress size or fitting into skinny jeans (not gonna happen!), I do want to live a good, long life with my boys and my husband.  Additionally, taking control over my physical health tends to have tremendous overflow into how I feel spiritually and emotionally.  But the bottom line key to it all is prayer - making time every day to commune with the God who loves me so greatly (regardless of my size!) that He will carry my burdens for me if I simply pause long enough to speak with Him.  Asking our Blessed Mother to walk with me has helped too, since she is such a wonderful advocate for us moms!

At my meeting on Monday, a member stood at the front of the room happily announcing her one year anniversary on the program.  During that year, she has lost 87 pounds!  While she still has a journey ahead of her, she spoke of the things that had kept her motivated.  “I will not give up on my health,” she shared, “I will not give up on ME!”  This brave woman’s commitment to a “one day at a time” philosophy is so relevant to many areas of our lives where we may struggle. 

Just for today, give yourself permission to reach out to God for the help you need with whatever may be weighing down upon you - that may be health issues, your marital relationship, a sense of frustration in your vocation, or even the clutter that fills your home or calendar. 

Just for today, focus on one baby step that will help you not give up on yourself.  Name your “issue”, look it in the eye, and take one baby step today to overcome it.  Skip dessert, reach across the table and hold your husband’s hand at dinner, or fill a shopping bag full of things to be donated.  You don’t have to look beyond this one day to all of the struggles that lie in your path ahead—that may cause you to give up before you’ve ever even gotten started.

The progress I saw towards my own goals this week has left me motivated and encouraged.  What can you do today to move one “baby step” ahead along the path to greater joy?  God is waiting to hold your hand along that path if you let Him!


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This is a really great post.  I have struggled with my weight over the last year.  It was just a few months ago that I decided to to something about it.  I know different programs work for different people, but I love something called Transformation it is based on the program, Body For Life started by Bill Phillips.  I did Body For Life before I got married and never felt better. Now, I am starting to feel so great again.  I love the progress I am making.  It is an intense program, but for me, that is what I need or else I have difficulty sticking to it.  There is a Transformation website and online community that offers tons of support.

For me it is a spiritual journey too.  I feel like God is calling me to respect this Temple of the Holy Spirit that He has blessed me with.  It is about baby steps and doing something each day to be healthy and making good choices for yourself.

Thanks for the reminder and the amazing post.

 

Katie, thanks for your kind comments!  Let’s remember one another in prayer, ok?  I have a tough, busy, action packed day before me today and I’ll be offering it up for you and your intentions.  I will likely be writing on this topic in the weeks and months ahead, so I hope you’ll chime in and let me know how you are doing.

 

Thanks!  I am praying for you too!

 

Lisa—I too have gone back to WW after many many years away.  I have been going since January.  I was very dedicated for many months.  The past couple of months I have been struggling with going up and down the same 2-3 pounds.  The baby steps for me right now is not giving up.  In the past, at this point, I would have given up and said “why spend the money when I am not losing”.  I don’t know if it is because I am older and hopefully wiser now, but I refuse to give up.  Whether there is a gain or loss, I am still being a healthier person because I am still attending the meetings. 

Thank you for this post and good luck with your weight loss efforts.

 

This post speaks volumes to me.  I was featured in F&F last issue for my weight loss story.  I too have been struggling with those same 2 to 3 pounds the past couple of months.  Altogether I have lost over 70 pounds, but it is still a struggle for me.  I’m hoping my vacation puts me in a better frame of mind. It’s been a stressful school year.  I haven’t gained, but I’m on “hold”.  Thanks for the reminders!

 

Lisa, thank you for writing about a topic that so many women deal with whether it’s 10 pounds or a 100 pounds, no matter what it is a constant challenge to get to a healthy weight.  I personally need to lose 40 lbs. and on my short frame that is alot.  I need to for health reasons and so it is imperative that I stick with it.  Having discussion and support on this topic is I believe a daily need for many women.

Thanks again and may God bless your journey with him in this endeavor.

 

For those of you online over at Faith & Family Connect, I started a group today called “Heart, Mind, Body & Soul” to discuss topics related to spiritual, mental and physical health.  Would love to have you join us there if you’re interested in these topics.

 

Where can I find your “Heart, Body, Mind and Soul” mentioned in the Faith and Family blog on 6/24/09 ?
Thank you.

 

Kathie and others who want to look into our “Heart, Mind, Body & Soul” group can find it at http://www.connect.faithandfamilylive.com/group/heartmindbodyandsoul

 

Lisa, I commend you for getting back on board and committing to your diet and health!  I was on WW ten years ago, when “Points” first debuted.  I lost 62 pounds in one year.  For the first time in many years I felt really good about my body.  However, I was only able to maintain for 3 years, and then the weight creeped back on.

My problem with all of these diet plans is that you have to stick their system in order to keep the weight off.  It’s easy to take the weight off if you focus, but keeping it off is the real challenge.  And after a while, I just get so tired of counting and measuring and writing things down.  I think this is why I go up and down.

I am now trying to take a new approach and incorporate God into my struggle to reduce my weight.  I have been inspired by the “Light Weight,” the “Weigh Down Diet” and the “French Women Don’t Get Fat” books. 

Eating only when you are hungry and then offering it up makes so much more sense, but it’s really hard.  Has anybody else tried these and been successful?

 

The only problem with Weight Watchers is that you are making the food behave, not following the signals of hunger and fullness that God has place in our bodies and we have ignored for years.  I think that is why we “fall off” the program.

 

Thank you Lisa for reminding me to take that first baby step in my struggles today, not with weight, but something else just as important!


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