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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is editor-in-chief of Catholic Digest and Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her …
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Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the author of A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also enjoys speaking around the country, is employed as webmaster for her parish web sites and spends time on various …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their 4-year-old daughter, 2-year-old son, and twin boys born May 2011. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is a 30-something, single lady, living in Connecticut in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law and six kids ... and two doors down are her parents. She received her undergraduate degree from …
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DariaSockey
Daria Sockey is a freelance writer and veteran of the large family/homeschooling scene. She recently returned home from a three-year experiment in full time outside employment. (Hallelujah!) Daria authored several of the original Faith&Life Catechetical Series student texts (Ignatius Press), and is currently a Senior Writer for Faith&Family magazine. A latecomer …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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Lent 2011: Decisions, Decisions, Decisions

Where is God in the process?

It’s Ash Wednesday. So of course I’ve decided what to “do” and “not do” for Lent 2011. Or so I thought.

All set. Got it covered. It’s gonna be great. Er, or not.

Every time I’ve turned around during the last 2 days, I’ve see another great post or I’m privy to another lively conversation in which people are saying, “Here are some ideas for enriching your Lenten journey.” It’s a tremendous blessing to have access to so many wonderful faith resources.

And almost every time, it goes something like this: “I don’t need this idea; I’ve got it covered! I already KNOW what will enrich my Lenten journey. … Oooh, that’s a cool book for Lenten reflection. Maybe I could do that, too. Hey, sacrifice beads; I forgot all about those. I’m totally adding that onto my list.”

In recent years, I’ve done a better job of deciding how I can live Lent with a focus on deeper levels of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. But it’s often MY focus, not GOD’s. And, coming out of my own addled brain, the ideas always seem to fall short.

Often I’m well into the season when I finally listen to the Lord speaking to me. It’s only then that I finally get the “Aha!” that makes the difference between a liturgical season of random, scattered commitments that only frustrate me — and one that truly brings me closer to the Lord by Easter.

Does this happen to you? Or do you ask God in from the start? How does that affect your Lenten journey? 

I do feel content with (and challenged by) my resolutions this year. But as part of my Ash Wednesday fast, I’m going to spend some more time listening for heaven’s voice today. And I should probably back slowly away from the computer until tomorrow. I don’t want to get any more ideas about the “perfect” thing to do for Lent …


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