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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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Lessons from the Amish

Easy ways to add fitness to your day

Have you ever eaten an Amish meal? Have you ever wondered why people who regularly indulge in butter, cream, sugar, and carbs of all kinds are not obese?

Turns out it’s because they work so darn hard.

Four years ago we discovered that the Amish maintained super-low obesity levels despite eating a diet high in fat, calories and refined sugar. They key was their level of physical activity — men averaged 18,000 steps a day, women 14,000. That’s monumental compared to the paltry couple of thousand or so most of us eke out in a day.

I think of it as the Farmer Boy syndrome. If you’ve read the book, you’ve no doubt wondered if the Wilder family was obese, what with all the pies for breakfast and doughnuts for snacking going on in their household. Half of the book might have been about all the delicious foods the Wilders ate, but the the other half was about all the hard work they did on their family farm every day of the year.

The good news from all of this is the discovery that exercise doesn’t only “work” if you do it for 30 minutes a day, 6 days a week. It can work in little ways that you add more physical activity to your daily routines. Some suggestions:

1. Take a break. If you watch TV or sit a computer for great lengths of time, get up and move at regular intervals. Once per hour, stand and stretch, jump, do some squats, jumping jacks, or leg lunges. Bonus: You’ll feel alert and refreshed.

2. Get to work. Take your cue from the Amish and add some manual labor to your day. Scrub the bathtub, change the sheets, do some yard work, de-clutter your car, or clean out a closet. Bonus: The housework gets done.

3. Play with your kids. Give your kids piggy back rides, teach them to do cartwheels, jump rope, take a walk, throw a ball, or just turn on some music and dance around the house for 10 minutes. Bonus: Your kids will think you’re the best.

4. Take the stairs. Don’t set up your days to avoid as much physical activity as possible. Take a few extra trips up and down the stairs or into other rooms to get things or put things away during the day instead of having a child do it for you. Bonus: Your household stays in order.

5. Plow a field. Okay, just kidding about that one. But I do have a chicken coop over here that you are welcome to come by and clean out anytime next week. Bonus: I’ll be your best friend.

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Comments

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So…what you’re saying is…while I am surfing the net, I should put the donut down?  I don’t get it smile  HA!

 

My favorite is when I go to the gym and see people driving around waiting for a closer parking space (was that “people” or was that me? I can’t remember). But it occured to me that if people/I would park further away—ta-dah—more of a workout!

 

Another thing I’ve noticed in my area is that there are no fat postal carriers (mail has to be delivered to front door, no homes have driveway mailboxes, so all postal carriers walk a lot).  Just by getting out and walking, can do wonders!

 

My midwife pointed out something interesting to me, and I think it applies to the Amish, and maybe to Caroline Ingalls and such.  She said that urban people (and that includes suburban America) are shallow breathers.  Agrarian people, who work outdoors all day, regularly engage in the kind of “belly breathing” that the mall walkers (like me) have to learn in a special 12 week class.  Good for birthing, and for keeping fit too.

 

I’m always amazed that I can stay plump, shall we say (lol), with four little kids! The truth is that I don’t often do any hard physical labor though. Great post!

 

With all due respect to Danielle (who has the best of intentions), I would caution against putting much stock in the various studies you hear about in the media. Much of it is overblown and oversimplified. Reporters typically don’t have the training to identify good science vs. mediocre or bad science. Nor do they typically understand when it’s appropriate to talk about cause-and-effect.

You simply can’t get at cause-and-effect without experimental studies. And the surprising thing is that experimental studies have never provided much evidence for the widely held belief (these days) that exercise helps you lose weight. There are plenty of examples of people groups who do a lot of manual labor, yet are fat. In Western cultures, the poor have the highest rates of obesity—not because they’re the most sedentary, but because they tend to eat the cheapest foods, which have a lot of refined carbs.

I’m not very familiar with the two Amish studies mentioned in the link, but from what I’ve read it appears that in neither of them was the diet of the participants actually part of the study. And both studies were correlational, not experimental. Big difference.

Although physical activity may indeed have benefits, helping you lose weight is not necessarily one of them. The much bigger issue is the type of food we eat, the quality (not so much the quantity) of the calories. More than any other factor, consumption of refined carbs seems to be what makes us fat. And I think that’s important for people to know—especially all those who have felt like failures because exercising doesn’t really help them maintain a healthy weight.

 

My family just took a mini-vacation in Lancaster County, PA.  I suspect that in addition to expending more calories thru physical activity and not having tons of refined carbs in their diet, the Amish cooking also doesn’t have all of the other chemical junk in convenience foods we “English” eat.  (Well, except for one family we saw in Arby’s - I still can’t figure that out!)  In addition to generally appearing lean, those folks had lovely complexions.  I envy their dedication to living simpler and eating “clean” (and especially if that could occasionally include shoo-fly pie!)

 

I live in Amish Country (Ohio) and love eating Amish food!

Our neighbors are Amish and they do a lot of walking!  Recently they all got new bicycles.

I agree that we can learn a lot from the Amish.  We live such fast-paced lives.  Think of all the reflection we could do if we had to take a three hour buggy ride to get somewhere.  Think of the beauty we could see along the way.

My grandparents used to drive the Amish on long trips.  When my grandparents passed away this year, there were so many from the Amish community who came to pay their respects.  It was really awesome.

Well, I could go on-and-on about how the Amish way of life could improve our lives in (some) ways.

 

I love your first suggestion “Take a break”. I’m gonna print it our and stick it to my monitor.


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