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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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Lisa Hendey’s 10 Most Fascinating Catholics of 2008

Who would you add to the list?

I’d love to have the ability once per year to sit down with the ten most fascinating Catholics of the year for a one-to-one conversation just like Barbara Walters does each year.  Enhanced by soft, warm lighting and a fuzzy camera focus, I’d look fabulous sitting down across from each year’s movers and shakers of the Church.

I spent some time this week contemplating my picks for 2008 and have come up with this year’s “Lisa Hendey’s Most Fascinating Catholics of 2008”.  I’m sure EWTN will be calling me any day to arrange my flight to Mother Angelica’s studios for taping.  But in the mean time, here are my picks for this year, five men and five women, in no particular order (except the first, obviously!).

1.  Pope Benedict XVI - He moved hearts and captivated our imaginations with his visit to the United States in 2008.  His writings, his homilies and his general presence inspire me to try to be a better, more loving and giving Catholic.

2.  Sister Helena Burns - Otherwise known as the “Media Nun”, Sister Helena runs a blog called “Hell Burns” (catchy title, huh?) and is one of the most forward thinking media minds I know.  This Daughter of St. Paul is constantly on the lookout for new uses of media to evangelize.  Next time you’re in Chicago, look her up at the Pauline Book and Media Center on Michigan Avenue.  You’ll be inspired!

3.  Fr. Frank Pavone  - National Director, Priests for Life and Missionaries of the Gospel of Life; President, National Pro-life Religious Council; and Pastoral Director, Rachel’s Vineyard, Fr. Pavone is a tireless advocate for the right to life of every person.  I admire Fr. Pavone’s endless conviction and courage.

4.  Teresa Tomeo - Author, speaker, internationally syndicated radio show host and just generally cool woman Teresa Tomeo wrote one of my favorite books of 2008.  Her openness and honesty in Newsflash: My Surprising Journey from Secular Anchor to Media Evangelist makes it the type of book that has the power to bring countless souls back into our Church.  If you haven’t read it yet, do so immediately, and buy a copy for a friend!

5.  Matt Maher - In 2008, Matt launched his groundbreaking CD Empty and Beautiful and played for Pope Benedict XVI’s visits to the United States and to World Youth Day.  He continues to travel the world, spreading his faith and inspiring the young and the young at heart through the gift of his music.  As I stood in the crowd during Matt Maher’s performance at the Los Angeles Religious Education Congress and listened to his music with tears streaming down my face, I had the realization that God put Matt on this earth to share his tremendous gifts of spirit and song.  When I need a mini retreat, all I have to do is pop in Matt’s CD and I’m moved to prayer.

6.  Sarah Bauer - If Matt’s music moved me to tears in 2008, Sarah Bauer’s made me smile and helped me to complete a marathon.  Her CD “Radiance” is, without contest, the most played on my iPod.  In 2008, Sarah married Christopher Sansone, her co-writer and the love of her life.  Her infectious music and amazing ability to capture emotion in song make her my favorite female Catholic recording artist of 2008.

7.  Mark Shea - When you say “Catholic blogger” the name Mark Shea is one of the first that comes to my mind.  In 2008, I had the tremendous opportunity to meet Mark in person at the Catholic New Media Celebration and was bowled over by both his wit and his humility.  This spot on my “most fascinating list” was a toss up between Mark Shea and Jeff Miller, the Curt Jester, but Mark let me drive him around in my rental car when we were in Atlanta, so he won the coin toss this year. 

8.  Jennifer Willits - Jennifer Willits, the better half (sorry Greg!) of Sirius/XM radio’s popular show “The Catholics Next Door”, had a breakout year in 2008.  This popular star of the viral hit “That Catholic Show”, Jennifer transitioned from podcaster to radio personality with style and grace.  Jennifer truly is the mom next door who shares all aspects of her faith with wit, honesty and an open heart.  This lovely mother of four boys will welcome her first daughter in 2009.

9. Fr. Roderick Vonhögen - Founder and CEO of the Star Quest Production Network (SQPN.com), Fr. Roderick ministers to a virtual parish around the globe every day through his “Daily Breakfast” podcast.  Fr. Roderick recognized early on the tremendous potential of using new media to evangelize to the masses.  He is one of the most holy men I’ve ever met, plus he speaks multiple languages fluently, has boundless energy, and is a kid at heart.  Fr. Roderick inspires me and so many others to live life to its fullest every day.

10.  Danielle Bean - Admit it moms, we all want to be Danielle Bean when we grow up.  Faith filled wife and mom of eight, homeschooler, editor of a major magazine and the most popular Catholic mom blog on the web, author and speaker, Danielle is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.  We’re all trying to figure out how she “does it all” even though she keeps telling us she doesn’t.  I’d like to interview Danielle for my “most fascinating” special so that we could have a slumber party afterward and stay up all night chatting.

So that’s it - that’s my list.  It’s so tough to narrow the list to ten, so I’d love to invite your suggestions and additions.  If you could sit under Barbara Walter’s lovely lighting, what Catholic personality would you like to chat with about the amazing year that was 2008?  What would you ask that person?  Who do you think might be on the list for 2009 and why?


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Lisa, I don’t have any other people to add but I just HAD to comment & 2nd your #10 choice of Danielle Bean.  Just this week, I was telling my sil how I wish I could be more like Danielle…and I “only” have 4 kids but can’t seem to keep a handle on things like she does.  I had a rough week to be sure but still…I have to wonder how she “does it all” (we homeschool as well but I don’t “work” for a paycheck)...and try as I might, I can’t help but be a tiny bit (okay, maybe more than that ~ lol) jealous of how together she seems to be.  Anyway, GREAT list & God bless your Advent!!!

 

Father Corapi - excellent teacher and great personal story

 

This may not be ‘allowed by the rules’—but I’d like to nominate Fr. Michael Scanlan AND the entire faculty and staff of Franciscan University at Steubenville. What a TEAM and what a wonderful contribution to the Church and the Catholic faith community at large. Does this allow me to put a vote in for each of the 325 names? Blessings. dt

 

....and follow-up comment on Danielle….she doesn’t need the “soft focus” to “do it all beautifully” either!!!

 

As much as I agree that I love Danielle Bean’s blog, as well as all the writers of Faith and Family,  I would be inclined to add you, Lisa, to the “Fascinating 10” list.  To be a Mom and wife, to face the diagnosis of cancer (however treatable) and to still witness and praise God in spite of it all with hope and courage and Faith…YOU DESERVE TO BE #1!!!

 

Eduardo Versategui!  Yes, Bella came out last year, but Eduardo has not been silent.  He continues to speak out about the evil of abortion.  What a role model!

 

Wow, Lisa! What an honor to be included on your list! I agree, though, that you should be on this list—faithful, powerful Catholic mom that you are. I would LOVE to hang out with you, the pope, and Eduardo in the blue room! wink

 

How about Archbishop Chaput?

 

Well—I’m not from Chicago—but if no one is looking, I’ll vote again: I second the name of Archbishop Chaput… Awesome recommendation. Great pastoral leader! dt

 

I love the suggestions and your kindness, but how would it look if Barbara interviewed herself??  I’m not eligible, since I’ll be the one asking all of the fascinating questions!

Also, Deacon Tom this is one election where you’re allowed to stuff the ballot box if you’d like!

 

Great choices! I know it had to be difficult to limit it to ten.  Am I the only person who didn’t know about Hell Burns? Better go check it out!

 

I’m not so sure about that Jennifer Willits woman…

smile

 

Greg, I think you’re just jealous because she’s more fascinating than you are this year.  Lisa

 

I second, or is it third…the nomination of Archbishop Chaput.

 

I would add Theresa Banks of Palm City Fl. In 1999 she helped to found Light of the World Charities, a non denominatial non profit organization that provides free surgery to the poor in Comayagu a Honduras. The organization sends seven surgical brigades each year to Honduras and one brigade to Tanzania Africa.

 

I have to second the inclusion of Teresa Tomeo.  Having worked with her on her “All Things Girl” book series, this woman is clearly on a mission from God!  Every fiber of her being wants to make sure that young girls today are grounded in their Catholic faith and steeped in the Truth of Christ.  This woman runs circles around everyone I know and still has time to “kibbitz” on the air about the things that matter in our lives.  She is the epitome of “feminine genius.”

 

These all sound like great choices. I would nominate several unknowns who’ve helped our struggling diocese in the past few hard years.
But I’m also thinking about how we are each called to be saints and how hard that really is.
Minnesota Mom had an anonymous quote up:

I want to be the kind of person who, when my feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan says. “Oh no she’s awake.”

 

I am unbelievably excited and amazed!  I got this google alert at a conference this weekend and was totally uplifted, Lisa!!!  Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!

 

Sarah, you deserve a lot of uplifting for all of the joy you’ve added to my life through your music!

 

Wow, cool list Lisa. I hope you make this an annual event.

Hey, maybe you can just take your Flip and make a series of YouTube videos of interviews with the top ten Catholics of the year. Wouldn’t that be fun!

I thought about adding my own suggestion for your list, but gosh there are just too many way too Catholics for me to narrow it down to one much less ten. I hope you didn’t have too many sleepless nights making this list grin.

God bless you and all your wonderful works.

 

I have to vote for Arch. Bish.  Chaput, and Burke.  Also, Fr. Mitch Pacwa from EWTN, and Fr. Benedict Groeschel also on EWTN.

 

Mary, I LOVE that quote you shared and complete agree about the unsung heroes and parish priests who serve without any reward and with much sacrifice.  Brady, I agree with all of your suggestions and have seen these names on many of the lists appearing around the internet.  We are blessed to have holy priests like these men!

 

Chalk up another vote for our Holy Father.  And Archbishop Chaput.  And Frs. Pacwa and Groeschel.  And how about one for Mother Angelica (who continues to instruct us from behind cloister walls)?  May God bless them all!

Lisa, I think you have the makings of more than a “special”.  How about a weekly series?

 

Hey Lisa!  Thanks!  If I’d known my sponging off you was going to make me fascinating I’d have asked to borrow twenty bucks too! smile  It was a real pleasure and honor getting to spend time with you (and with several of the other folk on you list who were at the confab in GA!)  I especially enjoyed the chance to hang out with the Willetses and Co..  Those guys are a hoot!  Thanks for your all-around goodness, Lisa!

One of these days, you’ll need to meet Dale Ahlquist, the President of the American Chesterton Society.  I would call him “fascinating” exactly.  But he is surely one of the funniest, wisest and humblest guys I’ve ever known.  Add him to your list!

 

Blech!  Aren’t these the same names you could have used ANY year?  And the suggestions in the comments are the same.  I’m not meaning to be critical, but just raising the question: Is there anything new under the sun?

 

Fantastic, I am glad to see all those greats on your list! It is also a good way to inform all of us readers of great people we may not be familiar with!! I think I will have to add some cd’s to my Christmas list!

 

Stephen, I’d love to hear your ideas for nominations. Would be great to hear about new and upcoming fascinating Catholics.

 

I would also like to add Theresa Banks to this great list.  I call her “Mother Theresa” and that’s because she has the same great mission in her life that Mother Theresa did.  She has set up an amazing organization that has helped thousands of poor people in Honduras who can’t afford surgery.  They have built a beautiful hospital and we will be going on 7-week long missions throughout this year.  Check out the website; lightoftheworldcharities.com

 

Pope Benedict and Father Frank Pavone are the only ones Iv’e ever heard of. Could you please give us numbers 11-20?

 

Pope Benedict and Father Frank Pavone are the only ones I’ve ever heard of. Could you please give us numbers 11-20?

 

Lisa, this is a great list and a great idea!  EWTN should call you VERY soon.

For the next ten, I’d add Cardinal Sean O’Malley.  He has an incredible sense of being pastor and priest not only to the people of the Boston Archdiocese but also to the Church as a whole.  He is also, as far as I know, the only regular (weekly) blogger among the entire College of Cardinals.  If you (or others) aren’t familiar with his blog, I recommend checking it out (there’s a link on the sidebar of my blog for easy reach).

Thanks again for this wonderful idea.

Blessings, Lisa,
From, (another) Lisa

 

Dr. Alveda King.  Niece of Martin Luther King Jr. Pastoral Associate to Priests for Life, and most effective African American critic of abortion (individually and the industry of the Culture of Death) in this cournty.


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