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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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Lisa Hendey's Most Fascinating Catholics of 2009

Who would you add to the list?

Last year, I wrote a little blog post disclosing my secret wish to sit on Barbara Walter’s softly-focused couch and conduct interviews with some of the Catholic newsmakers of the year.  While I’m still waiting for EWTN or Catholic TV to call me to arrange filming, that little post created a bit of a stir.  Bloggers around the Catholic Internet chimed in with their picks and pans.  This year, I decided to go for a more open approach to my selections and to seek input from the vox populi. 

This year’s list is comprised of many of your suggestions, mixed in with a few of my own selections.  Here, in no particular order, are the folks I’d love to interview for my blockbuster special “Lisa Hendey’s 10 Most Fascinating Catholics of 2009”. 

1.  The Priest - When I asked my Facebook and Twitter friends this week to chime in with their suggestions, a few trends immediately emerged.  In fact, this year’s list of fascinating Catholics could have been comprised entirely of priests—parish priests, media priests, archbishops, and of course our beloved Pope Benedict XVI. It feels almost wrong to create a “top ten” list and not have the Holy Father at the top of the list. I do believe, however, that when Pope Benedict XVI proclaimed this the “Year for Priests”, he fully intended that we shine a bright spotlight upon these heroic men who do so much for us and for our Church.  From the parish priest who is the face of the Church to so many of us each week, to those modern day evangelists who embrace the latest technology to carry our traditions to the ends of the earth, our priests are the lifeblood that keeps our faith strong and growing.  Since my couch isn’t large enough to seat all of them, Pope Benedict XVI has arranged a little party for them in Rome in June, 2010.  Holy Father, I’d be happy to come to your gathering of priests from around the world and conduct my interviews in person!  Until, then, please insert the name of your favorite priests in the comments below and join me in spending the next six months in fervent prayer for these superheroes of the Church.

2.  Dr. Mary Ann Glendon - Harvard Law Professor and former United States Ambassador to the Holy See, Mary Ann Glendon made news around the world when she declined the prestigious Laetare Medal from the University of Notre Dame in opposition to the University’s decision to confer an honorary degree upon selected graduation speaker, President Barak Obama.  Dr. Glendon’s bold stand for her beliefs was part of a major controversy that swirled around my Alma Mater this year.  I respect Dr. Glendon’s intellect, personal strength and commitment to pro-life feminism. 

3.  Most Reverend Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap - Renowned around the country as a respected spiritual leader, the Archbishop of Denver released his bestseller Render unto Caesar: Serving the Nation by Living Our Catholic Beliefs in Political Life this year.  He continues to provide a voice of clarity on controversial issues at a time when American Catholics are greatly in need of a strong shepherd. 

4.  Sr. Prudence Allen, R.S.M., PhD - This year, I had the opportunity to interview Sr. Prudence following the release of The Foundations of Religious Life:  Revisiting the Vision, a book she co-authored with fellow members of the Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious.  An academic, an author, and a noted lecturer, Sr. Prudence’s sharings about her conversion to the faith and subsequent vocation to the religious life have inspired many.

5.  Newt Gingrich - Love him or hate him politically, there is no denying that Newt Gingrich’s conversion to Catholicism in March, 2009 was fascinating.  Gingrich and his wife Callista have called Pope Benedict XVI’s visit to the United States a turning point in a conversion process that was “10 years in the making”.  For so many of us who live in marriages where one spouse is not Catholic, Mr. Gingrich’s conversion story is a beacon of hope.

6.  Donna-Marie Cooper O’Boyle - I often have to remind myself that I’ve never actually met Donna-Marie in person, since she feels like a spiritual sister to me.  This year, Donna-Marie added to her tremendous collection of books with the publication of Mother Teresa and Me: Ten Years of Friendship.  This mom of five found time in 2009 to travel to the Vatican, do major work on two books, speak around the country, and minister to moms daily through her prolific blogging efforts.

7.  Matthew Warner - My friend Danielle Bean recently said of Matthew, “he is the future of American Catholicism, in my opinion—young, cool, super-smart, driven, connected and 100% Catholic”.  I couldn’t have put it better!  This founder of TweetCatholic.com and FlockNote really “gets it” - he understands both the importance of and how to implement the call to the New Evangelization.  Matthew was also the driving force behind “Support a Catholic Speaker Month” which saw 100 bloggers come together to promote the work of 100 Catholic speakers.  I can’t wait to see what Matthew Warner accomplishes in 2010.

8.  Rachel Campos-Duffy - The ultimate Catholic mom of five was all over the place in 2009 with the launch of her book Stay Home, Stay Happy and her work as a conservative spokesperson and a prolific columnist and blogger.  Rachel is beautiful, talented and a brave spokeswoman for her Catholic faith. 

9.  Fr. John Corapi - While I haven’t had the pleasure of attending one of his sold-out conferences in person, his dynamism and incredible faith pour out in his radio and television appearances.  I’ve had more than one person credit the work of Fr. Corapi with causing their conversion or re-commitment to Catholicism.  I’d love to interview Fr. Corapi and then bottle his energy, passion and incredible communication abilities.  Amazing!

10.  His Excellency, Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan - Installed as Archbishop of New York on April 15, 2009, Archbishop Dolan was a popular choice among the nominations for this year’s list.  A signer of the Manhattan Declaration, Archbishop Dolan is a spiritual leader with tremendous charisma.  I would love to have the opportunity to meet him in person, and look forward to watching his work unfold in the Archdiocese of New York in the years to come.

As always, confining this list to ten souls is always a challenge.  If you’d like to see some of the “honorable mentions” for this year’s list, please visit my Facebook page.  I would also love your comments below on who you would place on this list - there are so many “fascinating Catholics” out there just waiting to be spotlighted!  Please chime in with your recommendations, your favorite priests, and your thoughts on this year’s selections.

And to my own personal “fascinating Catholics”, those unnamed and unknown men and women who inspire me on a daily basis, thank you for being you!


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How about Francis Cardinal George of Chicago?  The USCCB seems to be more active in taking strong public stands on moral issues since he has presided over it.
TeaPot562

 

I’d add Kristin Armstrong, Edaurdo Verastegui, Gary Sinise and Jon Voight to the list. They are AWSOME!!!!!

 

I’d add Fr. Andrew Ricci, currently parish priest in Superior, Wisconsin!

 

You did this last year Lisa and it was thought-provoking and interesting—and here you’ve done it again. We might add a favorite name or two or change the pecking order—no matter. One after-thought was to create an emeritus position to honor the name of someone who is perennial—not just of 2009. And if you considered doing that, I’d recommend Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen. Or heavens sake: John Paul II, the Great.  Blessings.

 

ITA! JP2 and Fulteen J. Sheen, were AWSOME!!!!
Chantell Snyder

 

Fr. Robert Barron from the Archdiocese of Chicago.  He has a gift of speaking and is using his gifts to reach out to the world in modern media.  He frequently posts videos on You Tube from his ministry, Word on Fire.  He is also working on a documentary series to be released next year that depicts the Catholic faith from a truly Catholic perspective, ‘The Catholicism Project.’  I can hardly wait to see it. http://wordonfire.org/

 

I second the nomination for Fr Barron.

 

I agree, Fr. Barron!

 

I have to vote for my bishop, Bishop Thomas Tobin from the Diocese of Providence for his leadership regarding abortion and the politician.  His public dialogue with Congressman Patrick Kennedy has stirred quite an interesting discussion in wether politicians should vote based on their personal beliefs or what their constituents believe.  He also made the point of what being a Catholic, and portraying yourself as a Catholic, should really mean.  It was fascinating, riveting and incredibly uplifting to finally see the church stand up to this politician and to all politicians who claim to be Catholic and then deride their faith.  He also published a book this year and named the upcoming year a year for evangelization, which is really energizing parishes to reach out to former Catholics and all people to discover the wonders of our faith.

 

Beth, thanks for your great suggestion - Bishop Tobin was definitely on our list of honorable mentions!  I agree that he is a wonderful Bishop!

 

Great list: thought-provoking and, of course, much too short to capture all those who deserve to be mentioned.  Well done!

 

I must say that Thomas Peter’s being left off this list is a glaring error.  I hate to speculate why, but his influence is felt across the entire spectrum of Catholicism, and his influence has been evident in how effective American Papist has been informing Catholics of relevant events, and it was very evident in the events leading up to Obama’s ND address.

 

No conspiracy, Shmikey. I think Thomas Peters makes a great addition to this list. Working with a limited number and knowing there were potential omissions is the reason Lisa solicited readers’ input in the comments.

 

Shmikey, I am a great admirer of Thomas Peters’ work - you’ll find him listed in the honorable mention nominees on my Facebook page.  In fact, I featured Thomas in an article a few weeks ago on my top Catholic Tech highlights of 2009 - you can find that article at http://woman.catholicexchange.com/2009/12/16/2695/  I agree that American Papist remains a “go to” resource for news and information.  Maybe next year’s list needs to include twenty names!  Thanks for mentioning Thomas in the comments.

 

R.
Any top ten list for 2009 that doesn’t have Robbie George of Princeton as a member is missing someone. The pope, Archbishop Chaput, Fr. Corapi, Mary Ann Glendon and Robbie George have enough brain power to equal any other ten people you could name.

 

I have to add Patrick Coffin, the host of the radio show Catholic Answers Live (a daily, call-in radio program that airs on over 100 AM and FM stations across America, on Sirius satellite radio, and on EWTN Global Catholic Radio. And on the Internet, of course.

Patrick Coffin holds a master’s degree in theology from Franciscan University of Steubenville - my alma mater - and I believe his radio show is some fo the best catechesis available today, for Catholics and non-Catholics alike who want to learn about the faith at every level. And he’s just an all-round awesome guy!

(No, I don’t know him at all. This sounds like I work for his PR department but alas - I do not. Just a devoted daily listener to his show.)

 

Rep. Bart Stupak of Michigan

 

I second the nomination of Bart Stupak, a heroic leader and a shining light in this time of darkness.

 

I would like to nominate Msgr Philip Reilly from Brooklyn NY, founder of Helpers of God’s Precious Infants.  Msgr suffered from painful cancer this past year and as soon as he could be back on the streets saving babies, he was back on the streets.  His apostolate in saving babies as a side walk counselor, leader of processions on the streets of NYC, leadership in creating alliances with local police to protect the pro life ministry in the streets, training of new recruits for the pro life movement, recruitment of people to pray for this vital ministry, provision of an excellent prayer book (three hours of life giving prayer and reflection), great Irish spirit and wit, and perserverence all these years make this priest deserving of our prayers of gratitute and support!

 

I rarely see the mention of the work of Lisa Wheeler and her team at Maximus (ww.MaximusMG.com) mentioned. From what I have observed of this team of young, energetic Catholics, they work their butts off to promote the good works of the Church, including such notables as Fr. Robert Barron, the Catholic toy company Wee Believers, Ignatius Press’s 13th Day, the Theology of the Body Institute, the Fireproof film, Holy Family Hospital and dozens of others. They work quietly behind the scenes of these groups, giving them all the promotion and advancement and rarely seeking their own PR.  If there is any group making a difference in the Church today, it is this lady and her amazing team.  She should have made your list Lisa for sure.

 

Great list. I second the vote on Fr. Robert Barron. Another person I thought of is Marcus Grodi of The Coming Home Network. His show The Journey Home on EWTN is awesome and very powerful in helping bring people into the Church and in bringing Catholics home.

 

Ditto on Fr. Barron. Love seeing Archbishop Dolan on the list.  He is very approachable and would be an awesome interview for you Lisa.  As a Milwaukeean, I can tell you that he was extremely popular, well loved and easy to talk to.

I would add up and coming Fr. Don Hying, the Rector of St. Francis de Sales Seminary in Milwaukee to your list.  He’s an outstanding speaker, and a kind, holy and humble man of deep faith.

 

I am speechless, Lisa, but deeply honored to be listed among these amazing people. I am so glad that you began your list with our heroes - the priests! Let’s continue to pray for them as you say. God bless you, Lisa, my “spiritual sister.” I would have put you on this list - right up at the top! May God bless all of the amazing and “fascinating” Catholics who make such a difference in the lives of the people they work with and live with by being Jesus to them and ministering to Jesus in them.

 

JMJ Good idea,and another one.Make a list of those in our Own Parish and listen/talk with them.They’re not famous outside of our parishes because their Work is close to home.Most of those who are famous in the Catholic church today got their start probably at the Parish level,through school(grade,high,college,etc.)parish Involvement,etc. Hopefully they come back to their Parish where they got their Start,Come back to evangalize/teach who knows in time even some Parishes will Disappear like our schools,God’s Houses(Churches) Priests,Laity even some Bishops.We may leave our Parish and Dioceses,Hopefully Never Our Church as a number of us have.It’s Wonderful to become Famous teaching God’s Word and Works worldwide It’s a shame though their’s not more happening at the Local Level where it seems their’s a Barren desert growing.Respectfullly with Love and Prayers.

 

I am thrilled to see Donna on this list. She is indeed a fascinating lady with a quiet but far-reaching influence in the Church in America today. (She has certainly had a positive influence on me!)

 

I would like to nominate every Zambian Priest for using the pulpit to fight injustices in Zambia.  Bravo to the Bishops for the support they give the priests in speaking for the voiceless, and the poor.

 

How about someone in the trenches that no one really knows; the kind of person who lives the Catholic life without fanfare but with absolute love. I nominate Mary Jo Loboda from Dalton, PA who with her husband adopted 7 children (2 different families of siblings) from Russia and then a few years later adopted 3 from Guatemala. She works tirelessly to raise money for the poor in Haiti with Father Rick. She won’t appear on any news cast or on EWTN, but she is a hero in my book, a day-to-day, do-my-daily-duty hero. I am sure that there are others like her throughout the world.

 

I agree, Fr. Barron has made many people I know return home to the Church by challenging them intellectually.

 

Thomas Peters, Eduardo Verastegui and the new and upcoming film crew of “The Human Experience” WOW!!!!!! Grassroots Films might make your 2010!

 

I should have added earlier that I think the the folks at EWTN should be included. There are many at EWTN in the camera view whom we see and hear and many behind the scenes who work tirelessly to present the Catholic faith to us through radio and television. They are a great bunch too. I love working with them!

 

I want to give a plug to one of my friends who has had a great impact for the Church.  Stephen Ray has the best Catholic DVD series, “The Footprint’s of God” I have ever seen.  In my experience, these movies have aided me in bringing several people to the Catholic Faith.  His Message Board has grown considerably from the time he had invited me to sign on.  He is certainly one of the top Apologists of our time!

 

Fr. Cheney at St. Paul’s Newman Center in Fargo, ND!!!

I had the great opportunity this weekend at the FOCUS Conference in Orlando, FL to celebrate Mass with Archbishop Chaput and then attend a talk of his on the importance of Catholics being involved in politics. Truly a gift to the Church in this age.

 

I second Patrick Coffin!  He is brilliant and has a very gentle manner.  His responses are always very thoughtful and kind.

 

I am coming in late, but I want to nominate Terry Polakovic of ENDOW.  She works (with Sr. Prudence Allen) to produce study guides for JPII’s writings to (and about) women, to be discussed in small groups. Terry, and Endow, have changed my life and the life of many women for the better! (see endowonline.com)


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