all your suggestions are great. The three other things I would mention is razor scooters, mini tramps, and marble racers (those things you assemble and drop marbles down). This last enchants all kids from 3 to 93 and it becomes the center of any gathering. I got mine from Discovery Toys but I think there are cheaper ones out there.
Making a List
Posted by Rachel Balducci in Family on Tuesday, November 15, 2011 12:00 PM
While I’m sure there are those who have finished their Christmas shopping (go you! You’re awesome), I am not one of those people.
I thought it might be nice for the mere mortals among us to share ideas on toys that stand the test of time, in case we’ve got some more shopping to do.
Today: toys for boys!
Here’s my list of a few items that are worth buying, things that last and get used and enjoyed around our home.
1. Large wooden blocks—we purchased these a few years ago and everyone, from the youngest to the oldest love playing with them.
2. Pogo stick—I can’t believe how popular this was. Hours in the driveway. Hours.
3. Bicycle (‘nuf said)
4. Legos—every one of my boys has gone through a Lego stage, some longer than others but they all love them.
5. Capes and tunics—even just large pieces of fabric can be used. I’m amazed at how much dress-ups still get pulled out here.
6. Weapons— not real ones, and only the ones you’re comfortable with your boys having.
7. Ramp—we bought a skateboard ramp a few years ago and now it’s a bike ramp. Not so high that you feel sick watching them ride it, not so low that it seems lame.
8. Musical instruments—the small plastic kind are perfect for an impromptu parade!
9. Art supplies—every boy has an inner Picasso.
10. Things with wheels—hot wheels, small wooden cars, and ramps to send them down.
Of course we have way more stuff around our house, but these are the things that all five of my boys have enjoyed and continue to enjoy.
What about you? What have you found to be tried-and-true gifts that your boys want to play with all the time?
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Wooden train sets. I originally bought just the cheapest track set from IKEA, and added some of the brand name trains and accessories little by little. Very generous family added the pricier accessories at Christmas, and made their gift-giving easier. My son is 8 and got his first trains when he was not even 2. He’s still playing with them.
Action figure sets. My got his first set of knights when he was three and a half. This was also easy to add to every Christmas or Birthday. We now have several armies, orcs, catapults, horses—you name it.
Dinosaurs!
Imaginext and Thomas (or trains of any kind). The Geotrax remote trains are a joy for my 2 year old.
All of my boys love Imaginext, from age 2 to just about 9. And even the 9 year old is on the fence about wanting more for Christmas - though he’s really “too old” for them. And the range of products (dragons to batman to fire fighters) is great as well. And the cost is not bad for the sheer pleasure of the lasting play. We’ve had some of our sets for 4 years now. Which is amazing to me..that my boys are getting that old…which means I am getting that old.
By far the most consistently used Christmas gift my boys have ever received was this set of wooden dominoes my sister bought them when they were 4 yo. http://www.amazon.com/Haba-1172-Domino-race/dp/B0002HYFJI/ref=sr_1_20?ie=UTF8&qid=1321375926&sr=8-20. I have searched high and low for a comparable and reasonably priced set for my now preschooler boy but can’t seem to find exactly what I want anywhere. The twins are 10 now and still play with these dominoes (the reason we need a second set for the younger group). It is amazing all the different ways they have come up with to play with them. A close second would be the big container of Tinker Toys they received that Christmas also. They played with those for years and years.
There were some Lego Rosaries highlighted on this site a few months back which I think would be great for little boys, perhaps in stockings or for St. Nicholas day.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/71437593/green-and-blue-catholic-rosary-made-from?ref=v1_other_1
I can’t get over how cute they are!
Also, my boys LOVE Magnatiles. They were expensive, but they have more than paid for themselves in time spent and creativity inspired. My kids have had them for a year and played with them every day, sometimes for hours at a time. They make new things every day.
http://www.amazon.com/Valtech-Co-2300-Magna-tiles-Piece/dp/B000CBR4X8/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1321377679&sr=8-3
I totally have to back you up on the Magnatiles! I lucked out and picked up a set from the thrift store…I never would have spent that much money before, but I think they are completely worth the money! My boys aged 1-5 nearly come to blows over who gets to play with them. Very creative stuff! Well made! More are on our Christmas wishlist
1. Legos - The best investment we’ve made in any toy.
2. Wooden trains - Another hit. I’m thinking about fishing these out of the attic after Christmas for my four-year-old son.
3. Classic board games—Monopoly, Life, Risk. Our boys and their friends have spent hours and hours enjoying these.
Rachel, ask your readers for ideas for one and two-year-old girls!
One year, during an ultimately frugal Christmas, I bought boxes of mismatched Legos by the pound on ebay. It was great. That helped fill in the Legos from all the kits that had been built, played with then eventually disassembled and put in the bin. LEGOS are fun for all the kids. And they are so creative. (I think I bought about 9 pounds and spent $35.) I might do it again this year. The more the merrier.
Since we were talking about doll houses on the open forum post, a comparable item for my boys was our Fisher Price Castle. It has a drawbridge and a cannon that shoots boulders, and knights and horses. There were add-ons that you could get, a giant, a dragon, etc. My guys spent hours making up stories and playing with the characters in there, and quite often the dolls from the dollhouse would visit. Great for ages 3 to about 10.
We had that castle! Both boys loved it but my older son really got tons of use out of it. He wouldn’t let me give it away, so now it is tucked high in his closet waiting for him to become a dad
We are overhauling castles this year. Had a Little People and some old hand me down one (maybe it was the Fisher Price minus a few parts). Imaginext medieval and samurai castles are coming this year—the old ones will be rehomed. Knights are mixed and matched and matched and mixed with some ninjas thrown in for good measure.
still have a 20yr old handmedown plastic castle but need new knights for 6 yo currently into the set!! So on the lookout for similar replacements if anyone can suggest substitute. Thought about the lego castle set but I think he really wants “real” knight action figures to play with still.
As our boys have gotten older (8-12) we try to give them gifts that support their hobbies. While not toys, exactly, they are recreational…fishing gear in their stockings, a kayak, a family basketball hoop, tickets to hear a musician play or to a theater production etc. Thanks for initiating this post. It is very helpful.
I try to buy stuff to support their hobbies too. My son is 5 1/2 and loves music, singing and dancing. He’s received instruments (drum set, guitars, tamborines, recorder, slide whistle), music lessons and a karaoke machine over the years. Lately my kids love Wii Just Dance for Kids. The songs are wholesome and everyone in the family can play (dance). It’s always a blast. My daughter (age 8) loves Legos,basketball and Little Pet Shop figurines.
Building on the blocks and train ideas, my son received a Melissa & Doug wooden block train a year ago. It is a great combination of blocks + train! My son pushes the train around, rearranges the blocks, takes the blocks off to build other things…and on and on. Here is the link: http://www.amazon.com/Melissa-and-Doug-572-Stacking/dp/B0000658L5/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1321388591&sr=8-2
The only staples missing from the list above (in terms of what my boys loved) are GI Joes and Playmobil sets. Playmobils are pricey, but if you can score a pirate ship or castle on ebay, they are worth it.
We (boys and girls of all ages) LOOOOVE these puppets:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_0_21?url=search-alias=aps&field;-keywords=melissa+and+doug+puppets&sprefix=melissa+and+doug+pupp
*IF the link doesn’t work, search Melissa and Doug puppets.
They’re reasonably priced, great quality and remind me of the Muppets-style puppets. Each child gets one every Christmas. Our favorites for boys: pirate, dragon, firefighter, and chef (he inspires ze French accent every time, no?) Anytime we have company, the puppets make an appearance.
Tried and true favorites here
Geotrax (got the first small set when our oldest was 2, and he and all the siblings have played with them almost daily for 4 years and they’re still in the same condition as when we got them)
Plasma cars -great for outside or basement play
NeoTrax
Some of the playmobile toys too
Helicopter/airplane/jet items are a new fav right now
Unit blocks, wooden train sets, legos, fake swords, nerf guns, Playmobil (both boys and girls), Legos, scooters and ripsticks all get my go ahead. We just got a new set of “weapons” for Dad and the 3 boys - called a Mashoonga!. Imagine a sturdy pool noodle with a “sock” over it to keep the foam from breaking off. Come in a set of two, so we got two sets. They love their “sword” fights - boys are 21, 13, and 10 and Dad is 55!
Maybe it is because my girl came before all of my boys, but for the past 12 years, the play kitchen and wooden, plastic food has been played with every single day. I probably wouldn’t have bought it if I had boys first, but the boys do love it!
Thank you so much for this list! As a mother of four boys ages 6-20 I concur with your list. The only other thing I would add is Playmobil….my boys spend hours playing with Playmobil and we have been buying it for 16 years or more. I also appreciate your list because I was coming up empty on ideas for my soon to be 12-year-old. Your suggestion of art supplies is perfect for him!
I was glad to see “weapons” on there. I know some people don’t allow them, but my boys can’t get enough swordplay. I kid you not, my third son’s first word was “sword.“We will be adding some new shields this year and replacing some of the swords. I also found knight/robin hood-type costumes on clearance after Halloween. My 6 year old is begging for this large pop-up castle tent by Imaginarium. I thought it might be too young for him, but with two younger brothers, somebody will play with it and it will look great set up and waiting when they come down the stairs on Christmas morning.
How about a piece of chalk (do boys play hopscotch?), spinners (a piece of string and a button is all that is required), a jump rope (future boxers).
Unisex-Red Rover, Seven-Up, Red Light Green Light, London Bridge, Dr Knickerbocker (no materials needed, just the whole gang).
For those on a budget, you can easily make a box-full of boys’ dress up clothes very inexpensively. Go to the thrift store and buy adult tee shirts in whatever color you desire - it doesn’t matter what is on the front as long as the back is plain. 1/2 off or bag sales are great days to find these. Cut out a cape shape from the back then slant the cutting in to the neck ribbing, leaving the ribbing attached all the way around the front. Cut the ribbing in the center and add a little bit of velcro (takes away some of the choking hazard if they are grabbed from behind). If you want to make it neater, run a quick seam up the sides of the cape. For added cool-ness, you can sew or paint (regular craft paint works fine) a design on the back. Throw in a package of mardi gras style masks (I got packs of 8 from the Dollar Tree), and you have a variety of possibilities including super heroes, musketeers, dragon slayers, etc. Dollar Tree sometimes has nice little cowboy hats - suitable for cowboys or turned sideways for musketeers or Zorro. Lots of possibilities!
Dinosaurs. Forgot to add dinosaurs. Interest in them waxes and wanes, but they always come back to them. We have some cheap ones and some nicer ones by Safari that I have ordered individually online when a specific species was desired! And the chunky little action figures for Star Wars or Super Hero Squad. THey hold up better than larger action figures and don’t take up much space. Ours were at the bottom of a bin for some time until the superhero phase returned. Pulled them out and they are great. We have “everything old is new again” kids who seem to go through rotating phases. Occasionally there will be an annoying new trend, but they revisit dinosaurs, knights and superheros over and over.
Super ideas!!! I have 7 sons ages 20 to 2 we love these other ideas:
1.Wedgits: great for boys and girls: http://babystepsjmj.blogspot.com/2010/06/toy-review-tuesday_22.html
2.Lincoln logs
3.Blu track: pricey but worth it.http://babystepsjmj.blogspot.com/2009/07/toy-review-tuesday.html
4.Automoblox: http://babystepsjmj.blogspot.com/2009/07/toy-review-tuesdayautomoblox-cars.html (pricey too, but if your boys like cars…worth it. Get the small ones to start)
how much smaller are the mini automblox? I couldnt’ really figure that one out. I also noticed a 3 pk. automoblox mini - thinking I could use as a stocking stuffer for 11,8,3 yr old boys? I don’t know. These cars look like a really great toy- or would I get one regular automoblox size for my 3 yr. old?? Any tips? thanks!!
agree with most of great comments—-don’t forget great outdoor equipment—playsets/sandbox/riding toys for all ages and the biggest hit here since last year for our boys and all kids (boys and girls) who visit: The Powerwing razor scooter——its a little different than their normal scooter—you need to wiggle and it has caster wheels to coast or spin—-they all love it!!! Also my kids are a bit “retro” but they can spend hours playing with old-fashioned plastic army men. We started a resurgence of “marbles” in our neighborhood. Another hit this past year—-a portable ping-pong tennis set that clamps onto any table (we don’t have room for a “real” set) and its been a “hit” with kids from 6-18 yrs. and all their friends too! We try for “classic” toys instead of “trendy” toys and try to steer clear of plastic/battery stuff…. of course someone always needs a few of some themed action figures (superheroes/g.i. joes (which alter sizes dramatically every few years to keep us on our toes).....btw…someone should standardize action figure heights so they can “play good together” as my youngest pointed out one day!
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