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Danielle Bean

Danielle Bean
Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her work, the two …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com, a Catholic web site focusing on the Catholic faith, Catholic parenting and family life, and Catholic cultural topics. Most recently she has authored The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also employed as webmaster for her parish web sites. …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord

Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Elizabeth Foss

Elizabeth Foss
Elizabeth Foss, an award winning columnist for the Arlington Catholic Herald, published her first book, Real Learning: Education in the Heart of My Home in 2003. The book is now in its third printing. Her popular blog, In the Heart of My Home is a source of inspiration and support for Catholic women …
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Medical Musings

A trip to the doctor is cause for a pause.

In early October, I shared with you - my Faith and Family Live! friends - that I would be treating myself to a mammogram in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

I fessed up to the fact that I’d been negligent for the past few years when it came to tending to my own health care.  I felt healthy and great, so it came as a bit of a surprise to me when my initial mammogram turned into a second one, and then an ultrasound and subsequent Radiology consultation.  The next thing I knew, I was having a “sterotactic core needle biopsy” (I’ll blog about that lovely procedure some day!) and waiting to receive a phone call about my results.

Well, that phone call came with the news that I have a small, precancerous area that needs to be removed, so on Monday morning I’ll be headed off to the hospital for an outpatient surgery and later a precautionary appointment with an oncologist.

I’m sharing this with all of you to underscore a few things.  The first, and the most important, is that I want you to stop procrastinating (if you’ve done so) and take time this week to schedule your own preventative health treatment.  Thank goodness that I got off the dime and headed to the doctor early enough that this will likely be a very simple surgical procedure.  Had I continued to wait, who knows what could have happened with my health?!

We moms are notorious for taking care of everyone but ourselves.  But by neglecting our own health, we do our families a disservice.  How can we love and care for them if we don’t do the same for ourselves?

The second thing I’d like to ask you to do is to pray for all of those involved in the fight against cancer - for those facing illness, those who have succumbed to it and their families, for the doctors and researches who treat and search for cures, and to the souls in purgatory who battled cancer.  Hopefully, some day soon, we will have a cure for everyone.

Next week,  through the beauty of the Internet and with the help of my fellow blogging friends here, you’ll be reading posts from me.  But while the rest of you are running around defrosting turkeys and creating fabulous homemade centerpieces, I’ll be lounging in my pajamas, taking a week to rest and recuperate.

I’m so blessed that the diagnosis I face is not serious, so I don’t want any of you to think I share this to seek your pity - I’m simply hoping that by sharing what’s going on in my own life, a few of you might be inspired to seek the care we all need and deserve.  If you missed your mammogram and doctor’s appointment in October, November is a great time to get them scheduled!


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Lisa…this is where I was in July only my situation didn’t turn out as well.  I will keep you in my prayers.

 

Prayers coming your way for a simple procedure.  You are so right about early detection. One of my cousins died because she was too afraid to go to the doctor when she found a lump.

 

If you feel something is wrong, don’t let it go. Don’t let someone pat you on the head and tell you not to worry, when deep down you know something else is going on.
My mother ended up with a 10 centimeter (NOT mm, CM) tumor because of a bad doctor. She takes responsibility though, she knew she should have gotten a second opinion but ‘it is nothing to worry about’ was what she wanted to hear.
She is still here almost 8 years later, she beat the odds.

 

Nancy, you will be in my prayers!
Joan, thanks for your kind words and prayers.
Karen, I agree - and even if you don’t “feel something” we all need to have regular checkups.  Thanks be to God that your mother has done well!

 

Reminder-Get your mammograms and get them on time too.  Three years ago I got my annual one right on time and they found an increase in calcium deposits and needed to do needle biopsies.  A Grade 3 ductal cell cancer was found.  After a mastectomy (My choice as could have had a lumpectomy, but this way didn’t need radiation treatments.)  I’m doing fine and needed no additional treatment.  Thank you, God!!!

 

Prayers…

My Grandma passed away of cancer early this year.

 

First off, prayers going out to those of you struggling with cancer, waiting with bated breath by the phone for the phone call that is it/isn’t OK and those who are battling this with a family member. My mother was diagnosed because she tirelessly fought that the lump should found was not yet another cyst, but something else. Her intuition was correct as she had not 1, but 3 cancerous lumps in her breast. We as women must take control of our bodies and be proactive. I know that we as mothers take care of ourselves last, but we need to be aware of our own needs medically. As a final note, this is sadly not only an issue for post-menopausal women. I cannot tell you how many young mothers were in the hospital with my mother pushing a toddler in strollers. Young women need to be diligent about self exams as well. OK, enough from me! God Bless.


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