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Daily Lenten Meditations

«  March 2010  »

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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  • Pray Is there someone who inspires feelings of inferiority in you? Offer a Memorare for her intentions.
  • Fast Refrain from self promotion. “The only way to make rapid progress along the path of divine love is to remain very little and to put all our trust in Almighty God. That is what I have done.” -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Give Page through your wedding album with your children today. Remember how loved you felt that day. Love your family well.
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  • Pray Be still and know that God is with you. Right here, right now, in the mess and under the noise.
  • Fast You are the world to your family. Be your best world for them and only them today.
  • Give When you face a motherly crisis, remember that way back on your wedding day God gave you all the graces you need to handle it. Claim them.
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Medical Musings

A trip to the doctor is cause for a pause.

In early October, I shared with you - my Faith and Family Live! friends - that I would be treating myself to a mammogram in honor of National Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

I fessed up to the fact that I’d been negligent for the past few years when it came to tending to my own health care.  I felt healthy and great, so it came as a bit of a surprise to me when my initial mammogram turned into a second one, and then an ultrasound and subsequent Radiology consultation.  The next thing I knew, I was having a “sterotactic core needle biopsy” (I’ll blog about that lovely procedure some day!) and waiting to receive a phone call about my results.

Well, that phone call came with the news that I have a small, precancerous area that needs to be removed, so on Monday morning I’ll be headed off to the hospital for an outpatient surgery and later a precautionary appointment with an oncologist.

I’m sharing this with all of you to underscore a few things.  The first, and the most important, is that I want you to stop procrastinating (if you’ve done so) and take time this week to schedule your own preventative health treatment.  Thank goodness that I got off the dime and headed to the doctor early enough that this will likely be a very simple surgical procedure.  Had I continued to wait, who knows what could have happened with my health?!

We moms are notorious for taking care of everyone but ourselves.  But by neglecting our own health, we do our families a disservice.  How can we love and care for them if we don’t do the same for ourselves?

The second thing I’d like to ask you to do is to pray for all of those involved in the fight against cancer - for those facing illness, those who have succumbed to it and their families, for the doctors and researches who treat and search for cures, and to the souls in purgatory who battled cancer.  Hopefully, some day soon, we will have a cure for everyone.

Next week,  through the beauty of the Internet and with the help of my fellow blogging friends here, you’ll be reading posts from me.  But while the rest of you are running around defrosting turkeys and creating fabulous homemade centerpieces, I’ll be lounging in my pajamas, taking a week to rest and recuperate.

I’m so blessed that the diagnosis I face is not serious, so I don’t want any of you to think I share this to seek your pity - I’m simply hoping that by sharing what’s going on in my own life, a few of you might be inspired to seek the care we all need and deserve.  If you missed your mammogram and doctor’s appointment in October, November is a great time to get them scheduled!


Comments

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Lisa…this is where I was in July only my situation didn’t turn out as well.  I will keep you in my prayers.

 

Prayers coming your way for a simple procedure.  You are so right about early detection. One of my cousins died because she was too afraid to go to the doctor when she found a lump.

 

If you feel something is wrong, don’t let it go. Don’t let someone pat you on the head and tell you not to worry, when deep down you know something else is going on.
My mother ended up with a 10 centimeter (NOT mm, CM) tumor because of a bad doctor. She takes responsibility though, she knew she should have gotten a second opinion but ‘it is nothing to worry about’ was what she wanted to hear.
She is still here almost 8 years later, she beat the odds.

 

Nancy, you will be in my prayers!
Joan, thanks for your kind words and prayers.
Karen, I agree - and even if you don’t “feel something” we all need to have regular checkups.  Thanks be to God that your mother has done well!

 

Reminder-Get your mammograms and get them on time too.  Three years ago I got my annual one right on time and they found an increase in calcium deposits and needed to do needle biopsies.  A Grade 3 ductal cell cancer was found.  After a mastectomy (My choice as could have had a lumpectomy, but this way didn’t need radiation treatments.)  I’m doing fine and needed no additional treatment.  Thank you, God!!!

 

Prayers…

My Grandma passed away of cancer early this year.

 

First off, prayers going out to those of you struggling with cancer, waiting with bated breath by the phone for the phone call that is it/isn’t OK and those who are battling this with a family member. My mother was diagnosed because she tirelessly fought that the lump should found was not yet another cyst, but something else. Her intuition was correct as she had not 1, but 3 cancerous lumps in her breast. We as women must take control of our bodies and be proactive. I know that we as mothers take care of ourselves last, but we need to be aware of our own needs medically. As a final note, this is sadly not only an issue for post-menopausal women. I cannot tell you how many young mothers were in the hospital with my mother pushing a toddler in strollers. Young women need to be diligent about self exams as well. OK, enough from me! God Bless.


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