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My Digital Resolutions for 2012

Have you thought about technology related resolutions?

Happy New Year to all of our readers – I sincerely hope that your holiday celebrations were filled with peace and joy. These first few days of 2012 find me returning to my desk and computer after a nice long break over the Christmas holiday to savor time with family and friends.

The excitement and busyness of the past few years, with the growth of my work on the Internet, my speaking engagements around the country and the publications of The Handbook for Catholic Moms and A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms have left me working non-stop. As we led up to Christmas and I felt my stress level rising, I knew that the time had come to build in a bit of down time over the holidays. I recognized my need to step away from the keyboard to regain some perspective, to “log off” not only for an enhanced time with my family and loved ones, but also to regain some perspective on the work I find myself doing these days.

Over an extended period from Christmas Eve through January 4th, I shut off my laptop, signed off of my social networks, and took a severely limited approach to my personal use of technology. Of course this “blog break” didn’t happen overnight and required a great deal of planning and organization, but the end result was a renewed appreciation for my work as well as a desire to reset some priorities in my life. I want to publicly thank Danielle Bean and my fellow bloggers here at Faith & Family Live for making my break possible, but especially for being a constant source of inspiration (and fun!) in my life.

As I prepared to return to work this week, I found myself pondering my New Year’s resolutions. I’m a big resolution-maker, so I typically spend the first week of January thinking over and praying about my goals for the coming year. My list is always far too long, and has too many items that have been repeated (and remain unattained) year after year. That being said, I wanted to share with you a subset of my goals for 2012 — my “Digital Resolutions”.

Lisa’s Digital Resolutions for 2012

• Responsible use of digital technology — update virus protection and child monitoring software, limit “elective” use of technology and establish set work hours
• Innovative use of digital technology — focus on learning about emerging tools in the new year, both hardware and software, to more effectively perform duties and imagine new possibilities
• Financially savvy use of digital technology — investigate major acquisitions to avoid “impulse buys”, of big ticket items such as phones and computers but also of “throwaway” expenditures such as iPhone apps — only invest in new resources when they will promote enhanced results
• Spiritually led use of digital technology — refrain from use of technology on Sundays, leave cell phone at home during Mass, practice “unplugged” prayer and protected time for family priorities, do not allow social networking relationships to hinder “real world” relationships

Since you are reading this online, perhaps you also spend a great deal of time in the digital realm. And perhaps you too will want to set your own “Digital Resolutions”. I’d love to hear yours, and would also love to hear from our readers who don’t engage in the practice of setting of resolutions but have personal goals for the effective and spiritually encouraging use of technology.


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Lisa, I am in conflict about this very issue as I sit here typing!
What is making it hard for me is a combination of
-the changes in technology w/in our household (laptop, desktop, texting phone)
-changes in our schedule
-changes in my physical & mental stamina
-moderation vs. abstinence
-reliance on internet for local, national, world news, plus religious news and spiritual info (no tv)

I’d like to set & follow some sort of forgiving “rule” about digital media, but it seems that my overall challenge is, “how to order *this* part of my life when every other aspect feels in flux?!”

 

StephC thanks so much for chiming in. I honestly think that the very nature of the digital realm contributes to this type of confusion you’re expressing. Because it is everywhere around us and our tech tools enable us to consume/work/pray on the go almost anywhere, it sometimes feels to me like it’s very difficult to set barriers. My personal situation is exacerbated by the fact that my office is in the heart of my home, which definitely blurs the work/family lines in my life. I definitely don’t have the magic answer to your question, but I intend to spend some time this year pondering the important topics you’ve raised in my own life. Prayers for you and your family!

 

Funny you should write this.  My family just had this same discussion.  I have some teenagers who spend a good bit of their free time “socializing” on line.  I really worry about them in the log run as this has become such the norm in their lives.  I know how much time I spend connected online and did not grow up with it so I really worry about them.  We have a couple of resolutions - as a family:

1.  Limit our time socializing online to 30 minutes/day.  This will be a challenge for my kids, but they are committed.  We even designated a place in our house where ipods and phones will rest.
2.  Use the computer for school research - but limit “surfing” to 15 minutes a day.  We are making a big move in our house from reading articles online to reading books.
3.  Find family oriented sites that have purpose.  Sites like http://www.familetime.com allow our kids to communicate with their grandparents - which has value.  We also like it because it serves as our family’s scrapbook which will come in handy one day.  Long after my parents are gone, my kids and their kids can revisit these conversations and comments with grandparents.
4.  No TV during the school week.  This won’t hurt too much, but will eliminate the urge to plop down and watch for no apparent reason.

Lisa, I think we will add your technologyless Sundays to our list!

Happy New Year!

 

I actually made a resolution to increase my online profile this year.  It’s not that I want to waste more time on the internet, rather, I want to make my online time more purposeful. I have started asking me this question - Why am I on the internet right now?  If it isn’t for a specific purpose - faith encouragement, ideas for my kids, professional development, etc - then I probably shouldn’t be online.  So, I’m starting up a Twitter account, professional networking (LinkedIn), and working towards establishing a personal website (for professional reasons).  Hopefully this resolution will make me more connected to the stuff that I love, rather than lost in a world of mindless surfing. We’ll see how it goes!

 

My family has discussed this issue at length.  We have a teenage son who is on the commputer alot.  Now that he has upgraded his phone, it seems to be getting worse.  So, at Christmas, we made the decision that all of us would take down time on Sundays.  We will see how this goes. 
God Bless and have a Happy New Year.

 

Lisa, if you have child monitoring software to recommend I would love to hear it.  I am not very computer literate, so I have left this up to my husband.  However, he is at work all day and does not see this as a problem (I do!)    There are times that my kids are on the computer and I am not home.    We use Mac computers mostly, but we do have one PC and a Kindle fire that all have internet access.  So far, no smart phones although that will be coming soon with my college student.  Thanks!

 

Susie, my first recommendation would be for you to check with your Internet service provider—most of them have free software that you can configure easily and it’s FREE. That being said, you should also check out the great site http://internet-safety.yoursphere.com/ and specifically Mary Kay’s article at http://internet-safety.yoursphere.com/2011/12/five-internet-safety-resolutions-for-the-new-year.html for some very detailed suggestions. I love her site!


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