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Peace Out

Finding peace this fourth week of Advent

Yesterday, I was in my typical Sunday morning frenzy. Rushing to get ready for Mass, a list a mile long rattled around in my head. So much to do, and so little time…

Off we went to 9:30 Mass, Greg and I. Every other Sunday, we attend Mass both at 9:30 and at 6:00, since Greg plays music in the morning, and Greg and Adam play at the nighttime Mass. For the past several weeks, one of my Sunday morning “to do” items has been to capture a photo of our lovely Advent wreath. The wreath is lovingly decorated by one of our little Portuguese Sisters—she’s the crafty nun who has a way with making our sanctuary look lovely in any season. In the quiet space before the Church began to fill, I captured this photo.

I’m not going to lie. The sight of that fourth purple candle lit sent a chill through me as I fretted over all of the things on my Christmas list that still remain undone. Christmas cards, gifts to be purchased, friends to entertain, and mostly prayers to be said to ready my heart… That fourth flame rang in my head like an alarm clock going off. Wrong.

And then I found my place in the pew and looked at the photo I’d just taken. While my eye had been on the wreath, I’d completely missed the humongous gold letters Sister Flor and her team had placed up behind our altar—PEACE, they proclaimed. How could I have missed them, so lovingly arrayed below one of my favorite images of Jesus in our church?

PEACE, I told myself, hitting my knees for some quiet prayer. PEACE, Lord, please—and hurry! My pre-Mass prayers became a quest to find that elusive peace, in Him and through Him. My heart was filled with a desire to spend this last week not fretting, but rather lovingly, peacefully anticipating…

After Mass, with Sister Flor’s PEACE sign still burning in my head, I took an axe to my to-do list. Christmas cards… not going to happen this year… Gifts, we already have the bulk of them and how many more do our boys really need? With a bit of a fresh perspective, I was able to reorder things on that list and in my mind, with a greater priority on what really matters this Fourth week of Advent.

How about you—have you been able to find some PEACE in your life this Advent? What one item could you drop from the “should do” list you’re carrying around that might bring you a bit more serenity and time for prayer this week? What traditions and customs have you let go of in the hopes of celebrating what is most important about Advent and Christmas?


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I feel like I didn’t do enough with my boys this Advent season. It really got away from us.  I felt so rushed and that I let everyone down. It was due to my own busyness, not shopping or anything like that. This is the first Advent in years, where I didn’t feel the PEACE…just pieces. Even our Antiphons seemed rushed.  I really need to hit my knees more. Usually I’m in constant dialogue with our Mother Mary but I’ve been too reticent lately with her as well.  Christmas Season is almost upon us~a time we really love. I plan on making the 12 days of the Christmas Season very poignant for my boys.

 

No, I haven’t found the peace either.  But, I am just waiting until Epiphany so we can take everything down and put it all away.  I haven’t been able to get excited, or prayerful this Advent.  I am just going through the motions, and gritting my teeth under my *fake* smile.  Normally I LOVE this time of year, and anxiously get ready, get excited, get pictures and cards out early.  I love to bake, wrap and decorate, but this year…nada. 
Sigh….please pray for me

 

I have tried to simplify as much as possible, and to clear the decks to make room for prayer and family time during Advent.  But there are things beyond my control that always seem to seep in.  But, my son is enjoying the season, and that’s the most important thing to me.

 

I, too have been very disappointed in myself this Advent.  I wanted it to be prayerful, but a failing marriage is robbing me of all my good intentions.  I am praying for clarity about what I need to do.

 

We don’t fret about the to do list as it is pretty pointless and just try to do our best. Once I have the kids put the Christmas tree up I feel less stressed about the whole thing a I think that is the biggest mental hurdle for me. I have enjoyed the advent readings form the little blue book a it has given me time and space to reflect on Advent . I would like to get more of the pray as you go pod casts for this season

As to cards and present t I have done these slowly as Christmas preparations I prefer as a slow marathon rather than a sprint

K

 

Thank you for the reminder about PEACE.  I have axed my to do list more than ever this year.  Why should I send Christmas cards when I will have to send birth announcements to the same people 3 weeks or so after Christmas?  (We are expecting our 3rd child in mid-January.)  I physically can’t do my “normal” at Christmas.

Though I haven’t necessarily been at PEACE, I have been able to reflect during my daily prayer time much more about how the daily Gospels are designed to help us prepare for Christmas.  Seeing things through the eyes of the Blessed Mother, because of my advanced stage of pregnancy, has also helped me gain new lights into the beauty of Advent and the true joy found in anticipating Christmas. 

I pray each person has the opportunity to reflect on Advent like I have this year.  It’s been an unexpected blessing to my soul.


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