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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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Rainy Day Fun

On the East Coast we’re experiencing the rainiest June I can recall.

Just days and days that can’t be spent poolside or riding bikes.

There are always movies and computer games of course, but besides the questionable influences involved, I simply don’t think it’s brain-healthy to spend much time in front of the glowing screens.

It certainly doesn’t make for good moods—have you ever noticed how crotchety kids get (kids, heck, I get) when plopped in front of a screen for very long?

Three of our four kids are inveterate readers, but even the reading-est kid can’t read all the time. So what do your kids do when presented with a string of rainy days?

“Knights & Legos” (meaning Playmobil figures in toy brick landscapes) is a perennial favorite for us, and the kids have started to get into more interesting card games (almost out of the Go Fish stage at our house). But what delights me are the kids’ individual hobbies.

Our Rachel can entertain herself for hours making dresses for homemade paper dolls. She stores the dolls and dresses in a three-ring binder with transparent sleeves. Her taste runs to ballroom gowns as you can see, but there are a fair number of chic pantsuits, sundresses, and business ensembles as well—complete with accessories.

Joseph is king of the blocks, constructing endless iterations of castles or churches when sports aren’t available to him.

John-Paul makes funny newsletters full of pre-teen witticisms (largely at his parents’ expense).

Our youngest plays “cute pets,” which involves concocting adventures for about a dozen beanie babies. I can always tell where he’s been, because there will be a pile of the tiny stuffed toys, at least one of which is riding some elaborate Lego contraption, with a handful of Lego mini-figs hitching a ride on someone’s back. I’m not sure that game has a name yet, but it can occupy a lone 5-yr-old for hours.

What are your kids’ rainy day pastimes?


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while you’re having rainy day inside activities(which we would LOVE to have down here in drought stricken Texas) we have the too hot to want to do anything outside 103 degree heat inside activities! The choice as of late with our six is gathering any and all toys, dress-up clothes, blocks, cans, etc. to make a store for shopping, destroying the living room. Then of course you have them taking on the various roles while going shopping. Seller, mom, dad and the babies, and even a puppy in there( don’t know when puppies were allowed in stores—maybe in California with the stars, but it’s being able to put your little brother on a leash thats the draw I guess grin Interesting to listen to their conversations while role playing—some I’ll claim, others…well, hmmmm, I’ll take the 5th! grin
My favorites ” We’ll have to see darlin, I don’t know if we have enough money to buy that” or ” you need to behave or we won’t get any cookies” and “let’s try that on to see how it looks and if your boobies are covered”:-)

 

Rebecca, Your children are so creative!
Legoes and blocks are a big hit on any day at our house.  My 3 year old is getting into trains, and we have fun making different tracks through the family room with the Geo Tracks or Thomas sets we have. 
Playdough is also a hit. I make my own playdough and it lasts for months in a ziploc baggie. 
My kids also like to put on shows for me.  The other day they created their own band out of different musical instruments (some homemade) and put on a “concert” for me.  My older son and daughter even cut out decorations out of paper and hung them on the wall to decorate their “concert hall” , and gave out “tickets” at the door. 
My daughter loves to put on music and dance. 
They also make “houses” for their favorite stuffed animals and play all kinds of games with their stuffed animals. 
For my toddler, if he is stir crazy or cranky, I fill up the tub and let him have some water play time.I’ll sit by the tub and play too, or use the time to clean the bathroom grin. Sometimes his siblings put on their suits and join him.  I don’t do this during thunderstorms of course! 
Janelle- I love the store idea!

 

My son likes to take on a role of whatever he is watching on tv.  The other day he was mike rowe from dirty jobs.  He was taking down floats from the rose bowl parade.  Our badminton poles were the scrap metal, the couch became a truck and I was the secretary at the scrap yard (since I was on the computer).  He has dressed up as Indiana Jones, Yoda, etc by just using things around the house.

 

How cute.  I love the blocks and the paper dolls…it makes me wish my kids were little again!  We have had indor “campouts” and “picnics”.  The kids would make tents in the family room with their blankets and we would light the fireplace, roast marshmallows, eat on the floor, play board games or rent a movie.  Sometimes anything out of the ordinary can be fun.

 

We too are in the heat here in NC. I hopefully ask my husband each day if we are going to get rain anytime soon (he loves learning about and studying and just looking at the weather ‘net pages). Nada. But, we do school right now anyway. We took our break in the nice spring (Eastertide) weather and now while it is hot and yucky, we do school.

 

We save our big cleaning jobs for rainy days which we have also had a lot of.  So we all work which means the nice days free for outdoor play.

 

If your weather’s been like ours, your house must be a paragon of organization by now smile


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