Resuming Routines, Grinding Gears
Posted by Danielle Bean in Just me on Monday, January 04, 2010 3:59 PM
Have you ever learned to drive a standard transmission? You know that horrible grating, grinding sound the gears make when you shift them incorrectly? I think I heard that sound today.
It was coming from my brain.
Like many others today, I am doing my very best to make a smooth move from the relaxed holiday schedule we have enjoyed the past two weeks to one that brings all of us back to school, back to work, and back to painful reality.
Ouch.
Here are a few thoughts for others who might be struggling with the same kinds of transitions this week:
1. Take it easy. Don’t expect perfection from yourself, your kids, your spouse, or your co-workers these first days back to reality. Cut people some slack anywhere you can. Being demanding will only lead to being chronically disappointed this week.
2. Still celebrate. As Rebecca has been so good at reminding us since the 25th, Christmas does last 12 days. Your whole family will feel less “let down” if you don’t rush to put away all things Christmas just yet. Light some candles, enjoy a movie together, or play some festive music.
3. Be grateful. Most of us are feeling drained today because we’ve managed to enjoy some happy times with friends and family over the Christmas break. The transition back to routine will feel less painful if you remember to give thanks to God for your many blessings.
4. Have your 10-year-old daughter do everything. Just kidding. Sort of. But I do want to publicly thank Juliette for cleaning the living room, washing the dishes, organizing the mudroom, and baking a fresh batch of muffins today—all without being asked and just when I was tempted to freak out.
How about you? How’s your transition going?
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