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RIP Michael Jackson & Farrah Fawcett

Let's remember to pray for the people behind celebrity news stories

After reading earlier today that actress Farrah Fawcett had died after a battle with cancer, I was shocked to read just moments ago that Michael Jackson, age 50, has also died today—apparently of heart failure.

Speaking as someone who grew up in the Charlie’s Angels generation and since I used to have a copy of this very Michael Jackson poster on my bedroom wall, today seems like a good day for me to remember the people behind celebrity news stories.

Farrah Fawcett attended Catholic schools and there are reports that she received last rites before her death today. Michael Jackson made the news for all kinds of reasons during his life, both good and bad. No one can know for sure what went on in the man’s heart, but most us can probably agree that he was very likely a deeply unhappy man.

After weeks of hearing non-stop “celebrity” news coverage of the likes of the disintegrating marriage of Jon and Kate Gosselin, I think these deaths today are a timely call to remember the people behind celebrity headlines.

With incessant media coverage, it can be easy to begin to think of Hollywood personalities’ lives as objects for our entertainment. But even the rich, the famous, the weird, the fascinating, the beautiful, the bizarre, and the talented people are children of God. God made them in His image. He loves them and wants nothing less than salvation for their immortal souls and their eternal happiness with Him in heaven.

Today let us pray for the repose of the souls of Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson. And let us pray for the souls of all celebrities who find themselves victims of an insatiable public appetite for “news” and “entertainment.”


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Danielle,

I was thinking this very same thing earlier today when I saw the headline about Farrah Faucet. (And I didn’t know about Michael Jackson until I saw your article-quite a shock!)

As I stopped to pray for her soul, it struck me that all of the “accomplishments” written regarding her acting career and other activities, held in such high regard in our worldly culture, would not necessarily benefit her soul in the eyes of our Lord. So in a strange way I was all reminded how unworthy we all are, and much ALL the poor souls in purgatory need our prayers in order to bask in the glory of heaven. I think too often when confronted with the news of someone’s death, we dwell on the sadness of a situation instead of reminding ourselves how much we can actually DO to benefit those souls! Recently whenever I think of anyone who has passed, I try to pray for the expiation of whatever sin might separate them most from the glory of heaven. I definitely need to step up my efforts, though—so thank you for reminding us once again how valuable and eternal each and every soul is in the eyes of God!

 

Well Said!  Exactly my thoughts.

 

Yes, we are all unworthy, but our Lord provides a love none of us can possibly fathom. It is important to pray for all of the deceased, but I would caution that our worldly culture only shows us the aspects of her celebrity relevant to her career. (By her, I mean Farrah Fawcett.) No one knows the depths of one’s soul like our Lord does. I am sure the Lord is far more conscious of her true accomplishments (and failures) than any of us could ever know. It is not our place to judge anyone… no matter how we feel about their lifestyle.

 

oh my goodness, that poster brings back memories!!!

 

Amen amen.

 

What a good reminder, Danielle.  I had just gotten into watching a few of the early episodes of Jon and Kate’s show when all these news stories started breaking.  After watching their seemingly happy family from a few years ago, the news of their divorce just makes me so sad.  I will now remember to pray for them.

 

The need for prayer and confession being his ultimate point, at Mass this morning our priest spoke a bit about these people and how most of the world has them in heaven. I was thinking how sad that is. Will no one be praying for the souls of these people, who as Danielle stated are really children of God before and above anything else?  So there I was at 7:00am praying for Farrah & Michael…who would have ever thought?! Don’t you just love Catholicism?

 

This is as close as a post has come to capturing how I felt yest. about Jackson’s death. I was never a fan & it’s been obvious for quite a while he was not a healthy or happy man. But mostly I felt sad that he wasted his life. (I know, that’s a pretty controversial thing to say!) But really, my son’s kindergarden teacher has already done more with her life than he ever did. I think it’s important to pray for celebrities, as I pray for some famous rock stars whose music I really liked as a young person (okay, Ozzy & RJ Dio, I confess). For me, it was a reminder not to waste my life on things of no importance.

 

Amen, Danielle.  I wonder about the children who will be so deeply affected by this.  Having been brought up in so strange a fashion thus far, how will they adjust.  Pray God they will be happier than their father.

 

Dear Danielle,
I agree with you soooo much; everyone needs our prayers.  Farrah, although not one of my “favorites”, ~became to me~a person to respect so much when she did her story on her cancer; maybe respect isn’t the right word—but I admired her and saw a different side of her…...as for Michael Jackson—I just well—I couldn’t understand his “fame” although my one daughter liked his music; but I do realize that he never really had a happy life and it is a shame that he wasted his.  I think several of your readers’ comments have hit the nail on the head with their words.  God’s Blessings to you…Patty

 

I’m wondering, perhaps their suffering here on earth was their purgatory - for Farrah, her 2 year battle with cancer and for Michael, years of hurting from his lost childhood, not to mention the accusations and constant criticism and being severely misunderstood I’m sure.    And I think Don is exactly right, we can never know a person from afar the way God knows a person.  Just because the media shows us a certain perspective, obviously we can’t take it as absolute truth - for example, news coverage of Pope Benedict!  I think that is something we tend to forget if we don’t feel the urge to fiercely defend a person, if we weren’t a fan or cared much for the decisions they made in life. 

As for Jon and Kate, it is a pity they gave up so easily on their marriage but I feel that their decision to divorce and NOT the tv show is the worst decision they could have made for their children.  Let us not judge each other when it comes to the decisions we make for our children.  Short of violent abuse, where do we (people who do not know the situation or the kids, and because we can’t see into the future) draw the line as to what we look down upon as far as parenting decisions are concerned?

 

Thanks for taking the time to post such a detailed and informative article. It has given me a lot of inspiration and I look forward to more like this in the future.

 

They will be remembered. Many of the people at our office had a Michael Jackson day where they dressed up like him (even some of the gals dressed up). Kind of a nice way to remember his passing. It seems like there are way to many people dying early.

 

Thank you so much detailed information. Will never forget both the celebrity.


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