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Happy Thanksgiving!

My question might be like searching for a needle in a haystack;), but…

I just wanted to ask any moms who might live in the Diocese of Wichita, how well do you feel the free catholic education works?  I just learned of it, and read the Fordham report about its success and am just amazed that they have figured out how to do it and would love to pick their brains a bit about it.  I happened to also notice that the Diocese of Wichita is a place where many of the schools take the children to Adoration!  Kind of neat, they mention it on the Children of Hope website.
God bless to all Catholic schools, institutional, homeschools and catholic students shining a beautiful light in the public schools.  May God be praised everywhere!

 

It works beautifully!  Our kids attend our parish school and we are so blessed.  They do go to Adoration every first Friday and other times, if the teacher wants.  My children are blessed to attend daily Mass every day of the week except for Wednesday.  Their teachers are able to incorporate our faith and values into every subject.  But it’s not exactly free.  Our diocese subscribes to a stewardship way of life…time, talent, and treasure.  So each Fall, we do our stewardship renewal and you pledge what you are able to give during the following year.  As long as you make good on that pledge, your children are able to attend school.  We also make sure to involve ourselves in other ministries in the school and parish.  It is not unusual to walk through the halls and find moms and dads helping kids with their prayers, to see parents and grandparents planting new flowers in the beds outside, or some might organize our annual fundraiser.  It truly is a blessing!  I know that other dioceses have visiting here to “see what it’s all about” and I think there might be one other diocese in the country who has adopted the same format, but it’s a shame that more haven’t.  I know it’s scary to jump from the deep end and trust that the people of God will provide the money for it to happen.  But once you do and the people truly experience a shift in their thinking, when it comes to stewardship and tithing, beautiful things can happen!

 

We live in the Diocese of Wichita and our parish school is wonderful!  In fact, I believe our parish is the only K-12 school in the country that is funded through a stewardship model.  No tuition, but you are expected to tithe, and they really stress stewardship as a way of life and how to give of your time, talent, and treasure.  You are held accountable to the amount you say you are able to give.  The faith is really incorporated into so many aspects of the childrens’ day.  The younger kids do not go to Adoration on a frequent basis, but they do go to weekly classes in our Atrium where they follow the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd which is a Montessori based teaching method.  I feel so blessed to live in the Diocese of Wichita!

 

Dear Amy-thank you so much for writing this!  That is just beautiful!  I am in the Archdiocese of Baltimore and there is so much beautiful Faith here I figure it can’t hurt to point to other models that might help us grow!  God bless and thanks so much again! Josie

 

Wondering if there are other Homeschool families that were able to create a high school diploma that was accepted by college/trade school etc?  I am working with the school district where we are, but I just wonder if I could do this without them..  I am in a disagreement about what they consider “science” and “history” and would prefer my children learn a “Christian worldview” rather than the pablum that they are being fed.  Additionally, I think extra work is being given to us “just because” we have chosen to homeschool right now.  Written reports for P. E. ?  Give me a break!

How tough is it to teach to your plan and still have the credits figured out?  What about transcripts?  Thanks for any help you might have!

 

Hi Trying,
My first homeschooled high school student graduated last year.  I dropped several activities of my own because I was worried about the workload for her senior year.  Actually, it wasn’t all that bad.  Here’s what I did:  First, I created a transcript.  Because she had taken high school level classes in seventh and eighth grade, I organized the transcript by subject rather than by year, noting which courses she took before “high school” so that the schools wouldn’t think I was trying to put something over on them.  I listed each course she had taken, whether at home, in the public schools, or in the private school she attended for two high school years, under the appropriate subject.  I included a list of her extracurricular activities in a separate category.  Some of her courses were graded and some were ungraded.  This was a little scary and frustrating because she wanted to major in music, and many of the music courses were ungraded.  Then I assembled course descriptions for each and every course.  When I could get them from a program of studies (official school listing) I did so, and noted the source in the document.  When the course was a homeschool course or a distance course, I listed the instructor (including me!) and his or her qualifications.  If it was a homeschool course, I also made sure to include the name of the textbook if there was one.  I also included a list of books read for her homeschool English courses.  This may sound like a lot of work, and some of it was; I found myself rewarded for any degree of organization I had maintained previously.  In addition to the materials I had prepared myself, I made sure that transcripts from the two high schools and evaluations from the music school were also sent to the colleges.  I also used the Common App forms, but did not submit them electronically, because I found it would be too confusing.  I did not worry about credits.  Not one of the seven colleges where she applied asked me for more information.  I did not worry about what the school system thought of my courses - that’s why we were homeschooling!  A couple of the colleges wanted a calculated gpa, so I looked at what the schools did and figured out how I would calculate it based on her graded courses and the course levels she took.  I used a 5.0 scale because she had many honors and two AP-level courses.  I wrote the counselor letter (guidance counselor letter) myself.  That was the most nerve-wracking; I told my friends that both my daughter and I were writing college application essays!  She got teacher letters from a number of her teachers at the two schools and from various music teachers as needed.  In the end, she was accepted at five of the seven schools and received a three-quarter tuition scholarship from one, and a full tuition scholarship from another.  You can do this, whether your goal is trade school or Ivy League (we were somewhere in between).  Don’t let your school department hijack your educational project.  They do have different goals than you do!  Good places for support (although not Catholic) are the Well-Trained Mind discussion boards and the HSLDA website.  Good luck!

 

Hi Scotch Meg,

Thanks so much!  I would *like* for my oldest (9th grade) to take some classes at school, and beyond, but my husband thinks it isn’t necessary.  I won’t argue about that here.
As we begin High school, I just want to get the straight scoop on what is expected as a graduate.  Your personal experience really helps!
I used to teach in the public school system, (upper-elementary) but feel very much like a fish-out-of-water as a guidance counselor.  I began using the liason-based program through the school district, because I really wanted to be sure I wasn’t being a “slacker mom” and that many of the expectations of others at the grade level we were working would be met, as I would be accountable to someONE else.  We are able to avail ourselves of many of the district options, as well as field trips, and extra materials.  Up until this year, I felt great about my advisor, (we were co-teachers at my first school), but now that it is someone else, I find myself irritated and almost angry at what I feel like are unreasonable expectations put upon us because we *are* homeschoolers.
-workouts every day
-written reports for PE
-Cannot count our science (includes creation)
-history is not truthful/based on Christian beginnings…
-“Frankenstein” and Bram Stoker’s Dracula is on “required reading list”
and so forth

The thing is, I’m rather torn: I understand as a former public school teacher that there are specific things that all students must do in school to warrant a diploma.  I know I must learn as I go, and that the district does this all the time.  I want my children to receive a diploma, but I’m not so sure that this is the way I want it to occur.  Since we have been working with this new advisor, I’ve seen my daughter work MUCH harder on her work, her study skills have improved greatly, and she is taking it much more seriously.  The only negative thing I’ve witnessed, is that she is incredibly stressed out!

On the other hand, if I wanted the school district to have it’s fingers in everything I do, then I should have sent them to school!
Thanks again for your ideas—I’ll look up those websites

 

This is a question for “Trying…”

What is the problem with Frankenstein or Stokers’s Dracula? Those are classic books and should be part of a well-rounded literature education.

 

Hi Daisy,

Why?

Why is morbid literature about fictitious creatures, no matter how well-written, part of a “well-rounded education”?

I mean, there are SO MANY other literature greats that didn’t make the list, that I don’t understand them being required!

 

Someone remind me—there is a Catholic author who rewrote traditional fairy tales. I can’t remember her name or the names of the books. I’m doing a unit on Traditional Lit and want to have my students rewrite the traditional stories. When they are done I want to share these books.

 

Is it Regina Doman?
http://www.reginadoman.com/main.cfm?r1=2.00&ID=20&level=1

 

Yes! Thank you!


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