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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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Danielle Bean

Danielle Bean
Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea: Musings of a Catholic Mom (Pauline 2005) and Mom to Mom, Day to Day: Advice and Support for Catholic Living (Pauline 2007). Though she once struggled to separate her life …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and together they are the parents of five lively boys. Besides being a mom, she is also a writer and a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has maintained her personal blog at Testosterhome.net where she …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com, a Catholic web site focusing on the Catholic faith, Catholic parenting and family life, and Catholic cultural topics. Most recently she has authored The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also employed as webmaster for her parish web sites. …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord

Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Melissa Wiley

Melissa Wiley
Melissa Wiley is a homeschooling mother of six and the author of The Martha Years and The Charlotte Years, two series of books about the ancestors of Laura Ingalls Wilder. She blogs about children’s books, family, and home education at Here in the Bonny Glen.
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Single Lady Amidst a Family of Moms

Glad to be part of the conversation

When Danielle Bean first asked me to blog on Faith and Family LIVE, I asked myself:  “What service could a single person offer to a community of moms?”

They couldn’t possibly want to know about my crazy (cousin) roommates, NYC trips with my best friend, or that my living room is decorated with a collection of bobble head characters from the TV show The Office. I might even create reader envy if I tell them about my daily morning exercise class followed by daily Mass all.by.myself, but then I thought about my role in my own family.

I’m a card-carrying # 6 daughter with five married older sisters and one younger brother. I am the proud aunt of 19. With all of those kids there are plenty opportunities to help out, whether it is picking someone up from soccer practice, purchasing candy for the annual fundraiser, or watching the little ones while their mom and dad are at the hospital with the new member of the family.

I feel blessed to be part of this ever-growing family and, naturally, I fight my sisters for favorite aunt status.

Incidentally, my brother Tom has favorite Uncle status not only because he is the only boy, but because he is a volunteer fireman. (In the eyes of a little boy, what is cooler than that?)

The fight for FAS (fav aunt status) is more competitive. Every sister has her own strategies, but I have my single aunt ways. I’m not beneath random stops at Rose Dairy for an ice cream cone, a movie and sleepover at my house, or a really impractical, (but super fun) Christmas gift to win the prized FAS title. No matter what the method, I strive to give the special treatment to all the little ones in my life. That is my role in my family and my role here in this online family.

I hope to give special attention to you ... oh, and fight for favorite blogger status (watch out Danielle!) whether it be through a giveaway of the latest cool product, a sneak preview of what to expect in the next issue of Faith & Family magazine or a behind the scenes look at all we do at Circle Media to give you the print magazine and Faith and Family LIVE.

I am thrilled to be part of this family and I look forward to finding the opportunities to better serve you. I hope you will invite this single lady into your kitchen for a cup of coffee and a nice chat. 

By the way, I take my coffee with cream, one sugar.


Comments

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You are welcome for coffee anytime! I look forward to getting to know you better ! smile

 

Well, you created reader envy in #1 daughter by posting a picture of you drinking coffee in daughter #2’s kitchen!!  It’s a good thing you mentioned that I can invite you in for a cup of coffee and a chat through cyberspace—it almost made it better. smile

 

Welcome, Robyn!  My single younger brother currently has favorite uncle status because he takes my oldest on “dates” and never misses her soccer games! Seriously, I have two single brothers, and I’m so thankful for the role they play in our nuclear family’s life.

I’m really looking forward to reading your posts and your fresh, tantrum-free, diaper-less perspective!  smile

God bless.

 

Robyn, I’m so glad you’re joining us here! I can’t wait to read more of your posts.

I have three younger sisters, two of them unmarried, and I’m excited because now I can order them over here to read everything because we have a single girl writing!

I’m sure if I were one of your nieces, you’d be my favorite aunt. wink

 

Robyn!!  I’m so glad you are blogging here=)

 

Robyn, you know I’m THRILLED to have you on board!  Come on over and get that coffee!

 

It’s great to have a single woman blogging. I myself am in my early 20s, unmarried, and in grad school. I love it here despite not being part of the “target audience,” but it’ll be great to have a regular blogger representing the unmarried portion of Catholic women!

 

This website had become one of my favorites, but seeing your picture just moved it to #1!  Can’t wait to keep up with you on the site Robyn!  Good Luck smile

 

I’m so excited that you are here because being the single mom of teen girls often makes me feel more “single”-like than “mom”-like….  Also, I look forward to reading the single woman perspective in a family full of married folks because my life is just like that too. (No offense to my dear married-friend bloggers)  In celebration, I’m going to sign-up for the Free Daily Digest smile  Who’s with me???

 

I agree, it’s great to have someone single posting here! I’m also in that category (although since my only sister is the only one of my siblings with children at the moment, I don’t have to fight for Favorite Aunt Status!). Looking forward to reading your posts! grin

 

Yummy, Rose Dairy. You had me then.  As a fellow CT girl, I welcome you!
(Okay, a Navy girl who currently lives here… for now.)

 

Come on in, Robyn!  I’m glad to have you, and I look forward to hearing your voice in the ongoing conversation here.  Let’s add this to all the reasons Faith & Family Live is in my top five favorite websites…  smile

 

Welcome, Robyn!  It’s great to have you . . . although my 3-year-old son would probably be more impressed if your brother the firefighter were the one blogging! smile  (We are in the “all firetrucks, all the time” stage here!

 

Welcome, Robyn!  So glad you’re here!  You sound so much like my single sis-in-law who totally wins the best aunt award in our family every year, even though they’ve tried to give it to other family members after her.  How blessed your nieces and nephews are!  Can’t wait to read your articles!

 

I love this Robyn! Can’t wait to read more of your posts. Coffee’s on, comfy couch is waiting…Let’s chat! (How about a little yummy coffee cake too? smile

 

Yay Robyn!  To quote Beyonce..“All the single ladies, All the single ladies….now put your hands up!”

 

As fellow single lady and earner of six FAS’s (and many, many, many, many more FCS’s(Favorite Cousin Stauses)) I congratulate you Robyn. I am proud to be a crazy roommate of an appropriately dressed blogger. Can’t wait to read more!

 

Too cute Robyn!

 

Robyn, I’m looking forward to your posts. I’m one of those moms who read this blog daily . . . and love learning from all the different perspectives of the bloggers here. And a single gal like yourself will only enrich the reading, although I have to admit I AM jealous of your morning routine! That’s okay, though. Bring it on! It only makes me stop to give thanks to God for all my own blessings. Welcome!

 

HAHHAH!!  Love the Beyonce quote!!!  Cute!  Welcome Robyn!!

 

Welcome Robyn!!!!! I look forward to reading your future posts!!!!

 

I can’t think of a better addition to Faith and Family Live!  Can’t wait to read your stuff, and I’m looking forward to your fresh perspective!

 

Welcome Robyn,

I have 7 kids and my oldest one is a daughter, almost 16, I hope you can shed insight into some of the high school years, etc…Thanks for doing this for all of us!

 

Awesome to see you on here, Robyn!

 

It’s Official.

You’re adorable.

 

Can’t wait to read your blog over my cup of coffee!

 

Robyn, it will be great to hear from your perspective as a favorite aunt.
Great meeting you last week at Theology on Tap.

 

The thing about the Fox house in Arizona is there is always GOOD coffee here—most often in a thermal carafe. I usually have flavor added (but for special company I can dispense with that). But if you haven’t tried the Barnie’s Coffee called Secret Dreams or Cool Cafe Blues… well—you don’t know what you’re missing. And then—the trick would be to find out what you like to talk about most… and try to encourage that as the heart of the first get-together. Sound like a plan? You’re on. Welcome. And morning Mass is at 8:00 (unless you’re sleeping in)—and then we’ll go to one of the local’s places for the secret local special breakfast….  Blessings… deacon tom

 

great article!  already looking forward to her next one!

 

Nice post Robyn!  I’m officially an aunt as of July and I have been fighting for that FAS right from the start!!!


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