I don’t know - #3 sounds like more than a small success. ![]()
Hooray for maternal triumphs!
Blessings to all…
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Posted by Danielle Bean in Family on Thursday, February 12, 2009 7:00 AM
It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph. So on Thursday of each week, we’ll do exactly that.
To participate, just write up a list of 3 of your recent Small Successes and post it on your blog along with the Small Successes button (go here to get the code). You are not required to use the button, but please do link back to the main post here. Then you can add your blog here using the Mr. Linky form.
If you don’t have a blog, you can share your Small Successes in the comments.
To get us started, here are my Small Successes for this week:
1. I bleached the sink. I have a white porcelain kitchen sink and it needed it more than you know. Well, you would have known if you had seen it. But you didn’t. That’s the magic of blogging. All you know now is how clean and sparkling white it is and forever shall be. Right?
2. I brought up the topic of buying a pair of baby lambs for our oldest daughter’s birthday next month and managed to do it in such way that my husband did not say NO outright. And he didn’t laugh me out of the room either. But he did smile a lot. I’m not sure what that means, but I am hoping ... progress!
3. I got important prescription coverage for my son’s medication. There were huge price tags involved, mountains of paper work, and an untold number of phone calls, but I did it. My son has his medicine and it’s paid for and we can still afford to eat this month. Score!
Okay. Now your turn. I can’t wait to read everyone else’s!
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I don’t know - #3 sounds like more than a small success. ![]()
Hooray for maternal triumphs!
Blessings to all…
I had one—- I know I did—- but I can’t remember today! Oh well.
1. I stayed calm (and actually laughed) when my 1 & 2 year old found the flour while helping me unpack groceries and proceeded to antique each other.
2. I put the laundry away before the kids had a chance to unfold it.
3. I organized the freezer (I didn’t mind the lack of order but it drove my husband nuts).
- I filled my bird feeders for the first time in months.
- I didn’t freak when I returned from a trip to Walmart to discover that of the two necessities on my list (Valentines and candy), only the candy made it home. Argh!
- I had women over and accepted with humility the fact that my house isn’t at its best.
I’m 15 weeks pregnant and “detach” is becoming a way of life. For me, that spells success.
Kelly
Mine are up!
Maureen Griffin (#4), congrats on #1. I’m not sure I would have remained calm. Did you get pictures?
God bless all of you!!! As I read the small successes I had an “Aha!” moment (please excuse me for referring to Oprah). I have been feeling so absolutely alone in my struggles at home lately. The homeschooling isn’t going as well as I would like, the house is a mess, the laundry is unfolded, etc., etc., etc. But I realized this morning…these are all our struggles. Thank you all for sharing! Here are my small successes…
1. I took all four little ones out into the snow (it was more like ice) the other day and managed not to get too stressed out, at least until my 4 year old slipped and landed on her face.
2. I took the kids to Michael’s to pick out craft materials to make St. Valentine’s Day cards for Godparents and Grandparents. Then we actually came home and made them. And I don’t think I yelled too much about the mess. ![]()
3. I mailed the above mentioned cards and I think they will get to their recipients by Saturday. Yippee!!!
1. I attended the healing Mass at Our Lady of Hope with my 11 year old daughter. We prayed five full rosaries and went to Confession. I learned about spiritual and physical healing and completely gave myself over to the Holy Spirit - yep, I “fell over” (rested in the Spirit) For those who doubt, healing is a real charismatic gift even modern times!
2. I printed out the St. Augustine quote from Kimberlee’s site to make Valentines with the kids tomorrow - maybe we’ll even get them in the mail to their grandparents before noon.
3. I took time for spiritual reading, prayer, and quiet before breakfast!
1. I finally got the last thank you written and in the mail. It was from Christmas! I do have a small good excuse. My youngest was born the end of October and with so much family living far away, all those “new baby” gifts were sent. Then it was Christmas gifts. Then we had Louis’ Baptism on the Baptism of Our Lord, and with that more gifts arrived!
2. I actually mailed 3 Valentine’s! Yes, from a Hallmark pack of 10 I bought 2 years ago and finally unsealed the plastic! Maybe I will mail the other 7 next year.
3. When it finally reached record high temps of 60 degrees in our area of Ohio yesterday, and the boys begged to stay outside longer…and longer instead of having lunch or getting stuff done around the house, I let them and didn’t complain too much.
4. I talked to my Mom on the phone today and…..I caught myself!!! I found myself ready to correct her and tell her she was making a big deal about nothing, and I remembered that it must be a big deal to her. So I listened intstead of minimizing.
1. I received an excellent review from my employer for the year
2. All my Tax stuff is together and organized for the trip to the tax accountant for tomorrow.
3. I am all ready for Valentines Day (Was ready as of yesterday actually)—for the kids’ parties and DH & I gifts to our kids.
Love this idea. Moms do need to pat themselves on the back no matter how little the feat! Thanks!
Tara
1. Got the taxes all ready to go. Just need to go to the accountant.
2. Had the Valentines and candy ready to go BEFORE my son’s ECFE class and I didn’t leave them at home!
3. Have cleaned off all the ceiling fans in the house and got to the top of all the cabinets (that collect dust bunnies) in the house!
I was wondering if I could share you small success idea with more spanish speaking bloggers. I think it is a beautiful way to value our little efforts and find our own little way to sainthood.
Thanks for this great idea!
1. Got all of our tax information together and organized (including my home based biz) and taken to the accountant on Monday after work.
2. Bought and completed creative Valentines for a grade school child and a pre-school child, without completely ignoring the baby.
3. Spoke with husband’s previous boss and broke ice about spouse returning to old workplace part-time while hours at newer job are cut due to economic slump. He started today! (Prior boss ran into me and expressed concern. My husband had planned on visiting with him later in the day, but I was also scared that pride may have had him procrastinate the talk. So although I know it’s best not to meddle, I also took the boss’s appearance as an indication that maybe a mention would be a positive step.)
Today I held a family meeting where everyone got to voice their feelings. The need for the meeting arose because there had been some
‘difficulty’ while I was not present. We went from from youngest to oldest through the drama of it all letting each of the six children voice their version. I found it extremely informative helping me to handle the situation calmly and properly while allowing each of the children to willingly accept responsibility for their actions though this meeting took about an hour. It was nice that everyone had to learn how to respectfully wait their turn. The children could talk about anything when it was their turn, but no one was allowed to talk out of turn or interrupt. In the end, I felt it had turned out well. It seems that everyone (including the child who had been “told on” ) was at peace! Amen! Thank you Lord!
1. Finished my talks I am giving for diocesan marriage prep last night even though I really felt like curling up with a good book (and my husband!)
2. Finished the weekly ironing yesterday while the girls played happily (and the baby was asleep). I usually put off ironing until after bedtime. It is a big deal for me to do it during the day.
3. Managed to work out AND shower before all children were up this morning.
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