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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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Danielle Bean
Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea: Musings of a Catholic Mom (Pauline 2005) and Mom to Mom, Day to Day: Advice and Support for Catholic Living (Pauline 2007). Though she once struggled to separate her life …
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Lisa Hendey
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Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Melissa Wiley
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Small Successes (5)

What did you get right this week?

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph. So on Thursday of each week, we do exactly that.

To participate, just write up a list of 3 of your recent Small Successes and post it on your blog along with the Small Successes button (go here to get the code). You are not required to use the button, but please do link back to the main post here. Then you can add your blog here using the Mr. Linky form (please link to the individual blog post, not the home page of your blog).

If you don’t have a blog, you can share your Small Successes in the comments.

To get us started, here are my Small Successes for this week:

1. No fevers! I suppose I can’t really take credit for this one, but I like to think that my diligent care of all my sweet sickies last week had something to do with them getting better. Thank you, God!

2. l’ve been making time every day to read to my littlest kids. Their older siblings often read with them, but I like to have that quiet time together with them too. If I don’t make a conscious effort, though, it just doesn’t happen.

3. I made Chicken Cordon Bleu two nights ago. I really don’t make recipe-dinners as much as I used to and this happens to be a complicated one that is one of Dan’s favorites.

Now tell me yours!

 


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We love Chicken Cordon Bleu.  I would really like to hear your recipe, ify you are willing to share.  I have tried a few of your other recipes and have yet to be disappointed.  Thank you!

 

I’m listing my small successes in the morning! That’s a success in and of itself. Usually it’s later in the day, if I can get to it at all! Can’t wait to read everyone’s!

 

#1 The accountant did the Taxes so now I can do the Fafsa’s ontime.
#2 I didn’t freak out when the glass front to my oven gave up again. (Glass everywhere, kids crying, then laughing that it ‘exploded’)
#3 I got out of bed and dressed intime to switch cars with Dear H.

 

We’re so very happy to have fevers here, as well!  This is the first day in two weeks.  Still a lot of coughing, but no fevers!

 

I just posted mine for the week. I’ve been a bit down lately, so this really helps me to focus on the postive things that are happening in my life.

 

this week i won’t get the link and post to my blog.  it sort of is definitive of my week.  but this week has been all about extra activity due to a HUGE fundraiser i’m chairing for our catholic school.  by sunday, i’ll be ready to sit back and enjoy our day of REST.

 

Thinking of my successes this week has been an uplifting exercise! What a great idea. I have a tenedency to focus on the failures. I’ll be back next Thursday!

 

Congrats on everyone’s small successes!  Blessings!

 

I don’t have a blog so I am posting my 3 here:

1: Woke up on time everymorning this week.  Amazing how that extra 20 minutes allows me to get more done and still get out the door on time without rushing.

2:  Managed to stay fairly caught up on the laundry.  I believe this may be a 1st for me.

3:  I did not get grouchy at the hubby or the kids.  This is a major accomplishment because I tend to sweat the small stuff a lot.

 

1. I was able to shower every day this week before hubby left for work.
2. I didn’t get snarky when hubby agreed to help his friends with plumbing and engine repairs - which entailed being out 5 out of 8 nights, and he has a parish council meeting tonight.
3. I remembered to buy all of the ingredients for the dinner I’m cooking for my friend’s family the day of her outpt. surgery.

 

My successes this week have to do with my attitude.
-I am actually enjoying my week off with my husband.  (attitude was grrrrrr, he’s going to cramp my style this week!)
-the best laid plans dont’ always pan out, and that is sometimes a good thing.
-patience is a virtue
smile Have a good day everyone!

 

Today’s successes…(praying for more to come!):
1. Staying (relatively) calm amidst a house of 6 stuffy & hacking children, despite a sick 8-month old who didn’t sleep well last night.  All the while, humidifiers & vaporizers constantly hum & hot tea with honey is being drank by the gallon.
2. We’re over half-way through our test preparation books (the 4 children old enough to test, that is) in preparation for upcoming standardized testing.
3. The crock put has been full since 8 a.m. with the makings for a big pot of soup beans with ham for dinner.  A huge batch of corn bread is next.

 

I just posted my very simple successes on my blog.  Danielle- I saw you on EWTN last night and I really appreciated your insights about being the oddball family and just accepting that.  I am so grateful for your normal-ness and the variety of my kind of normal people you have drawn to this community.  I am also so grateful to do this each week because I am visiting some very wonderful blogs.  Thanks!

 

Posted my list on my blog after much deliberation - it hasn’t been a particularly successful week!

 

Thank you for posting this weekly!  At first, I struggled with coming up with 3 . . . but then the more I thought about it, I realized I had even more than 3 small successes wink  That was a much needed boost this morning!

 

1. I got youngest ds’s bedroom purged, cleaned out and reorganized. What is it about 8-11 yo boys where they become some kind of creepy packrats stufffing away shredded pieces of paper and dirty socks in places not even accessible to other human beings? When did this previously very neat boy start doing this? And to these same boys: clean does NOT mean shoving the really gross stuff even deeper into the pit.

Let’s just say there were plenty of opportunities for souls in purgatory to be released to Heaven!

2. I took the car in to have new tires put on, all the maintenance stuff, etc. by myself. Waiting for warmer weather to vacuum and wash same car.

3. I got the boys to get haricuts and an appointment made for the dog next week!

 

Not the greatest week I’ve ever had, but I survived AND actually accomplished things. I’ll take that.

 

1. I didn’t wake up cranky at all this week (which is more of a HUGE success, than a small one for me).
2. The clean laundry was all folded and put away.
3. I remained calm at my son’s birthday party with a house full of kids running around (I didn’t even freak out about the crumbs on the floor).

 

1. Made it this far into the week alive!  really it has been crazy busy and I did not think I was going to make it.

2. I listened to 2 friends that needed an ear and some advice. It was difficult to find the time…but they needed me…

3. I told another friend about something she did that bothered me. It was not a comfortable conversations but i think it will make us better friends in the future.

 

Thanks once again, really enjoyed this.

 

I’m so glad this came today.  I really needed a chance to pat myself on the back in the midst of being busy buying our first house.  So much to do and so little time to do it!

 

“It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.”
How about dads?
“Our daily blog is where everyday moms offer one another inspiration, support, and encouragement in Catholic living.”
Are there any goods sites similar this geared toward dads seeking the same?

 

I’m so glad everyone’s feeling better grin

 

Atom Heart Father,
Thanks for your questions! While the primary focus of Faith & Family magazine (and therefore the blog) is on moms, this subject has come up before. You might find this previous discussion from my personal blog helpful:
http://daniellebean.com/2008/06/11/dad-links/

 

I successfully made it through a week of helping my Mom get an apartment, being sick, sick kids and preparing for my teens dance this weekend.
It’s the little things…like the week is over and we’ve all survived, that make everything alright! YES!

 

Thanks for the chance to focus on the positive, even if small, successes!

 

8 days of 5 kids with the flu - need i say more? ok…
1. I broke down and took two kids to the doctor - bronchitis.
2. I have given drinks, tea, popsicles, sympathetic looks, cough medicine, ibuprofen, toast, meals on trays, endless dvds for the past 8 days and usually with a smile.
3.  Despite the illnesses, I finished our taxes - mine and 3 teens so now I can finish fafsa.

 

Theresia #28
those aren’t “small” successes.  You deserve a special pre-lentan treat this weekend

 

This week I survived a virus with temps up to 105 in the 4 yr old.  6 of the 7 children and I had it. One of the children living on his own had it, I wish he lived here so I could have helped him, but I count it a success that I trained him to take care of himself in bad situations…how to take care of his asthma, and stuff like that. I also cancelled my tea for 40 homeschool moms.  This was a success because I chose to postpone rather than keep it for this Sunday, and spend the next couple of days stressing over the cleanliness of the house and health of the children.  I put the health of the children and mental wellbeing of me over wanting to look good to the community!


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