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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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Super Bowl Ads

How did they rank?

It was the Tim Tebow ad that got most of the pre-game attention, but I’m curious to see how you felt about the rest of the ads, now that the big game is over.

To me, they seemed a little more tame (by comparison). Not nearly as many ads featured scantily-clad women, and only one ad really seemed to try and push the limits in that regard. In fact, most of the commercials that featured any kind of “skin” seemed to be men lacking pants (remember the Dockers ad? Rebecca mentioned the campaign on this very website a while back).

If there was one overriding theme, I’d have to say it was “man is very nearly tired of being emasculated.”

But it was loud at my house—was there anything I missed?


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I came away with the same impression, Rachel. But it seemed like men were whining about being emasculated, which sort of propagates the whole idea that they are emasculated. It did seem like there was a certain focus on men in underwear—sort of odd.The Dockers ad disappointed me. I really loved the print campaign at Christmas time, but this ad was not nearly the punch that was. And the Tim Tebow ad worked in an unexpected way. It generated more buzz before it ran and more controversy on what it *could* be than the actual ad could have ever hoped to generate. Sort of genius in an unexpected way. I liked the Doritos kid who protected his mama and his video game, though that wasn’t a new ad and it’s sort of a sad social commentary, too.

 

I figured the Tebow ad would end up being fairly tame, but I didn’t realize just how low-key it would be! I agree that emasculation of men was the popular theme, presented by a “man up” attitude and men in underwear, which I guess is better than women in underwear…

 

Ladies,

Totally agree—it seemed like all the skin was men in tighty whities. I guess selfishly I appreciated that more than all the bikini-clad women of years past because I didn’t have the spend the entire evening telling my boys to close their eyes.

Maybe next year, the ads will be men being men—progress!

 

You know, I was thinking of posting about the ads, but I wasn’t quite sure how to articulate it.  I was really surprised by the number of ads explicitly focusing on the gender gap.  In the past, beer ads with scantily clad women implied a gender gap, as did ads that just didn’t strike me as funny, but I was really disturbed by the theme that men are secretly resenting their lives, which I saw crop up in several ads.  Also, men are stupid and don’t read, but they do like beer and chips, so have those at book club and the guys will all show up?  The funny thing is that I think this ad is targeted to MEN—Danielle wrote in the past about men being portrayed as oafs in sitcoms as a way to amuse women, to sell detergent, etc, but we have so bought in to this image that you can use it to sell beer, too?  Or are they selling beer to women as a way to attract men?

 

Hi~
As with last year, I felt that many of the ads were very mean-spirited.  Interestingly, last year when I bemoaned that fact, my teen son agreed, but only by the end of the game when he too had “had enough”.

This year though, we were barely 2 ads in when he said “looks like another mean year”... and we had plenty of fodder to back that statement! 

But, I guess if I got talking points with my son, they were worth it!

Shirley

 

The little bit that my husband and I watched of the game and commercials, left us with us looking at each other after each ad and saying, “Huh?”
The ads just seemed to not make sense.  Is this what we call the dumming down of America?  Did anyone else feel the same way?

 

I really liked the Google ad, about falling in love with someone in France, getting married, having a baby, etc.  I thought it was cute.

 

Oh, that one was my favorite too! I especially liked that he researched a Church before needing a crib smile

 

i was JUST going to comment on this ad!  wasn’t that cute??

i also liked the horse/cow friendship budweiser ad!

 

Ok, maybe it’s just me, but I thought the Google ad was dull.  Who was the target audience?  Hasn’t everyone tried Google at least once? My 6 yr old thought I was doing a search via the tv - so even she’s seen Google in action.

Yea, I know it told a story ... guy studies oversea in Paris, falls in love, marries, has a child ... it just didn’t knock me out of my seat.

 

Who dat? Geaux Saints! smile

My husband and I definitely noticed the overriding theme of emasculated men whining about their loss of a backbone. The phone ad about growing a backbone, the Dodge Charger ad (which we thought was pretty funny), the Dockers, etc. really drove home the point.

I really loved the Google ad. The “Green Police” ad was really amusing but wasn’t actually funny because it’s eerily true (at least here in the NW). LOL… I know I’ll be in the minority here, but seeing Charles Barkley’s Suess-like ode to the Taco Bell $5 box was hilarious, and I thought the Denny’s commercials with the space-screaming chickens were adorably funny.

The poor Dorito-kid was such a sad social commentary so I couldn’t actually see the humor. Hehehe…. and the Favre-in-10-years commercial was good for a few laughs as well.

There were some really weird and demeaning ones (as per usual), but overall I thought it was kind of a step-up from last year.

 

LOL…Green Police watch out what you throw out!...Very true!

 

My husband really liked the ads for the new men’s line of skin care products from Dove.  I was disgusted by the ads with people all walking around in underwear (casual Fridays and some other ad where the men chanted about not wearing pants).  The Go Daddy ads were revolting as usual.  The Green Police ad was funny but scary at the same time.  The Dockers ad was ok, but I still won’t buy them as they are from Levis and on the pro-life boycott list.  Kind of bums me out because they are really good pants.  All the beer commercials were over the top as they usually are for the super bowl.  I really enjoyed the GAME this year, though.  What an edge of the seat game!  I am glad the Saints won.

 

Geaux Saints!  Who Dat!

I thought the Snickers commercial w/ Betty White was pretty funny.  “You’re just not yourself when you’re hungry.”  lol

 

I loved the Snickers commercial with Betty White and Abe Vigoda.  That was funny!  The google one was sweet.  My teenage son was NOT impressed with the Dove ads…“Let’s all watch dudes showering” was his sarcastic comment.  And the Tim Tebow ad—we were LOOKING for it, and it was so low-key we almost missed it.  I think it needed more of something, just so people who hadn’t heard of it ahead of time would knkow what it was all about!

 

My kids all really giggled at the guy sleepwalking in Africa for a Coke, and driving a delivery van over a human bridge.  I only had to change the channel for (all) the movie trailers, the rest were at least reasonable.

 

Our favorite by far was the guy eating Doritoes and teasing the dog with the bark collar on.  It was the only one that made us laugh out loud. 

I thought the Coke ads were untypically weak and we all kind of said, “Huh?” when the guys were singing about not wearing pants.

I loved the idea of the Focus on the Family ad, but honestly, after watching it wondered what the big deal was.  If I didnt’ know the story from all the hype in the news leading up to it, I would not have known it had anything to do with abortion at all.  At this point I think the controversy did more for the pro-life cause than the ad did.  Funny how that works isn’t it?

 

I think the Godaddy.com ads are disgusting.  I am NOT impressed with Danica Patrick’s choice to promote that sort of creepy stuff.  Not a role model for girls at all, IMHO.

 

I think you are right about the emasculation thing- but I loved the Charger ad! I think I would like to see it as the civilization of man- serious courtesy and compromise in all things necessary, but retaining that ultimate edge of testosterone in the pursuit of the protector provider capacity and role. Maybe it’s just because I have ALOT of boys…;o)


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