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Daily Lenten Meditations

«  March 2010  »

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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I’m wondering if anyone has any good suggestions for a baby sign language book?  I’ve never used sign language with any of my children but am interested now with our fifth baby.  Thanks

 

I don’t know any books, but the “Signing Time” DVDs have been good.  We have the “Everyday Signs” volume and my 14-month-old *loves* it.  His godmother also taught him a couple of other signs (like more and please) but I think the ones on this DVD are great.  At least in my opinion, it’s not noisy, overstimulating, or annoying—I really like how it’s done.  I bet you could try the videos from the library first if you wanted to see.  It’s amazing how my son can tell me he’s hungry, wants a cookie, say please, say he’s wet, or likes cheese, all without being able to say the words!

One advantage of DVDs over books in this case, also, might be that you can see the signs demonstrated, since so much of it is the motion.  But I am hearing and not experienced in this, so take it for what it’s worth smile

 

Love the Signing Time dvds too; we check them out from the library.  My kids have liked the “Baby Fingers” board books too.  “I’m Feeling…”, “Teaching Your Baby to Sign”, and “I Want…” are some of those titles.  Easy to follow and my kids like the photos of other babies.

 

I need a book for a sixth grade boy that will really capture him. He loved the Percy Jackson series.  Any ideas?

 

Has he read any of the Redwall series yet?

 

How about the John R. Tunis books?  My brothers loved them.  Roald Dahl is good too.  “White Fang” maybe?  Or Robert Louis Stevenson?

 

I don’t know if the Great Brain series is still in print (I can’t remember the author), but I bet a sixth grade boy would love it!

 

The Ranger’s Apprentice is usually well-liked by boys, so is Gregor Overlander.  I thought the series of Peter and the Starcatchers was pretty good…

The Thief is pretty good: takes place in a fictional lnad that resembles ancient Greece.  Just be aware: the main character meets and dreams and believes in the pagan Gods of his world.  It’s a little like Percy Jackson series, but Percy was even more a fantastical character than the one in The Theif.

 

I second the Rangers Apprentice books, and the Redwall series

 

I would also recommend the Ranger’s Apprentice series.  My husband and I have read the first 4 and love them.  The vocabulary in the first one- in the prologue- is very tough, so my 11 year old wouldn’t read it.  He said he didn’t understand half of the words.  We told him to just keep reading, but he wouldn’t do it.  I think in a year or so, we’ll just try again.  The books are very well written and have virtue imbedded throughout- loyalty, honesty, integrity.

 

Does anyone have a good book for a 6th grade boy about puberty that ties in with the churches teachings, but does not go into too much detail like the books for teens?

 

My husband has been reading “The Joyful Mysteries of Life” with our 11 year old son.  They have been reading one chapter a week.  It’s really good.  Our son is still pretty innocent, so they have stopped for now (they read maybe 6 chapters).  Some of the later chapters start going into remaining pure and chaste, but he wouldn’t understand what that even means yet.

Some of it is a little different- like at one point it talks about how you wouldn’t talk about these things with your friends (after it introduced intercourse) because that would cause your parents much pain and suffering- or something like that.  My husband thought it was kind of funny worded that way.  But when he was going over the questions at the end of the chapter and it said, “Why should you refrain from talking about these things except with your parents?”, my son completely repeated, “Because it would cause you much pain and suffering.”  I thought that was cute.

http://www.amazon.com/Joyful-Mysteries-Life-Catherine-Scherrer/dp/0898706300/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1265461386&sr=1-1

 

Does anyone have a suggestion for a book for a 11 almost 12-year-old boy that talks about puberty and the churches teachings?  One that does not go into as much detail as the teen books do.

 

http://www.passport2purity.com  is great.  in a group or even dad/ to son, mom to son if dad’s not around, or on a weeekend getaway with another dad/ son duo.

 

I would recommend you check out “The Joyful Mysteries of Life”.  You’ll have to discern if it’s what you’re looking for, but it approaches the topic from a very innocent perspective and in light of the Joyful Mysteries of the Rosary.
http://www.amazon.com/Joyful-Mysteries-Life-Catherine-Scherrer/dp/0898706300/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1265417445&sr=8-1

 

Check out Catholic speaker and author Colleen Kelly Mast at respectincorporated.com.

 

How do you go about researching homeschooling curriculum?  I don’t know where to begin besides google.  I haven’t attended a homeschooling convention and am hoping to begin with kindergarten in the fall.  I would like something with accreditation to start out with.

 

There are a bunch of options out there, even just Catholic. My favorite place to start is Catholic Heritage Curricula. I really, really like their material. But it is not accredited. I have not used others, but: Mother of Divine Grace, Kolbe, Seton are all options. And http://www.love2learn.net is great for Catholic homeschoolers as well. Hope all that helps!

 

Get the book Designing Your Own Classical Curriculum by Laura Berquist, the head of Mother of Divine Grace school.  This book discusses a classical approach to home education, but also gives suggestions for every grade from kindergarten to 12th grade.  You can also visit http://www.motherofdivinegrace.org, the website for the school, to find out more.  With MODG curricula you can buy and use the syllabi without enrolling in the school.

 

Thank you for the suggestions!  I’m looking into it now to see what would fit our family best.

 

I second the Redwall series.  The books are huge and entertaining; esp. for boys.  There are like 20 in the series.  We are using them for read-alouds right now. 
Chronicles of Narnia would be another group of books I could see a boy loving.  The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, Carry on Mr. Bowditch, Farmer Boy, books by Dick King-Smith, Peter Pan(some mild language), Robin Hood, Wizard of Oz, The Bedtime Story Books by Thorton W. Burgess, Books by Marguerite Henry, Boxcar Children Series,The Happy Hollisters Series, any of the Bethlehem Books. 

Hope that is helpful.

 

I was just wondering if anyone has any suggestions for preparing a 7 yr. old for First Reconcilliation. Any books or websites that may help explain to a young child and any thoughts on how to make the day special for him.

 

I used “Today I Made My First Reconciliation” by Dianne Ahern for my son when he made his First Confession nearly 3 years ago.  It’s a great book that explains the sacrament and gives real-life examples that are appropriate for children that age.

 

I’m looking for material to prepare my 5 & 3 year old for the Lenten season. Any books or manipulatives anyone recommends?


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