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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

A favorite part of the Advent season brings back fond memories

The lights dimmed, the second graders struggled to stand still, a microphone turned up too high let off a high pitched moan, and the opening notes of the first song rang out marking the debut of “Christmas at Bethlehem Gulch” and this Catholic school mom’s last chance to watch one of my children perform in our school’s annual Christmas pageant. 

With Adam in eighth grade, I’ve found myself feeling sentimental a lot this year, but rarely as much as last night when I realized this truly was a memorable occasion.  I’ve been watching Christmas pageants at St. Anthony’s for over a decade now and have seen just about every variation on the traditional nativity that you can imagine.  At our school, we are blessed to have a full time music teacher who is also our head of liturgy at the parish.  Mr. S. does such a fabulous job every year of coming up with a pageant that combines the musical talents of each and every student in the school, combined with the acting expertise of our eighth grade students. 

We parents wait for years to arrive at the moment when our “big kids” will finally be the stars of the pageant.  I’ve endured years of hoping my boys wouldn’t be the ones to pick their noses or vomit as they stood in the chorus as very young students.  I’ve watched them squirm through the awkward middle school years when their mouths were moving, but this mom could tell no singing was actually being done.  And now, to see my “baby” as an 8th grader after so many years of watching and enjoying - and to realize that this will be my very last pageant - brought tears to my eyes.

What a blessing to attend a school where one of the high points of Advent is our annual gathering to celebrate in song and drama the nativity of our savior.  No “Holiday Concerts” at our school - no songs about Frosty or reindeer.  No fear of saying “Merry Christmas” or reciting from the Bible.

Last night’s program featured a western “dude ranch” adaptation of the Christmas story - complete with my Adam doing a country line dance (something I never would have imagined when he was a first grader who had to be bribed to simply stand in the back row and pretend to sing!).

The focal point of the program, regardless of the dramatic trappings of each year’s pageant, is a true to life retelling of Jesus’ birth.  At the play’s climax, Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus appeared at center stage, surrounded by 8th grade friends and backed by younger students singing their little hearts out, while the audience chimed in for a rousing chorus of “Gloria”. 

My tears flowed freely at the simply blessing of that moment and I determined that I need to “adopt” a kindergarten family who will allow me to tag along to the pageant with them next year!

Does your school or homeschooling group celebrate Christmas with a pageant?  I’d love to hear your stories and memories of your children’s pageant moments.


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Amen!  Ours is this evening at our Catholic School…I’ll bring my kleenex, too.

 

We are here in the States for 1 year and this is the one and only Catholic School Christmas Pageant for us here.  With my kids, nieces and nephews we had a representative of almost every class, alas not 8th grade.  My oldest dd did sing a beautiful solo in German, that probably no one understood except for her sisters and me.  It was truly wonderful and I was so proud of her.  If you are curious it was “Es ist ein Ros’ entsprungen” which is a big favorite in our home.  A man filmed the entire production with a really big camera that looked kinda profi to me.  I am definitely buying the DVD.

 

Our former parish sometimes did.
I wrote and directed one year. I pored over dozens of Christmas poems and took bits and pieces from about 6 or 7 and cobbled together a Christmas play in verse. It ended up being quite nice. I wish I still had a copy.
This is awful but I can’t even remember the parts my own children played I was so wrapped up in the organizational aspect. I can tell you who Mary was but that is about it.raspberry
Over the last 15 years though Christmas pagaents have not had a real place in our Christmas celebrations.

 

Our Catholic School is in its 4th year, and we have a wonderful pageant each year (the same each year so far). We like that it doesn’t change, as we can tell each new kindergartner that this is his year to be an angel and sing Happy Birthday Jesus. They like that part. Ours is tomorrow, and I can’t wait, although I dread the year it will be my last one (2021 if we don’t have any more children…)

 

So fun to hear about all of the various ways that schools and families celebrate - I hope others will share too!  Lisa

 

My son was home sick Monday and missed participating in his first ever pageant. Oh, did the tears flow! I SO wanted to hear his little voice and his classmates singing a lullaby to baby Jesus in their little shepherd outfits.

 

Tonight is our Christmas concert at our Catholic school. I, too, am grateful for this school where our concert is a “Christmas” one - not “holiday”. Our school goes through 5th grade, so it’s the 5th graders that “star” in the play part of the show. After five years of watching each 5th grade class take their turn, my oldest is now in 5th grade. With pregnancy hormones to boot, I know I’ll need tissue!

 

Dear Lisa,  I feel your sentiment.  Our oldest, Matthew, began St. Mary’s school back in 1992, and we have had kids in the annual Christmas pagent ever since.  It’s amazing how the same old songs and costumes take our breath away year after year.  Our “baby”, Jacob, is in eigth grade this year, too.  He was chsen for the MC of the evening for the pagent, our last pagent,  which should have taken place this evening…I say ‘should have’ because it’s not going to happen.  Mother nature took over and caused the biggest snowstorm ever here in the Antelope Vally of Southern CA.  School closed early for Christmas vacation, and they decided to make it an “Epiphany pagent” in early January.  And as disappointing as that may seem after 16 years of pagents, when you live in a place that usually gets one small sprinking of snow each winter, what happened yesterday was as breathtaking as any pagent.  To have time with the kids, and do nothing but sledding, snowman-building, bake cookies and drink hot cocoa by the fire…our own plans for the day were good, but clearly God’s plans were even better.  And this morning our world is completely white, so we get to do it all over again.
Please let me me know how you are feeling.  We are praying for you every day.  God bless!

 

To all Moms whose “baby” is in 8th grade this year…as a teacher at our Catholic school, I can not emphasize enough how appreciated you might be next year if you would be willing volunteer your time to help with the pagent.  When lining up and trying to hush little ones who are bouncing off the walls with excitement…there can never be too many parents helping out.  And your older kids might want to volunteer their help as well…it’s a great way to say thank you for many years of Ctholic education.

 

Our parish hosts a children’s pageant on Christmas Eve before mass.  It’s wonderful to see the kids graduate from sheep to shepherds to readers to singing in the choir.  I’m sure I’ll have a tear in my eye when our family’s days of participating are over.  Thankfully we still have little ones!

But, my kids go to public school, so I’ll also speak up in defense of winter concerts.  We attended our school’s show last night and it was a wonderful evening.  I feel lucky that my kids get to celebrate the universal joys of the season with their friends of so many different backgrounds.  I love hearing the children talk proudly about their own traditions (Jewish, Muslim, African, Christian, etc.) and seeing the pride in my sons’ eyes when they talk about their Catholic ones.  Being in a vibrant parish and a public school gives us the best of both worlds!

 

Laura,  Thanks for sharing your experience - I’m very sad that at our parish this year our Pastor has discontinued a longstanding tradition of having our little ones come to Christmas Eve mass dressed as shepherds, angels and wise men.  Also, as a mom of one who’s in public school now for the first year ever, thanks for your gentle reminder that exposing our children to cultural diversity can be a very beautiful thing!  Lisa

 

We have a small homeschooling family but still manage to do a very short Christmas play (our parish doesn’t really do one).  We use our digital camera and send the youtube link to my extended family members, almost all of whom live far away.  I don’t see my extended family for holidays so this is one way to share Christmas.


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