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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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The Stoning of Soraya M.

New film stars Jim Caviezel.

Due in theaters next week on June 26th is The Stoning of Soraya M., a film that had been touted by Catholic reviewers and leaders who have screened it.  Here’s the summary from the film’s website:

From the filmmaker who produced “The Passion of the Christ” comes a powerful film, a modern-day parable, based on an incredible true story of sacrifice, oppression and mob rule. A village’s persecution of an innocent woman becomes both a daring act of witness and a compelling introspection. As Christians, how do we confront evil? Do we recognize its subtle manipulations? Who will join forces with the plot against her, who will surrender to the mob, and who will dare to stand up for what’s right? This film is an inspiring tribute to the many fighting against injustice around the world.  Academy Award® nominee Shohreh Aghdashloo (THE NATIVITY STORY, HOUSE OF SAND AND FOG) stars in the heroic role of Zahra, an Iranian woman with a burning secret. When a journalist (Jim Caviezel, THE PASSION OF THE CHRIST, DÉJÀ VU) is stranded in her remote village, she makes a bold choice to reveal what the villagers will stop at nothing to keep hidden.

This week, Beliefnet.com is featuring an interview with actor Jim Caviezel in which he discusses his role in the film, being a Christian in Hollywood and how he thinks the film will impact people who view it.

This film is rated R, strongly indicating that it is not a film for all viewers.  The USCCB rating is not yet available, but should be on the Bishop’s website next week.  I am planning to see the film, but will definitely not allow my teens to see it until I have prescreened it in advance.  Will you see this film?  What type of impact do you think movies such as The Stoning of Soraya M. can have given current world affairs?



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I had the opportunity to screen this compelling movie about a month ago. I had an idea that these types of conflicts were happening in the Middle East but this movie really educated and gave me a clear picture of how bad it actually is.  Despite my watching it through tear-filled eyes at points, I do highly recommend this movie.  The world needs to be made aware of this injustice and all who have died because of it. 

(Note: the film is rated R for a reason.  If you are faint of heart and can’t stomach the sight of blood, this isn’t the movie for you. Think “The Passion”. Personally I think what makes it hardest to watch is knowing that its a true story.)

In reflection, the pro-life message the movie gives is that all people were created in the image and likeness of God and deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.  Born and unborn, man or woman, Christian or Muslim.  After all, “Let he who has no sin cast the first stone”.

 

Kara - I am so happy that you were able to comment, since you have seen the film.  I think I’m going to go by myself to see it, taking a box of tissue with me…Would love perspectives from anyone else who attended an advance screening.

 

One of my brothers also had the opportunity to see a screening of this movie & he echoed Kara’s response above about the power of this movie.  He said there were many symbolic elements to the story that likened it to The Passion of the Christ.  I hope The Stoning of Soraya M. raises the awareness of terrible crimes against human life like this.  As uncomfortable as it might make us, it is something that needs to be seen.

 

I went to a Boston pre-screening for this powerful film.  I was deeply moved and affected by this film, just as I was by The Passion of the Christ. People openly wept in the theatre.

Put it on your must-see list when it opens June 26th.

A few caveats:

1) This is R-rated, and not a film for children or for impressionable younger teens IMHO. This is one of those that if you think you want your teens to view it, go view it first yourself as a parent, then decide.

2) While being promoted to many Christian markets, this is not about Christianity. In fact, the main characters are Muslims. Yet it is more than a film about them.  It’s about humanity. And our inhumanity to one another because of sin. Therefore, there are many universal themes and moral lessons applicable to people of all faiths and ethnicities and cultures.

3) You will want to make sure this one innocent woman, Soraya, did not die in vain.

4) You will want to pray deeply over this passage from John 8:7…
And [Jesus]... stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”

 

You migth think I’m old fashion, but whatever happen to the Legion of Decency? Why have R-rated movies been so acceptable for Catholic’s to view. Are the Ten Commandments just for children? As far as I am concern there are NO movies out there that are good clean entertaining and have any redeeming value, because of the sex, vilence and language..even childrens movies throw in bathroom humore. Aren’t we all just a little weak when it comes to near occasions of sin? Our shepards are not leading the flock on the road to heaven. Infact, they put their own souls in jeopardy whenthey view them and ratethem. really, now would Jesus Chrsit watch r-rated movies??? And if He did, it would be to tell us NOT to go to them, but to PRAY for strength to avoid them, but of course pray for the movies industry.  I think Catholic’s thave taken on the attitude…if you can’t beat them, join them. Well, you’re NOT going to change anything with that frame of mind. It starts with ourselves, we have to not go to Movies, or any entertainment that will not lead us to Christ. Period! Then, see what the movie industry will do? We live in a society, that doesn’t see sacrifice as any merit. How sad we will be when we meet Our Lord and He asked us to show us our wounds…the wounds that were inflicted upon us when we stood up for HIS TRUTH! As for me, May Our Lord give me the grace to continue to NEVER go to MOVIES, until they clean up their act!

 

Joyce - I definitely don’t think you’re old fashioned…values and morals are never old fashioned.  While I don’t really know what the Legion of Decency is, I do typically look to the Bishops and their guidelines for movies.  I don’t typically see R rated movies, but in this case I will likely make an exception to that rule as so many noted Catholic leaders have recommended it.  I admire your strong stance and will join my prayers with yours for more wholesome family entertainment options.

 

Joyce, I agree with you 100%!  I am about the only one in my circle (conservative, Catholic, homeschooling) that refuses to see R-rated or PG-13 movies.  I gave in with the Passion of the Christ and wished I hadn’t.  The 70’s miniseries Jesus of Nazareth was just as good but minus the over-the-top violence.  Yes, there are unspeakable horrors going on in the world but that doesn’t mean we need to see every detail to believe they are happening.  All this stuff does is desensitive us further.

 

I don’t watch R rated movies either, although I do watch some PG-13 ones. However, it seems that those ones are pushing the boundaries more and more and some of the ones I have seen were a little too disturbing. I am the only adult I know who didn’t watch The Passion and one of the reasons was because of its rating. Sometimes people have even made me feel guilty for not watching it, so I am very glad you said that you regretted it. I completely agree that watching movies that are violent or sexual desensitize us; most people are to the point where it is no big deal, but even Catholics justify it by saying that even if it is wrong, it is either for the sake of art or we learn a lesson from the immorality of the movie. :(


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