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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is editor-in-chief of Catholic Digest and Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the author of A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also enjoys speaking around the country, is employed as webmaster for her parish web sites and spends time on various …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their 4-year-old daughter, 2-year-old son, and twin boys born May 2011. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is a 30-something, single lady, living in Connecticut in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law and six kids ... and two doors down are her parents. She received her undergraduate degree from …
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Daria Sockey is a freelance writer and veteran of the large family/homeschooling scene. She recently returned home from a three-year experiment in full time outside employment. (Hallelujah!) Daria authored several of the original Faith&Life Catechetical Series student texts (Ignatius Press), and is currently a Senior Writer for Faith&Family magazine. A latecomer …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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Vote For My Guy Or You're Stupid

Can "good" Catholics disagree?

“If you vote for him ... there will be no excuse for you before God.” —Facebook.

Election time is here! That singular moment when Catholics who hold exactly the same values based on faith, hope, and charity, tear each other apart.

Well not literally. But there is talk about sin and hell and who’s a real Catholic, and who isn’t. All based on the vote!

This is nothing new. It happens during every election. It’s a great way to make people get mad and stop listening. So why do we keep falling for it? Because ...

We all feel passionately about the issues—especially:

Human life
Marriage
War

And rightly so. The funny thing is ... we agree about how we want these issues to turn out. Totally and completely agree! We want human life and marriage protected and our military strong.

It’s just how to get those things done that’s gumming us up. Which candidate is the best man to make our dreams come true?

So let’s talk.

So what if we disagree? It’s natural. The founding fathers did and they were more polically savvy than most of us. So there’s no shame in it. We’ve inherited their legacy of debate and resolution. It’s part of governing ourselves and we Americans take the privilege very seriously. As Catholics, we have an obligation to apply Church teaching to the decision.

Let’s compare the candidates and how their positions stack up against Catholic principles. Let’s see how their positions compare to what is stated in the US Constitution. Finally, let’s talk about their tactics and how effective we think they will be.

I’d like to vote intelligently and I believe you would to. If you want to persuade me to vote for your guy, I’ll listen and I’ll try to persuade you to vote for mine. We’ll talk respectfully to each other and hopefully we’ll both learn. In the end, maybe we’ll even vote the same way. But if we don’t, I won’t call you stupid. You have studied the issues and have reasons for your vote. What is stupid about that?

I won’t condemn you. You are trying to create conditions where virtue can flourish. How is that evil?

I’m going to trust that you are a real Catholic. Are you willing to do the same for me?

—Senior writer Susie Lloyd is author of Please Don’t Drink the Holy Water! and Bless Me Father For I Have Kids.


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