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Voting Pro-Life

Even on the Local Level

Today I went to the grocery store to buy some comfort food for a rainy afternoon (Cheez-its and Reese’s pieces if anyone was wondering).

Happy with my purchase I walked out the door and was greeted by young professionals who asked if I was a resident of the town. When I said yes, I was introduced to the local politician who was running for Town Council.

Now let me first say that I am not into politics, normally I would take whatever literature they were throwing at me and keep moving. But as I was standing there (in the rain), I thought of a conversation I had with my mom just days before.

A friend of my mom’s had asked to put a campaign sign on her front lawn. My mom’s immediate question was, “Is she pro-life?”

The response was hostile. “For goodness sake! She is just running for Town Council.”

My mom, responded with a smile, “I know, I’m a radical.”

But the sign didn’t go up.

Flash back to the front of the grocery store. I’m shaking hands with Mr. Local politician and he is handing me his brochure. With mom’s recent example on my mind (and a surge of courage from the Holy Spirit) I asked, “Are you pro-life?”

(silence)

I stood there for a good 30 seconds (and believe me 30 seconds was a loooooooong time) before Mr. Town Council thought of his answer.

TC: “Well, I personally am.”

Me: “Great! Would you vote pro-life if a matter came up?”

TC: “I’m just running for Town Council. It doesn’t matter.”

Me: “But if it ever came up, would you vote pro-life?”

TC: (pause) “No.”

And with a smile, I politely handed him back his flyer and walked away.

Being pro-life matters to me.

Maybe they think I’m dumb because the question of abortion doesn’t come up in planning and zoning meetings, but in reality local politicians sometimes move up to the next level where the question of abortion does come up. If I’m supporting a politician on any level, he or she better be pro-life.

I got into my car and said a prayer for Mr. Town Council. Maybe in those 30 seconds of silence the Holy Spirit planted the seed. Maybe he’ll think about what is important ... and change his mind.

Maybe you don’t see the importance of the pro-life issue either ... and no line of reasoning will change your mind. I encourage you to watch this new clip called the 180 Movie.

Be warned, there are some very disturbing and graphic images in this 30-minute movie (and some of his theology is off about what is required for forgiveness and salvation), but it is worth watching it all the way through.

After you’ve watched it come back and leave me a comment. I hope it will change your mind.


Comments

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Exactly where do people who say “it’s *only* town council” (or fill in the blank____) think that the higher-up, more influential politicians get their start, for goodness sake?

If this little ole voter’s opinion doesn’t matter to the candidate now, when he or she wants to be mayor, or chief pumpkin-picker, for that matter, why should I believe s/he’ll start caring during the congressional races? 

Good for you, Robyn. Well done!

 

In the big picture, the way you feel about the issue of abortion reflects your overall worldview.  I hate how the ‘issue’ of abortion is just that for some people - an ‘issue.’  It’s not just a political stance, after all 0 it’s what you believe life is.  Do people have an inherent dignity or are they just a commodity?  Does an individual really have the right to tell another individual that they can’t be born? 
Believe it or not, this worldview will have an impact on how you think about everything - even issues that are seemingly insignificant like zoning.

 

Great answers Robyn! smile

 

Great job Robyn!

 

My MIL is very into politics at the local level for precisely the reason StephC says - the move from there to the next level.  If we start with good people at the town council level, there will only be good people at the next!

 

I wish every politician could read your post to get a little moral courage.  Thanks for continuing posting.

 

the 180 movie is very well done- hubby and I watched it last week.  Makes me wonder, though… where are all the Catholics?  We went to the nearest “40 Days for Life” campaign site in a city 3 hours away.  We weren’t sure where to go, so we went to the Catholic church to ask at the parish office.  Nobody knew where we should go or who we should contact until the parish secretary looked it up online with the website address hubby provided.  And this “clinic” (abortuary) was RIGHT IN THEIR NEIGHBORHOOD!  The meeting place for participants was the local “Christian” (not Catholic) bookstore.  We were gladdened to meet one couple who prayed a Rosary, but we had to wonder… where were all the Catholics?  We, as THE Church, have to get more involved, and it DOES start on the local level- in your own neighborhood and town and even on your local town council.

 

Quite simply, if you can’t get it right when it comes to human life, why should I trust you with anything else?  And your comment about where does one think “bigger” politicians begin is spot on.  If we let them slide onto the city council, they have a foot in the door for “bigger and better” positions.  Slam the door shut while we can.

 

Local councilmen often vote on zoning laws etc.  They have the power to keep a Planned Parenthood out of their neighborhood or town.  It is very much a local issue!  Good job Robyn!

 

Exactly, Toni.  Not only have we worked with our local city council to keep Planned Parenthood out of our town (successfully thus far)—we have also worked with them to keep “adult bookstores” out (unsuccessfully) & are hoping to work with them so that what constitutes a “family” for zoning purposes is not too broadly defined.

 

cheers to you robyn - it really DOES matter! smile

 

Some 35 or so years ago, when I lived in NY state, a gentleman from our parish was running for some position, just above dog catcher, as I recall.  When I asked if he would vote Pro-Life, he, also, said it wouldn’t come up.  I told him that he may go on to higher levels where Pro-Life voting would come up, and I would only vote for someone who would always vote Pro-Life.  He thought about that, and said, yes, he understood and would always vote Pro-Life.  I did vote for him, and he has gone on to higher levels.  I was as opinionated and outspoken then as I am now.

 

You inspire me.  It is that season, and I need to remember to always ask that question!

 

Three years ago, I was at Hong Kong getting Chinese food takeout (MY comfort food), when a woman came up to my car seeing my pro life bumper stickers. We got talking-pro life, against assisted suicide, very patriotic (father died during Korean conflict, two sons oversees in Army), against embryo stem cell research…very conservative.
Here we are three (almost four) years later, I am still volunteering for her campaign. This is her third time trying to get to state senate for the third district. Her opponent is as liberal as they come. Pray that she wins in 2012.

 

BRAVO ROBYN!! Thank you for standing up for the Babies! May we all have the courage to speak for them year round…

 

My husband had a conversation with a door to door politicians that went like this:

Local Rep:  Hi, I’m running for _____.  Hope I can count on your support.
Husband: Are you pro-choice?
Local Rep:  (taken off guard a bit)  Well, um, yes I am.
Husband:  I’m sorry, no one in the house will vote for anyone who is pro-choice.

It ended with the guy making excuses for why he is pro-choice and claiming he doesn’t really vote on any issues related to that, etc.  This happens every time we meet a politician and I still crack up at how uneasy it makes them.  Good for you, Robyn!  That isn’t always an easy thing to do.  Prayers for all politicians everywhere!

 

I LOVE this!!!!

 

Catholicvote.org is an organization dedicated to educating Catholics on matters of faith and politics.  Check them out.  They are a greatresource and a great organization.

 

How did I not notice this post until today?! You rock, Robyn ... these are words of wisdom and inspiration for any generation. And I totally love your mom’s comment: “I know, I’m a radical.” Priceless - and, unfortunately in our world today, all too true. May God bless you both for standing up for life ... and inspiring all of us to do nothing less.

 

It’s amazing that some people deny the ripple effect. If our prayers quietly recited within the privacy of a closet are effective, than why wouldn’t our political actions including a ballot casted within a private cubicle count towards good or evil? Mr. Town Council may have an opportunity to promote a local crisis pregnancy center. Or he may promote something else that is more economically profitable.


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