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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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  • Pray Is there someone who inspires feelings of inferiority in you? Offer a Memorare for her intentions.
  • Fast Refrain from self promotion. “The only way to make rapid progress along the path of divine love is to remain very little and to put all our trust in Almighty God. That is what I have done.” -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Give Page through your wedding album with your children today. Remember how loved you felt that day. Love your family well.
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Watching Oprah Just This Once

I know we’re not Oprah fans here.

But tomorrow the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist will be her guests.

If you tune in, come back and tell us about it here!

 


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thank you for this one, we can’t wait to see it, we will watch Oprah as well, “just this once”!

 

I won’t miss it!

 

Oprah’s show summary says “Lisa Ling Goes Inside the World of a Modern Geisha and a Real-Life Nunnery”.  That’s interesting…having those 2 topics in the same show…well, I will watch it and hopefully the Nuns will be portrayed well.

 

Whats funny about this episode is that Lisa Ling also reports on the life of a geisha.

The Dominican Sisters, Mary Mother of the Eucharist have been great friends of CatholicTV.  We were pleased to offer footage of other orders for the Oprah show so be on the lookout for the Sisters of Mercy and Sisters of Notre Dame!

Also - the Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious taped their Formator’s Workshop at our studios check it out at the website above

 

I pray that these women are portrayed honestly and not as buffoons.  I am leery of anything that Oprah has a part in.  Frankly, she is a bit frightening.

 

I agree. 

When I told one of my friends that the Sisters were to appear on Oprah’s show, she commented:  “I wish I could think that Oprah has a genuine interest in the Sisters and their Order, but I imagine she will try to belittle them and attempt to portray them as homely, socially inept nerds whose only choice was to hide themselves away in a convent.”

One does wonder if Oprah is having the Sisters on her show because she sees them as some kind of quirky religious oddity.  I hope I am wrong in this assessment.  I am confident the Sisters will exude such JOY as brides of Christ that the audience will find them endearing.  I think many in the audience who are adherents of Oprah’s “wisdom” may be seeking to fill a spiritual void in their lives.

 

They were interviewed on Al Kresta the other night and it sounded like the sister’s were pleased with how respectful the Oprah crew was.  Apparently they were very curious and could not understand WHY a woman would CHOOSE to live a life as a nun!  But supposedly Lisa Ling wants to go back for a retreat?  Let’s pray it will be a witness to the world!

 

I am setting the DVR to check this out.  The juxtaposition of geisha/nun is interesting to put it mildly.  Thanks for letting us know as I NEVER pay attention to what Oprah is doing on her show and would have missed it.  This order iof nuns is so amazing!  They are really flourishing and it is great to see.  Looking forward to the show.

 

I watch so little tv, and don’t get a tv guide—so can anyone help me out here and tell me what time (eastern time) this show is on? And if, as I’m guessing, it comes on while I’m still at work, is there a website that will play the episode later on?

 

It’s on ABC at 4 pm. I’m not sure about finding it online afterwards, but you might be able to on the Oprah website.

 

Thank you for the alert.  I have to say I wonder at her motive in including them in her program.  Perhaps it’s the total juxtaposition of the two groups.  Her comments following the segments may be interesting.  Somehow, I just can’t imagine her being complementary to the sister’s choice of life, or understanding their inner call to follow Christ—especially since she herself, as far as I can understand, sees Him as being a “Cosmic Master”, which we can all become.

 

Despite what Oprah may try to do to or say about the Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist, the point is they will have a national audience and God can reach so many hearts through what may be unthinkable means.  I applaud the sisters for opening themselves up to the world in this way.  Our prayers are with them!

 

I can’t wait to watch this.  We have a mission in Loomis, California run by the sisters of Mary Mother of the Eucharist.  I get to share daily morning mass with them, before they run off to teach school and I go to work, and I even had the pleasure of taking a Catechism class at the University of Sacramento where one of the sisters taught a portion of the class.  They are sweet and genuine people.  For a while before I got married to my wonderful husband I contemplated joining this order because of their devotion to the church, it’s teachings and they embrace the wearing of a full habit.  Such inspiration.  I truly hope that Oprah “sees” what a true vocation looks like and becomes interested in the Catholic faith.  Maybe she’ll be so inspired by these sisters she could possibly convert?  Who knows?  Only God.

 

From what I’ve seen so far, it is a misunderstanding that Geishas are prostitutes or consorts.  Geisha literally means artist and it seems to be a discipline or way of life that these women share with others and not something immoral in any way.  Like any profession, the woman said, would you judge all the women based on what just a few have done?  She said at the end of the piece that she wanted to emphasize that sex has never been a part of who a Geisha is and when Japan banned prostitution the Geishas were not even included in the ban because the Japanese have never made the mistake, like many Americans and Europeans, of believing Geisha were prostitutes or engaged in such behavior.  Fascinating!  Amazing that these women have preserved the arts of dance, music and tea pouring and dress in super modern Japan!

 

AMAZING!  I thought the Dominican Sisters were treated with such respect!  They women who spoke on the show are so articulate and explained their vows of poverty, chastity and obedience so eloquently and I actually cried at how very beautiful they spoke of being married to Christ - they did not mince words or dilute the truth AT ALL! They spoke the truth of their love for Christ boldly and without apology.  One woman even spoke of how God takes care of everything - she said she was dating a young man who she loved very much and they were even going to marry - his sister became a nun and soon after she felt the calling and I burst into tears when she said that he would be ordained a priest nearly the same time she would take her final vows!!!!  AMAZING!  God is good, they kept saying it.  And they all spoke of their calling - which was tough to express adequately, but they often equated it to lacking peace in their lives and no matter where they turned or what they did to fill their lives with stuff, a career and even the right man, there remained something missing… so it seems the calling is a very real and obvious thing.  They spoke of marriage and sexuality and how they lived a very integrated life where they are married to Christ and express their sexuality as having reclaimed their dignity as a person and it manifests in their expressions of love and service to others.  Beautiful!!  These women are PERFECT spokespersons for the faith and for the religious life!!!  I was truly truly impressed!!  They should do youtube videos on the religious life and spread the word!!!!

 

I am so truly moved by this show!  Oprah LEARNED so much from these women!  Such a beautiful testament to the Catholic faith!!  I cannot say enough how wonderful this is and it should be seen by young women as even the head sister, oh dear, what is her proper title?? - she even carried a blackberry with her to stay in touch with young women interested in religious life!  the sisters pray and play together and they all seem so very happy.  They entire subject of religious life was treated so reverently.  Thank God!!  The sisters all talked of the troubles of modern life (dropping such key terms as facebook) and even Oprah could agree how materialistic we’ve become as a society.  She didn’t even argue with the struggles and ills of a misused sexuality and how healing might actually be found in a convent of all places!  And the sister who spoke of her troubled youth and growing up in poverty and around drug use and how when she went away to college she discovered her calling and knew she could help others and lead a better life through Christ!!!  oh I will be talking about this show for weeks!!!!

 

I am NOT an Oprah fan, but this really was for the greater glory of God! The sisters were so well spoken and answered such absurd questions with absolute grace and confidence.  One sister did an absolutely miraculous job of explaining how sexual desire is a natural part of being human, just like one might desire chocolate.  The desire does not have to be indulged in, and not indulging in a particular desire does not equal repression.  She explained it so much better, believe me!

 

WOW! I am so glad you sent an alert that the sisters were going to be on Oprah! It was fantastic to see their beautiful. living witness of God’s love. I hope it inspire people everywhere!

 

Wow… I was very impressed by today’s show! Of course Oprah asked those typical questions of “How can you live without sex, or how can you take a vow of poverty?” The nuns answered so well and so full of joy! And Oprah DID learn…she even admitted she was ignorant on a lot of things regarding relgious life. I think this was a door opened to a lot of people out there in our overly-secular culture who don’t have a clue about religious life!

 

I was pleased that the sister’s did such a great job. I believe many hearts were touched. I also was impressed with Lisa Ling, she actually stuck up for the sisters and shared how the sisters were “free” living in the convent. I canl’t wait to see what God has in store for those who were touched by this show.

 

My prayer after seeing that program and listening to the sisters is that someone whose heart is yearning for something they have not been able to define will search a little farther. As the sisters mentioned many are from homes where their vocations were discouraged, might they never have been open to vocations as well ? Many of these girls ( like the young girls on the streets on Japan ) , may not have ever considered the life of a sister, since they are removed from contact with women such as these. Another note, as the pope has asked priests to go forth and blog, so have the sisters followed the cultural approach, by allowing a respectful look into the windows of their lives.

 

I would call this interview “thinking ourtside of the box”; Opah was courteous and respectful with her QS.  The themes of the interview was apparent: how to avoid stereotyping, misconceptions and prejudgements regarding an individual’s choice of vocation.  In this case, the first interview was about a profession; the second, about a vocation.  The most important theme that surfaced from the second inteview was “family spirit” and I believe, the Dominicans examplified this most appropriately by their honest and insightful responses to Opah’s QS.  Ophah represents us who continue to eface the priesthood and religious life by the media and our own insuffient understanding of God’s calling and accepting a vocation rather than profession; these Domincans have broken the mold of steretyping, that the “the nun with ruler in hand”.  I pray in this Year of the Priest, my brother priests review this interview and accept the challenge of “thinking outside of the box” in regards to inviting men and women to the accept God’s calling as a priest, bother, or sister.  “Be not afraid!”

 

I loved Lisa Ling’s comment at the end.  She pointed out how everyone thinks nuns live these strict lives with no freedom, yet really it is the opposite.  Those who do not dedicate their lives to God are usually controlled by society so they can never feel skinny enough or rich enough or successful enough and are tied down by the constraints of society.  However, these nuns have no ties to objects or finances so they are completely free and therefore full of joy.


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