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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is editor-in-chief of Catholic Digest and Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her …
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Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

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Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the author of A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms and The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also enjoys speaking around the country, is employed as webmaster for her parish web sites and spends time on various …
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Arwen Mosher

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Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their 4-year-old daughter, 2-year-old son, and twin boys born May 2011. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is a 30-something, single lady, living in Connecticut in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law and six kids ... and two doors down are her parents. She received her undergraduate degree from …
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Daria Sockey is a freelance writer and veteran of the large family/homeschooling scene. She recently returned home from a three-year experiment in full time outside employment. (Hallelujah!) Daria authored several of the original Faith&Life Catechetical Series student texts (Ignatius Press), and is currently a Senior Writer for Faith&Family magazine. A latecomer …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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Fear, Faith, and Flu Shots

Where shall we put our trust?

Last week, when I updated my facebook status with a simple “Flu shot today, I hope” I was a bit surprised to be deluged with people telling me not to get one.

I shouldn’t have been.

I know how many people feel about vaccines and I know many of the stories that circulate this time of year. You can find someone to tell you pretty much any bad thing about the flu shot—from it actually making you more vulnerable to the flu to it causing Alzheimer’s disease.

What people don’t know, however, is that my personal experience with the flu coupled with the fact that I have a child with cystic fibrosis make it very unlikely that anything other than rock-hard science will convince me not to get the shots.

As a mom who was quite relieved to get my kids their flu shots (both the seasonal and the H1N1) last week, I really appreciated Kate Wicker’s recent thoughtful blog post about common hesitations regarding vaccines.

There’s a lot of good reading there—in the post, in the articles linked, and in the comments. If you are on the fence about flu shots or even vaccines in general, I really recommend browsing through all of it.

I think intelligent people can come to very different decisions when it comes to the flu shot. While I shared a bit about my family’s illness-prevention strategy in a recent Faith & Family podcast where Arwen, Lisa, and I talked about the upcoming flu season, I firmly believe in every family’s right to make their own decisions on these matters.

But whether we decide to get the shots or not, I think these kinds of decisions are a prompting for every one of us to examine our fears in light of our faith. It is our responsibility as parents to take reasonable measures to prevent illness, but it’s also important to remember God’s goodness and to trust in His care.

This is something I struggle with. Sometimes, just the thought of my family contracting the flu can cause me to catch my breath with fear. I fear because I remember past experiences. I fear because I don’t know what the future holds.

I need to remember that our God is a loving God, and He has a plan for each of us. That plan may or not include pain and suffering in the months that lie ahead. Only God knows. Not in some scary, all-knowing, I’m out to get you kind of way. But in an all-knowing, all-loving I want what’s best for you kind of way.

In the end, whether we place our trust in flu shots, Omega 3’s or vitamin D, we should remember that the hairs on our head have been counted.

We must remember to put our trust, first and foremost, in Him.

I say to you, My friends, do not be afraid of those who kill the body and after that have no more that they can do.
But I will warn you whom to fear: fear the One who, after He has killed, has authority to cast into hell; yes, I tell you, fear Him!
Are not five sparrows sold for two cents? Yet not one of them is forgotten before God.
Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear; you are more valuable than many sparrows.

—Luke 12:4-7


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