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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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Where Were You When The Wall Came Down?

Twenty years ago today, the Berlin Wall came down.

Follow this link to watch the late Peter Jennings interrupting programming to break the news.

My father more or less dedicated his life to bringing down Communism, so of course our family followed such things with marked interest.

I remember very clearly a summer Saturday morning when Dad was sitting in bed reading his papers and I came in to talk to him and he said, looking up from the New York Times, with cautious hope, “I think the Soviet era might be over.”

He wasn’t yet certain, and he had many caveats, but he dared to think the Soviet Union’s head of state, Mikhail Gorbachev, might be sincere. And even if he weren’t, “perestroika” and “glasnost” had opened flood-gates that might not admit a reversal of course.

It was a momentous summer. First Hungary clipped its electrified fence and permitted free travel to Austria; then its government permitted a massive peace demonstration called the “pan-European picnic”; Poland, submitting to the growing Solidarity movement, had its first non-Communist prime minister since World War II; the leader of East Germany was compelled to resign. Across the nations of the Iron Curtain, massive demonstrations for peace took place. It was exciting and frightening—pressures were building and no one knew whether they might in fact end with a roll out of tanks and brutal suppression. (Really, it seemed more like a question of when.)

Then, suddenly, it was over—and not the way anyone expected.

By the end of the summer I was in Rome, doing the first of two years of volunteer work overseas. I mildly regret not being able to share the moment of the Wall coming down with my padre, but it was exciting to be in Europe at that time. The whole world seemed giddy not only with freedom, but with the sense that somehow God’s Providence was behind this outpouring of liberty, led spiritually and morally by Pope John Paul II, with secular and political help from our own Ronald Reagan, the Polish Union leader Lech Walensa, Great Britain’s Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, and other heroes of the peaceful revolution.

Some of my young friends on the Rome campus of the University of Dallas that semester were actually among those pictured here in Berlin helping to chip away at the Wall, and I recall watching the Italian news coverage and seeing footage of some of them.

I think it’s healthy for us to remember the blessing of the Wall coming down not only to recall the joy of the occasion and to celebrate with our European brothers and sister, but also to recall how unlikely and even impossible the event once seemed—even on the night before it happened.

Here is a nice account of the celebrations in Germany today. And if you have 5 minutes, here’s a moving video history of the wall from its erection to its razing.

Do you remember where you were and what you thought?


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I remember vividly…it was my sophomore year in college & my best friend (who was born in Germany & had dual citizenship) called me on the phone, in tears of joy!
Does anyone remember the 1981 movie, “Night Crossing”, about 2 families who ventured to cross over the Berlin Wall?

 

I was just thinking about that movie, Patricia! What a taut, gripping drama that was…and I often think about the mom cleaning out the bathtub just as they’re about to escape so the Communist police won’t think she was a bad housekeeper!

 

I was 12 and my mom was on hold to make an appointment with the dentist.  They didn’t have hold muzak that day - they had the news and she hung up in happy tears to tell us the wall was down.  It was my grandpa’s birthday too, so through that celebration we also had the tv on so we could watch the ongoing joy of the celebration in Berlin.  Definitely one of those things I will always remember; even at that age and through the distance of the tv, the jubilation was so evident!

 

I had just gotten engaged and started a new job…so this was just an extra bit of good news at the time.

 

Hard to forget, for me - I had just given birth to our first child grin.  Wasn’t paying too much attention to world events at the time but this one was hard to miss!

 

I was sitting on my sofa in Leominster, MA.  My husband and I sat in almost disbelief, but with thanksgiving.  I remember crying.  It was a relief to know that the suffering under communism that a part of my family had to endure was over.  They now had freedom.

God Blass Ronald Reagan, Margaret Thatcher and John Paul II!

 

I am writing this from Berlin, Germany, where my husband and I have been living with our four young kids for nearly three years.  It is indeed an exciting time to be in Berlin, and to be in Europe.  We had the chance last night to walk the length of a temporary wall which was made of styrofoam pieces decorated by local school children and business.  They were set up in “domino-line” fashion, and ealier this evening, were knocked down by Lech Walesa and others, to symbolically bring down the wall again. 

While the excitement of this day is palpable in the air, at the same time I implore your prayers for Berlin, for German, and for all of Europe.  We live over here in a largely godless word.  Faith is irrelevant, an annoying intruder to an otherwise “free” life.  We are so blessed that our pastor studied under then Fr. Ratzinger, and that they remain friends to this day.  He, his leadership, and his parish are small oases for the faithful in this town. 

There is indeed much to celebrate today, but how quickly everyone over here at least seems to have forgotten the role of righteousness in all of this, the role of faith, the role of God!  The world leaders—Christians all—who have typically been given credit for their influential role in bringing about the end of the Cold War—His Holiness Pope John Paul II, Ronald Reagan, Margaret Thatcher, to name a few—did not, I think, seek an end to the oppression of communism so people could enjoy a really great nightlife (a huge part of the culture over here).  We saw more images on the temporary domino-wall pieces of alternative lifestyles, pop cultural icons, and various other things we did not care to explain to our kids than we did of anything resembling faith, resembling the cause of truth, of the inviolable dignity of the human person.  Was the Cold War fought so people could become profoundly more self-indulgent, to marry less, contracept more, and radically reduce the population of Europe as a whole?  Was it fought so people could break free of the “chains” of religion to embrace a more “me-centered” worldview, to buy nicer cars, and take really great ski vacations?  I’m sorry to sound so cynical but living over here has been eye opening.  We’ve had a great time and we’ve seen and done a lot of amazing things, but it is really stunning to see the culture clashes—very broadly speaking, of course—between the U.S. and Europe.  Take marriage, take openness to life, take kids in general.  It’s all very sad really.  My husband’s co-workers just shake their heads in confusion over his suggestion that yes, both he and I do fully intent to stay married—to each other—for as long as we both shall live.  That we do think children are a blessing, even considering any and all sacrifices.  It’s as if they want to say to us, “wake up, you don’t have to live like that!”  It’s just so very sad.

As Berliners, Germans, and indeed all Europeans and persons throughout the world, celebrate this truly meaningful day, please pray that the values held dear by those who helped to bring about this great “fall” will not be forgotten.  Thanks for reading—sorry for the length…

 

I was a newly wed (5months) and 4 months along with our first baby. My family’s best news from the fall of the Berlin wall came years later-my brother met a girl from Dresden (formerly in East Germany) whom he later married and now they have 2 adorable boys.

 

I was 23 and 9 months pregnant with my second who was born on the 17th. I remember it happening only in a non-detailed way since I was so focused on my two little ones. A few years ago we saw a museum display on the berlin wall coming down and I commented to that daughter wow that happened the month you were born. Now I remember 911 in detail.

 

I was in sixth grade.  I don’t remember much about it, except that all the grown ups were very happy about it.  Our teacher had us do a weekly excercise, where each picked an article out of the paper, and then got up in front of the class to to talk about it—that week everyone chose an article about the wall coming down.  Reading everyones’ memories is bringing tears to my eyes.

 

I was doing a year-long graduate fellowship in Taiwan, so all of the momentous events of that year unfolded before me in Chinese!  I was one of three non-Chinese women (and two non-Asians) living in my dorm, and it was just amazing to watch the images on TV and read about them in the papers . . . it was one of those experiences that make the world seem smaller and more connected.  Now, the thing that really boggles my mind is that it was 20 years ago . . .

 

This is the day I mark as the day I grew up.  I was 18 and a college freshman.  I went into the dining facility and sat with friends who were “non-traditional” - they were only one school year ahead of me, but were 4 earth years older, and so were a bit more “of the world.”  They told me the Wall was coming down, and I couldn’t believe it.  Pressing them, they insisted, “People are DANCING on the wall!”

My entire life, the Cold War was the status quo.  I was too ignorant, narcisstic and self-absorbed to have had any warning that the world was about to change. 

A year later, I was studying abroad in Belgium when East and West Germany formally united their governments.  Several friends hopped a train to have a drink in a German bar just after midnight to celebrate.  The Germans there weren’t feeling very thrilled, and the following summer I got to witness their hostility to the changes that brought both East Germans over to “steal” jobs as well as Eastern Europeans.  I got to meet a man from East Germany who had never met an American and just loved to hear me talk in his language because it sounded so sweet.  And I got to go to Prague and Slovakia and see the stark contrast with how Eastern Europeans lived compared to the West.  I’m sure these places are all prettied up now, but then, the infrastructure was a mess.

Flash forward to 1993, and I was a senior doing laundry in my dorm and watching the news.  The World Trade Center had just been bombed and was the shocking news on CNN.  Some girls I didn’t know popped in to see who was watching TV and what was on, and when I told them what was happening, they watched for half a minute, shrugged and went about their day.  I guess they weren’t ready to handle the grown up world yet.

 

I was six years old and in my parents living room playing with my siblings. I remember some sort of celebration as well as a prayer of Thanksgiving led my my father. =)

 

In labor and delivery with Rachel, she delivered Amelia at 6:45 a.m., we watched all day


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