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Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Lynn Wehner

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As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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Why I Wear a Brown Scapular

It's because I belong to Mary

“Oh, I know what that is,” a fellow library craft class mom once said to me when she caught a glimpse of the brown scapular peeking out of the collar of my t-shirt. “That’s one of those ‘get out of hell free’ cards.”

Not exactly.

My history of wearing a scapular began in my teenaged years when my parents encouraged me to wear one.

As a young Catholic, I read horror stories of devils and days of darkness, and so I wore my scapular daily. Mostly out of fear, I wore it.

After a few years of marriage and motherhood, I became less of an easy scare, I guess, and bit by bit, wearing of the scapular was a practice that I let fall away. I became more and more lax about putting it on until at last my brown scapular found a permanent resting place in my jewelry box.

In recent years, though, as a more grown up Catholic, I came to see the scapular in a new light.

While it’s true that Mary, in an apparition to St. Simon Stock, promised to protect those who wear a scapular from eternal fire, it’s not Mary’s promise that the scapular really symbolizes. It’s ours.

After coming through many a motherly trial thanks only to the good example and faithful generosity of Mary the Mother of God, I retrieved my scapular from my jewelry box and began to wear it again.

I wear a wedding ring as a tangible symbol of my wedding vows and I wear a scapular as a tangible symbol of my special devotion to Mary. My scapular is an outward sign of my trust and hope in Mother Mary, who always leads me to Christ, and who obtains for me the gift of all graces necessary for my salvation.

It’s a devotion I choose to “put on” each day.

If you’ve never looked into wearing a scapular or have never thought about it before, Mary’s month of May just might be the perfect time to consider it. Isn’t it time you showed Mary how much you trust in her?


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