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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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  • Pray Before you read or do anything else today, pray this prayer, taken from the writings of St. Louis de Montfort: Lord, help me to imitate Mary's deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. Amen.
  • Fast Give up thinking things have to be perfect.
  • Give As you do laundry today, bless the person for whom you are folding. With every crease, offer a prayer.
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  • Pray For a few minutes tonight, after your children are sleeping, kneel beside their beds. Let your breath rise and fall with theirs. Entrust them to the Father and thank him for lending them to you.
  • Fast Let go of self-recrimination. “There is still time for endurance, time for patience, time for healing, time for change. Have you slipped? Rise up. Have you sinned? Cease. Do not stand among sinners, but leap aside.” -- St. Basil the Great
  • Give Do not say “In a minute” or “When I finish this” at all today. Instead, put aside your agenda and meet their needs (and even some wants) immediately and cheerfully.
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  • Pray Pray to know how God wants you to spend your time today.
  • Fast Let go of despair and know that God gives you sufficient grace. "Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible." -- St. Francis of Assisi
  • Give Make sure that every one in your family gets at least one of your hugs today.
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Diving Deep

A Beginner's Guide to the Catechism

(This is the first in a series of bi-weekly articles where catechist Pat Gohn will walk beginners through a study of the Catechism.)

Growing up on Long Island’s beaches, I trained to be a lifeguard. Years of swimming lessons built muscles and stamina to pass the tests. Mastering those skills brought me years of joy and adventure swimming, snorkeling, and sailing in deep water. But I didn’t start out that way. Ocean swimmers learn in steps: wade in, learn the currents, and adjust your stroke to the wave intensity.

Diving Into The Catechism

That’s a good way to enter Catechism of the Catholic Church … often called the CCC. No need to dive deep all at once — yet the desire to do so may be there! That same kind of desire made me a good swimmer. Staying in the shallows satisfied for just so long; the beauty and power of the ocean lured me deeper. Wading in by the edge no longer sufficed. I needed a stronger stroke.   

Similarly, growing in my Catholic faith adds joy and adventure to my relationship with Christ, the Church, and the world. The Catechism fills my knowledge gaps. It explains what God reveals about Himself and his plan of salvation. It details what the Catholic Church professes, celebrates, lives, and prays.

Seeking Truth

John Paul II introduced the Church’s updated Catechism in 1992 as being “…offered to all the faithful who wish to deepen their knowledge of the unfathomable riches of salvation. (Cf. Eph. 3:8).” [Apostolic Constitution Fidei Depositum.]

The Catechism of the Catholic Church delivers rich meaning to my life by clarifying Truth from my opinions about God and Church teaching. It compels me to mull things over and pray, integrating faith and life. I believe it to be one of the most powerful gifts the Church offers to Catholics in this new millennium.

The Catechism is an approachable reference work. Yet, its oceanic size (900 pages) intimidates some from putting a toe in the water. If reading the Catechism seems daunting, consider I hope you’ll consider my articles a personal floatation device—an aid to get you started. We’ll surf one wave—one concept—at time, slowly seeking deeper water and the treasures within.

Beyond Your Comfort Zone

Jesus challenges any reluctance to move beyond “my comfort zone.” Once, as he preached at a waterfront, Jesus stood in a fishing boat belonging to Simon, who was busy washing his nets during the sermon. Afterwards, Jesus addressed Simon: “Put out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch.” And Simon answered, “Master, we toiled all night and took nothing! But at your word I will let down the nets.” And when they had done this, they enclosed a great shoal of fish; and as their nets were breaking, they beckoned to their partners in the other boat to come and help them. And they came and filled both the boats, so that they began to sink. But when Simon Peter saw it, he fell down at Jesus’ knees, saying, “Depart from me, for I am a sinful man, O Lord.” For he was astonished, and all that were with him, at the catch of fish which they had taken… And Jesus said to Simon, “Do not be afraid; henceforth you will be catching men.”  And when they had brought their boats to land, they left everything and followed him. (See Luke 5: 1-11.)

Not only was the catch beyond expectations, it was life changing—the fishermen followed Jesus. These were ordinary folks finding something extraordinary.

Reading the Catechism is like that … If you’ve never considered reading it, start by wading in. Then work on a stronger stroke.

Want to dive in, but stay close to shore? Start by carefully reading and meditating on just one paragraph: CCC 27:

The desire for God is written in the human heart, because man is created by God and for God; and God never ceases to draw man to himself. Only in God will he find the truth and happiness he never stops searching for: The dignity of man rests above all on the fact that he is called to communion with God. This invitation to converse with God is addressed to man as soon as he comes into being. For if man exists it is because God has created him through love, and through love continues to hold him in existence. He cannot live fully according to truth unless he freely acknowledges that love and entrusts himself to his creator.

—Pat Gohn is a wife & mother celebrating 27 years of Catholic family life. Her Catholic writing, podcasting, and ministry life are found at PatGohn.com.

[Note: Catholic documents typically number paragraphs. In the CCC, look for the bold paragraph numbers along the left side of the page.]

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Free on-line versions of the Catechism:

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I love the CCC & think it is a great gift to the faithful, as well a a wonderful resource for evangelizing non-Catholics!  I felt bad when I was involved with RCIA at my former parish & the religious sister running the program described the CCC in class as dry & hard to read.  I had to disagree!  I find it very interesting & reader-friendly, & have cited it on numerous occasions.  Every Catholic family/adult should have a copy of the CCC in their home. If you have a copy that hasn’t been open for some time…start now!

 

I’m not exactly sure when to pinpoint the moment by which an entire generation decided out with the old in with the new/“exciting”/“more fun” approach toward faith. Essentially- the baby was thrown out with the bath water in my opinion!!

Many people have been wounded or pained by family experiences and consequently tend to reject all things authoritative… “if this reminds me of my mom/dad then I’m not gonna do it for my kids”...that kind of thing.

We were raised to understand that our faith is something, like Pat Gohn so beautifully illustrated, that you build contiunously upon. I like to say too that it’s not sometimes about your EMOTION, but your DEVOTION.

A great way to bring the CCC back into our families is at the dinner table. Read a paragraph a night or so… let it lead the conversation (now I should go practice what I preach!!) I’m really excited that this article was written because the Catechism as Patricia said above… is an amazing treasure we have in our faith, praise God!!

 

Kathleen makes a compelling argument & offers a wonderful suggestion for use of the CCC by regular Catholics, not just theologian-types!  The CCC is a wonderful tool for helping us to grow in our Catholic Faith past the Confirmation-age understanding of the Faith that many Catholics have (if even that, considering some of the poor catecehesis many Catholics grew up with).  Read it!  Meditate on it!  I guarantee you will glean some wonderful insights about our beautiful Catholic Faith!  Imagine how equipped to evangelize, defend & grow in our Faith Catholics could be if we’d all give equal time to reading the CCC that we give to the TV, computer, newspaper or favorite magazine/publication…!  I need to do just that!

 

Patricia & Kathleen, thanks for leaving great suggestions!  I also find The Compendium a useful tool for Catechism beginners. Its the Q&A format, and a digest-version of the CCC. Check it out here: http://www.catholiccompany.com/catholic-books/1011557/Compendium-Catechism-Catholic-Church/?aid=1951


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