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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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  • Pray Give thanks for food, clothes, and shelter. Listen to His plan for stewardship.
  • Fast Clean out the refrigerator today instead of eating lunch. Pull everything out and wipe it all down. As you do it, thank God for the food he provides for your family.
  • Give “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
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Enthronement in the Home

User's Guide to Sunday

(In this weekly column, Tom and April Hoopes share family-friendly ways of observing the liturgical year and celebrating the Sunday readings.)

Sunday, Nov. 22, is the Solemnity of Christ the King (Year B, Cycle I).

Family

This Solemnity of Christ the King will have a special meaning for our family. We will “enthrone” an image of the Sacred Heart in our home.

We got the idea from friends in Connecticut. There, a Dominican from a local parish performed an enthronement ceremony in their home and ours. The ceremony involves a house Mass with special prayers of consecration and dedication.

“The enthronement is not merely the placing of a sacred object in the home,” said Archbishop Raymond Burke, prefect of the Apostolic Signatura, the Vatican’s highest court. “It is … a way of life, the acceptance of Christ as King of my heart, as my constant Companion, as my Friend, helping me and guiding me in the small and big matters of daily life. As Bishop of La Crosse [Wis.], I urged very much the enthronement of the Sacred Heart of Jesus.”

He said he heard numerous reports “recounting special graces received by the family members” after their enthronements.

To find more about enthronement, Google “enthronement.” The link from “Women for Faith & Family” has a lot of resources.

Media

The chairman of the philosophy department here at Benedictine College passed on a movie his family discovered: The Maldonado Miracle, a 2003 Showtime movie directed by Selma Hayek and starring Peter Fonda as a priest. It’s a movie the whole family can watch about faith, in which the Church is treated with respect and even admiration.

Readings

Daniel 7:13-14; Psalm 93:1, 1-2, 5; Revelation 1:5-8; John 18:33-37

Our Take

Today’s Gospel shows Jesus to be a terrible diplomat and a not-very-good plea bargainer. That’s the natural meaning of the Gospel, unless you consider three things:

1. Jesus is God.

2. Jesus has voluntarily made himself guilty of all the sins of mankind.

3. Jesus loves Pilate eternally.

Pilate questions Jesus: “Are you the King of the Jews?”

Jesus knows exactly why he’s asking what he’s asking.

Pilate is interviewing Jesus because the Sanhedrin has basically forced him to. He doesn’t want to aggravate the Sanhedrin. He also doesn’t want to get involved in religious infighting.

Jesus doesn’t exploit the situation to try to gain his freedom, as he easily could. Instead, he answers him the way an equal or superior would, not the way a prisoner would: “Do you say this on your own, or have others put you up to it?”

This is the Lord posing a question to a government functionary, not a trapped man pleading with a guard. But how could Jesus be greater than Pilate? Only in a supernatural way.

“Your own nation and the chief priests handed you over to me,” says Pilate. “What have you done?”

There are several answers to this question. “I have done nothing wrong” leaps to mind as a good one.

But Jesus doesn’t say that. Throughout his passion he never says he is innocent. The reason is clear: He’s not. He has made himself guilty of sins for our sake.

But he warns Pilate instead: “My Kingdom does not belong to this world.”

Pilate thinks he has him. “Then you are a king?”

Jesus answers in such a way that he makes clear that he is a king, and a divine one at that, but also that his Kingdom is no political threat to Pilate: “For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to my voice.”

He is giving Pilate one last chance — because he loves Pilate totally.

Pilate lets his opportunity pass and to this day is known for nothing at all except that he failed to do the right thing at this moment.

Jesus accepts Pilate’s judgment as he accepted everything else that day. He has submitted himself to the humiliations of his passion in order to atone for our sins. So he is willing to undergo a small-time governor’s dismissive sentence. But the way he does it reveals that he is not only Pilate’s equal, he’s much more.

He is a king.

—This article originally appeared in our sister publication, the National Catholic Register.


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There is also an enthronement of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.


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