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Daily Lenten Meditations

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  • Pray Light a candle. Every time you pass that candle today, offer a prayer of thanks. Don’t ask for anything. Just thank him.
  • Fast Don’t cut corners. Even if no one will know, complete today’s work thoroughly.
  • Give Touch is a powerful thing. Make an effort today to touch your children: a hug, a shoulder rub, a tousled head -- especially the bigger ones
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  • Pray Make five minutes in the morning, at midday and in the evening to be still, silent, and alone, only asking God to infuse your soul with his will.
  • Fast No noise today. Turn off the TV, the radio, the iPod. Find God in the silence.
  • Give Pay particular unsolicited attention to your least demanding child today.
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  • Pray Begin a gratitude journal. At the end of the day, jot down five things for which you are grateful. Think upon these things.
  • Fast Remember the first time you had a moment alone with your first child. What did you promise him? Do that. Be that.
  • Give We can only expect what we inspect. For every task you assign today, follow through and before it’s truly finished ensure that there is praise from you.
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  • Pray “My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me." -- John 10:27
  • Fast Every time a child interrupts you today, stop what you are doing and look into his eyes as he talks.
  • Give “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” -- Blessed Teresa of Calcutta Speak kindly all day long.
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  • Pray Ask God to show you how weak and small you are. Open your heart to see it.
  • Fast Don’t argue today. As much as possible give up, give in, give way.
  • Give When you are tempted to put on the TV for kids today, pull out a stack of favorite picture books instead. Invite the kids to join you on the couch.
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  • Pray Take a walk, even if it’s cold or raining. Leave your iPod at home.
  • Fast Think of someone whose life you are tempted to envy and then choke out these words: Thank you, God, for the blessings you have given to X. Help me to see my own.
  • Give Think about the kind of person your husband married. Be that person for him today.
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  • Pray "Love consumes us only in the measure of our self-surrender." -- St. Therese of Lisieux
  • Fast As you go about your daily routine today, remember that you are expecting someone very important for dinner tonight. Together with your children, work towards your husband’s homecoming as if you were expecting to welcome a king back to his castle.
  • Give “You can do nothing with children unless you win their confidence and love by bringing them into touch with oneself, by breaking through all the hindrances that keep them at a distance. We must accommodate ourselves to their tastes, we must make ourselves like them.” -- St. John Bosco
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  • Pray Take this quote to prayer today and listen to God’s answer: “Real love is demanding. I would fail in my mission if I did not tell you so. Love demands a personal commitment to the will of God.” -- John Paul II
  • Fast Stop looking for encouragement and approval. Genuinely encourage and affirm someone else instead.
  • Give Let your child choose a huge stack of picture books (use that word “huge” when you ask her to gather them). Read them all to her today.
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  • Pray Persevere. “He who does not give up prayer cannot possibly continue to offend God habitually. Either he will give up prayer, or he will give up sinning.” -- St. Alphonsus Liguori
  • Fast Don’t forget that the only pedestal you need ever stand on, is the one your husband and children build for you.
  • Give Focus on your home today. The world can find another volunteer, but your husband and children have only you.
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  • Pray Insist on quiet from all your children during naptime today. Pray the Divine Mercy chaplet.
  • Fast We’re half way through. Compare yourself now only to yourself when Lent began. Tweak the plan.
  • Give Reach out to a local friend today. Reconnect.
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  • Pray Ask God to make you humble and lowly.
  • Fast Don’t compare or complain. Do compliment.
  • Give Pack a picnic and go somewhere to eat it with your children. If the weather is prohibitive, build a tent in the living room and it eat there. Sit on the ground with them. Be fully present.
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  • Pray Sometime before bedtime tonight, make time to pray with and for each of your children.
  • Fast Rise a little earlier and bring your husband breakfast in bed. (If it’s too late today, plan for tomorrow).
  • Give Plan a date night.
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Hanging With the Dead

The Creepy Holiness of Relics and Incorruptibles

One of the more fascinating and, dare I say, haunting encounters one has while traveling is visiting the relics and incorruptible bodies found in churches throughout the world.

Some are hard to find, such as the incorruptible body of St. Antoninus of Florence. He’s in the far back corner of the Church of San Marco, which is not found in many guidebooks. Others are prominently displayed, like St. John Vianney. With his head tilted slightly as if waiting to hear a confession, he’s above the main altar in the Sanctuaire d’Ars, in Ars, France.

Some people enjoy visiting haunted houses but really, why pay to be chased around a haunted house by some guy wielding a chainsaw when you can visit these places that are both peculiar and holy?

Holy Bones

One of most curious examples of the dead on display is in the Cappuccin Crypt of Santa Maria dell’Immacolata Concezione in Rome. The crypt contains six chapels, five of which are decorated in the bones of the deceased friars.

By decorated, I do not mean a few bones placed in reliquaries. No, they went all out. Just look at the names of these chapels: Crypt of the Skulls, Crypt of the Pelvises, Crypt of the Leg Bones and Thigh Bones, and the Crypt of the Three Skeletons.

The bones of over four thousand monks who died between 1528 and 1870 artistically line the walls and ceilings. They have chandeliers made of bones, arches, floral arrangements and even a clock, all made from bones. Some of the monks are still intact. These are in various poses. Some resting in niches, some mounted on the wall and a few are hanging from the ceiling.

While some, perhaps most, may find this display macabre, the message is simple, if a little eerie: Noi eravamo quello che voi siete, e quello che noi siamo voi sarete. That is, “We were what you are; and what we are, you will be.”

This inscription is written in—you guessed it—bones.

St. Rita of Cascia

Now let’s move from one of the most curious to one of the most mysterious: St. Rita of Cascia, patron saint of lost causes. A wife, a mother, a widow, and a nun, she lived a devout life and is one of our incorruptible saints.

An incorruptible is one who is unpreserved, be it deliberate, accidental or natural, and has not shown the decay typical of someone who has died. In most all cases not only are the incorruptibles, well, incorrupt, but they are also still quite flexible and moist.

Now St. Rita being an incorruptible is not scary; it’s amazing!

Of course, being face to face with someone who has been dead for over 500 years can make even the most devout feel a bit uneasy. The spookiness with St. Rita comes from a few events that have taken place after she died. Her body rests in a glass sarcophagus located about eye level to most visitors. For hundreds of years pilgrims have come to pray at her tomb. On several occasions there are reported cases of St. Rita opening her eyes, changing position, and even elevating. All of these events were recorded by multiple eyewitnesses. Imagine praying at her tomb, looking up and seeing her open eyes looking back at you.

St. Catherine of Siena

St. Rita’s body is, for the most part, whole. Let’s end by visiting another saint whose body is not whole—Saint Catherine of Siena.

Saint Catherine died in Rome and was buried just outside of Santa Maria sopra Minerva. Knowing how much it would please the people of Siena to have the remains of their great fellow citizen among them, her confessor sent her head to Siena.

Don’t worry; it’s been said that her tomb was not very tightly sealed and her body was exposed to dampness, so she was not forcefully decapitated. Her head just popped right off. The Church of San Domenico in Siena has her head as well as one of her fingers. Other parts of her can be found in Venice and England.

When one thinks relic, often one thinks of a piece of cloth, hair, perhaps a piece of skin, or even a small bone But, throughout the world, Europe in particular, it’s not hard to find heads, hands, arms, feet, fingers, shoulder blades, brains even hearts of our holy men and women.

And for me that beats a haunted house any day. Not only can I get the chilling feeling one gets in the presence of the dead, but I also feel a sense of peace. For being with these saints I am truly in the presence of holiness.

—Mountain Butorac organizes and leads tours for The Catholic Traveler, works as the multimedia developer for The Maximus Group, and is totally in love with his wife and kids.

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St. Anthony’s Chapel, on Pittsburgh’s north side, has an absolutely amazing collection of relics—one of the largest in the world:

http://www.saintanthonyschapel.org/index.html

This chapel is a little known treasure of our Faith.  What a wonderful reminder of the Communion of Saints!  Our Catholic homeschool group tries to make an annual trip (pilgrimage, if you will) up there every year.

I was also blessed to see, hold & venerate a reliquary (it resembled a monstrance) that contained relics of all 12 Apostles at the recent IHM Catholic Homeschool Conference in VA.

 

I love the book ‘The Incorruptibles’. Growing up Catholic, I never knew anything about these relics, until I came across this book.  Mission Carmel,CA, where Bl. Fr. Serra is buried also has many relics at its museum.

 

I also read the book “The Incorruptibles” and found it eery and fascinating.  Maybe there is something you can help me out with here.  I truly have a problem with understanding why we would chop up a saint’s holy body and send parts around the world.  Those of us alive are forewarned about taking care of our “temples”, not to mutilate and so forth; but yet, we willingly mutilate and desecrate bodies of saints.  I believe in relics and preserving the bodies of saints, I just feel a bit disgusted when churches are fighting to obtain parts…a finger here and a leg bone there.  It just doesn’t seem right.  So maybe someone out there can help explain it to me better.

 

I’m a big fan of St. Catherine of Siena, and had the honor of praying before her relic in Siena (the treasure of Siena!) and at her tomb in Rome at the Santa Maria soper Minerva.  A picture of her tomb in Rome is here: http://www.basilicaminerva.it/ordine/seplocro_top.htm

 

I think its great and I dont have a problem with it. actually I think its very inspiring to know they are there !

 

good article, mountain. fun and interesting too. it is great to visit these places that hold so many remains of such holy men and women. i always enjoy it. may God continue to bless you.


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