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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her work, the two …
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Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

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Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com, a Catholic web site focusing on the Catholic faith, Catholic parenting and family life, and Catholic cultural topics. Most recently she has authored The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also employed as webmaster for her parish web sites. …
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Arwen Mosher

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Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti

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Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord

Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

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Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Kate Lloyd

Kate Lloyd
Kate Lloyd is a rising senior, and a political science major at Thomas More College of Liberal Arts in New Hampshire. While not in school, she lives in Whitehall PA, with her mom, dad, five sisters and little brother. She needs someone to write a piece about how it's possible to …
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Elizabeth Foss

Elizabeth Foss
Elizabeth Foss, an award winning columnist for the Arlington Catholic Herald, published her first book, Real Learning: Education in the Heart of My Home in 2003. The book is now in its third printing. Her popular blog, In the Heart of My Home is a source of inspiration and support for Catholic women …
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Sharing, Caring & So Much More

User's Guide to Sunday

(In this weekly column, Tom and April Hoopes share family-friendly ways of observing the liturgical year and celebrating the Sunday readings.)

Nov. 8 is the 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year B, Cycle I). Pope Benedict XVI is scheduled to make a pastoral visit to Brescia, Italy, today.

Veterans Day

Nov. 11 is Veterans Day, a time to thank those who were willing to put their lives on the line for us by serving in the armed forces. It also happens to be the feast of St. Martin of Tours, who was a soldier.

Pope Benedict XVI addressed the legacy of St. Martin of Tours two years ago on his feast day.

“While many miracles are attributed to him, St. Martin is known most of all for an act of fraternal charity,” said the Pope.

“While still a young soldier, he met a poor man on the street, numb and trembling from the cold. He then took his own cloak and, cutting it in two with his sword, gave half to that man. Jesus appeared to him that night in a dream smiling, dressed in the same cloak,” he said. “May St. Martin help us to understand that only by means of a common commitment to sharing is it possible to respond to the great challenge of our times: to build a world of peace and justice where each person can live with dignity.”

There are many stories of the generosity U.S. troops have shown to the children and families in the regions in which they are stationed overseas. To share some of these with your children, type “Iraqi Children and U.S. Troops” into YouTube’s search engine. Make sure to preview anything you show your children from YouTube — and make your window smaller to include just the video you’re watching.

Tell them what the Pope said about St. Martin of Tours, and pray for the troops with them.

Readings

1 Kings 17:10-16; Psalm 146:7-10; Hebrews 9:24-28; Mark 12:38-44 or 12:41-44

Our Take

Today’s first reading and Gospel demonstrate the importance of tithing by using widows as examples.

Widows are often mentioned in both the New Testament and Old Testament because they are poor and defenseless. That means they are (as today’s Psalm makes clear), in a special way, in the care of the Lord. But they are also a perfect analogy to every Christian.

When they were married, they were joined in a religious ceremony. A priest put the spouses in the care of one another. When their husbands died, the religious community said things like “The Lord took him” or “He is with God.” What is clear is that God allowed their deaths. Widows might very well feel they have been left exposed, without a provider. In an Aug. 10, 1994, audience, Pope John Paul II said those who are separated or divorced are analogous to widows.

Christ went out of his way to show widows his care: He raised the son of one widow, he used a widow’s long unanswered pray—ers as a lesson in the parable of the unjust judge, and he criticized scribes who abused the position of widows.

The widow’s challenge is to see God’s care for her despite her predicament.

That’s our challenge, also. We all are placed by God in the world, a place where there are abundant resources but where, at some point, we have to fend for ourselves.

Ultimately, the illusion of reliance on human strength, or self-reliance, is just that: an illusion. Providence provides for us. Our job, for the most part, is to receive from God — who provides in a way that is practically hidden to us.

Today’s readings praise the generosity of two widows. The first reading’s widow is willing to share her last flour and oil with Elijah the prophet. In return, her flour miraculously never runs out. In the Gospel, the widow shares from all she has. One presumes that she, too, was taken care of.

When we keep our gifts to ourselves and try to live off of them, we are destined to fail. When we put them in the hands of God, who gave them to us in the first place, we place ourselves in his hands, too.

—This article originally appeared in our sister publication, the National Catholic Register.


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