Beautifully said. Thank you!
Vote For My Guy Or You're Stupid
by Susie Lloyd in News on Friday, January 27, 2012 9:05 AM
“If you vote for him ... there will be no excuse for you before God.” —Facebook.
Election time is here! That singular moment when Catholics who hold exactly the same values based on faith, hope, and charity, tear each other apart.
Well not literally. But there is talk about sin and hell and who’s a real Catholic, and who isn’t. All based on the vote!
This is nothing new. It happens during every election. It’s a great way to make people get mad and stop listening. So why do we keep falling for it? Because ...
We all feel passionately about the issues—especially:
Human life
Marriage
War
And rightly so. The funny thing is ... we agree about how we want these issues to turn out. Totally and completely agree! We want human life and marriage protected and our military strong.
It’s just how to get those things done that’s gumming us up. Which candidate is the best man to make our dreams come true?
So let’s talk.
So what if we disagree? It’s natural. The founding fathers did and they were more polically savvy than most of us. So there’s no shame in it. We’ve inherited their legacy of debate and resolution. It’s part of governing ourselves and we Americans take the privilege very seriously. As Catholics, we have an obligation to apply Church teaching to the decision.
Let’s compare the candidates and how their positions stack up against Catholic principles. Let’s see how their positions compare to what is stated in the US Constitution. Finally, let’s talk about their tactics and how effective we think they will be.
I’d like to vote intelligently and I believe you would to. If you want to persuade me to vote for your guy, I’ll listen and I’ll try to persuade you to vote for mine. We’ll talk respectfully to each other and hopefully we’ll both learn. In the end, maybe we’ll even vote the same way. But if we don’t, I won’t call you stupid. You have studied the issues and have reasons for your vote. What is stupid about that?
I won’t condemn you. You are trying to create conditions where virtue can flourish. How is that evil?
I’m going to trust that you are a real Catholic. Are you willing to do the same for me?
—Senior writer Susie Lloyd is author of Please Don’t Drink the Holy Water! and Bless Me Father For I Have Kids.
Comments
I think the real problem for us Catholics is that there is no candidate who ever completely encompasses our views. Even Catholic candidates—like Santorum—present problems for us, whether it’s through their emphasis on certain issues, their rhetoric, or their “cafeteria Catholic” mentality (read: their willingness to overlook certain Catholic principles which might prove unpopular with non-Catholic party members).
There is no party platform that supports entirely the values we as Catholics uphold. Democrats, despite their more moderate stance on war and their more generous view on welfare, are nevertheless immoderate and ungenerous when it comes to the defending the unborn. Republicans, though adamantly demanding justice for the helpless unborn, are not as vigilant in their defense of the lives of the imprisoned, the poor, or the foreign, which Christ, too, calls us to defend. If the sanctity of human life is what we stand for (which is what all issues really boil down to), then we Catholics have no voice that truly represents us.
Therefore, we are forced to choose a candidate who LEAST offends us (or not choose a candidate at all). This is where we as Catholics disagree: on where or with whom the lesser of a multitude of evils lies.
I wish there was a candidate with whom, I, as a Catholic, could conscionably support to the point of actually arguing with others in favor of him/her.
The problem is that neither of the two main parties in this country covers the entire Catholic position. I am “conservative” when it comes to family values but more “liberal” when it comes to social justice issues like poverty, wage equity, etc. I usually end up voting Democrat because I just cannot stand seeing the rich get richer while the rest of us keep on losing ground. But I also have my eye on Santorum and if by some miracle the Republicans nominate him, I just might vote for him in November.
@fairlady68: Democrats do not believe in making helping the poor and sharing the rich persons wealth. Under Obama’s term and when the Democrats had control of the congress the rich became richer and the poor became poorer. They SAY they want to help and SAY socialist rhetoric but when it comes to actions they simply give handouts to those who they want to keep under their control. If there was a real concern for the poor then they would be much more interested in giving the poor skills than in creating another welfare system of dependency. If democrats wanted to help the poor they would give their own money rather than other peoples money. Helping the poor is simply a front for creating votes by people who want handouts. It is not a sincere concern for people who are less fortunate than themselves, especially when you judge their results rather than their words.
“I’m going to trust that you are a real Catholic. Are you willing to do the same for me?”
YES! Thank you. We all need this reminder.
I think the more problematic attitude is not, “Vote for my guy [or gal!] or you’re stupid,” but “Vote for my guy or you’re a bad/false/condemned person of faith.” I cannot get behind these kinds of holier-than-thou attitudes because they tear down the Body of Christ instead of building it up by compassionately - albeit firmly! - engaging in conversation about why one feels strongly about a particular person or candidate. Without implying that anyone who feels otherwise is not on God’s side. As the previous commenter points out, there is rarely - if ever - a candidate whose teachings all line up on the side of what the Church teaches. So we have to work within the muddled grey we have instead of a neat black and white. But Christ had to do the same with the people (read: sinful yet beautiful humans) around him. So I try to remember his words about casting the first stone when I’m tempted to jump down someone’s throat about politics. Which, let’s admit it, I totally am in election years.
Thank you for posting this! As someone who is tired of the status quo (which I feel is upheld by both the Republican & the Democratic parties) & who feels, as a Catholic, that in good conscience *I* will be voting for someone not likely to be endorsed by one of the major pro-life groups…this post is appreciated. I’ve already been told that my vote for a particular candidate is not really pro-life, is a wasted vote, is betraying the pro-life cause, etc., etc.—not an easy thing to hear from fellow pro-lifers, Catholics & friends. Nonetheless, I support this individual’s position on human life, marriage, homeschooling, subsidiarity, limited government, & just war—in short, *I* feel this candidate is most closely aligned to Catholic principles.
In a similar vein…we all hope for the day when the killing of children in the womb ends. Some work toward this end in the political sphere, some work to educate others about human life, others are involved in grass roots activism, some do sidewalk counseling outside the abortuaries, others primarily pray & fast for an end to the killing. Few of us can do all of these…but does that mean than some are more or less devoted to the cause than others? No, & we’re not to be the judge of that.
I really like this piece. My particular flavor of this cyclic cross to bear is that my wife and I are of different political parties yet both passionately Catholic. Actually, it’s that way throughout the families we share. Yet another way the devil tortures us? perhaps. I believe you have identified that tool that makes it possible: we share common desires and values. After that it is trying to hear the promptings of the Spirit, IN MY OWN EAR. I think that is enough for me, at least right now.
On a related political note…cheers (& prayers) for Bishop Zubik of Pittsburgh, PA for his take on the HHS mandate that aims to force Catholics to violate their conscience…
http://diopitt.org/bridging-gap/hell-you
Being a pro-life voter is one of the most freeing things in the world. Who the heck knows whether it was right to go into Iraq or not? Should the federal government be involved in Education? Is global warming a man-made phenomenon? Does everyone have a right to health care coverage? I have my opinions, but I’m not going to lose any friendships over them. But you cannot kill the baby in the womb. Clarity! We usually, in a presidential contest, have a clear choice on that score. Right now we have a vehemently anti-life president—who infuriatingly got 50% of the Catholic vote in 2008—and he will be opposed by someone who at least claims to be pro life. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say that, given what we know about this president and him aims, we, as Catholics, must vote for his opponent, even if he’s not our favorite guy.
Abortion is the bottom line for me, too. It’s hard to find a candidate who is completely pro-life, so I vote for whoever comes the closest to being anti-abortion. I’m not saying that the other issues aren’t important, but the scale of abortion is huge, so that is my voting priority.
Regina,
I wholeheartedly agree! The right to LIFE is the most basic right of all & the right upon which all other rights are contingent. Without LIFE, all other rights are essentially without meaning. To understand this puts all else into perspective. Additionally, while human life is being attacked on many fronts & in various ways, I think the case can be made that the child in the womb is truly the least among us & the most vulnerable.
What saddens me is when we start to educate ourselves on other pertinent issues (war/military, economic policies, parental rights, etc.) that may not seem so black & white as abortion—& when we try to understand (& vote accordingly) on these issues in light of our Catholic Faith…we are suddenly seen by some as betraying the pro-life cause if we don’t happen to be voting for the guy with the big endorsements. Short of having a Catholic monarchy & instituting the social reign of Christ the King…we aren’t likely to ever have the perfect candidate, Catholic or not. True, things are pretty cut & dry on the abortion issue when we compare our current President with those who are vying for his position. But between those candidates, there are some big differences on the approach to the issue. I’d gather that none of us wish to lose friendships over the matter, but it is a possibility. Still, I imagine that we all plan to put principle over partisan loyalties/politics—though that may mean different things for different people.
I agree that pro-life is the most important issue for this election.
There are other issues, but I don’t see the current president has anything in line with Catholic teaching. Some may say that he is for the poor people, but there is no Catholic doctrine that says to force people to give money to poor people. Somehow still unbeknownst to some, the current president is not anti-war, but there is one challenger who is anti-war and will make changes to the federal reserve and monetary policy that will help the poor without any coercion. I know that most people are confused about ecomomics, and it may require some studying, but pro-life and pro-choice are 100% clear.
My only problem with this point of view is that a lot of the politicians who are pro-life are also anti-welfare and public education. So they want the poor people to have their babies, but not provide care for and educate the babies once they are alive.
I do appreciate that one-issue voting is easier (and almost wish I could feel the same!), but I ascribe to the consistent ethic of life when thinking about who to vote for.
I love this article and that it encourages us all to come together in peace! <3
Susie, if we were choosing between two pro-life candidates, we would have the luxury of looking into the second tier of issues. But being pro-choice is a total non-conductor! Even if the pro-life candidate is a hawk on national defense matters. It’s possible to wage war justly—maybe that’s not the case in Iran, I sure don’t know—but there’s No Quarter given to abortion. I carries automatic excommunication as a penalty from the Church. Whereas war is given the benefit of discretion.
Speaking for myself, I’m not a “one-issue” voter because it’s easy or because I’m lazy. I didn’t used to be a one-issue voter until I saw some very good points made on EWTN. Mother Angelica pointed out that if there was a candidate who was pro-slavery or pro-Holocaust, there was no way she would vote for them even if she agreed with them on every other issue. That’s how I feel about abortion. I can respectively disagree with someone who disagrees about how to handle poverty, welfare, etc (some feel it’s better to leave funding to the church/private sector, while others feel that the government should provide the primary funding, and many feel that the current Welfare system is flawed and that funding it isn’t terribly helpful). But it’s very hard for me to respectively disagree with someone who feels that it should be legal to crush the skull of a defenseless baby and then pull it out of its mother’s womb partially alive. Unfortunately, the vast majority of my relatives support this “right”, so I’ve had plenty of practice with being civil to people who are “pro-choice”. But I don’t find it as easy to vote for them.
Why would anything that we post here have to do with you choosing to stop going to church?
I’m sorry to hear that your church in florida is about secular issues instead of just the sacraments. Maybe you could shop around for a more traditional church in your area where they don’t praise those two goons.
I would like to interject a topic that seems to be overlooked, defense of marriage. This is another Catholic teaching we must care deeply about. I feel it is very important to look closely at the candidates on this. It is clear what is happening in one party. In the other, listen very closely to what each candidate says, as well as look closely at what he has done in the past. Defending life, and the family that it comes from, are my top two priorities in this upcoming election.
I’m pretty sure that if the Pope were eligible and running for office, that there would be a sizable number of Catholics who would find some reason to vote for someone else. And half of them would say he’s too Catholic and the other half would say he’s not Catholic enough.
Someone recently said to me that you can’t be a christian and be a democrat. What do you think about that? Are we the ones who decide who is a christian and who isn’t?
I am not a democrat but I do agree with some of their principles. The number of abortions did not significantly decrease with a republican president versus a democratic one. It is unlikely that roe v. wade will ever be overturned. There are issues currently coming up with the church being told it has to provide for birth control etc. I understansd that. But that has not happened completely yet. If we vote republican because of abortion and the rate of abortion does not decrease then what is the purpose?
I am so glad I can ask this questions anonymously some where. Because I know if I asked it on same my FB page I would get a bunch of people yelling at me.
I think you are on to something in this way - I voted for the pro life candidate every time and so far abortion hasn’t stopped. Small victories were won and others lost. I think the paradigm is flawed keeping it at the federal level. We can win better in a smaller arena. My home state, PA, is a case in point. We have some restrictions these 20 years now. More than at the fed level. Just saying…
I would never say that democrats are unChristian (I myself am a registered democrat), nor would I ever say that someone is stupid for not voting for my candidate. I don’t know if Roe v Wade will ever be overturned. Ideally I would like to have faith that it would, but it’s hard to have that faith in this culture of death that we live in. But even if it’s never overturned, the more pro-abortion a candidate is, the more harm he can do. Obama is a perfect example, with forcing Catholic companies to cover abortificaient contraceptives, and vetoing the Babies Born Alive act.
Susie,
You raise a very good point. The more entrenched the federal government becomes in the regulating of abortion, the harder it is going to be to rid our country of the horror of decriminalized child-killing. A reflection on these past 40 years of Roe v. Wade (& Doe v. Bolton, & Planned Parenthood v. Casey, ...) should give us pause to rethink our strategy. As tempting as it can be to promote any & all pro-life legislation, even one that gives us a tiny gain, we have to remind ourselves that this is primarily a spiritual battle (which we obviously have to wage on many fronts).
Hi Regina,
My other posts say this but I want to reiterate for clarity - of course we must choose prolife. Choosing among pro life candidates is what we are doing in the GOP primary. And looking at other issues when another war is on the horizon is not a luxury.
While the topic of a possible impending war has entered the discussion, I offer this letter from Bishop John Michael Botean, Bishop of the Romanian Catholic Diocese of St. George in Canton, OH as food for thought: http://www.jonahhouse.org/archive/boteanRCbishop.htm
The more I study Church teaching and it’s goals, there seem to be a few things that are non-negotiable. Defense of the right to life, defense of marriage (one man and one woman) and care for the poor. How we care for the poor has been left up to us. It seems Democrats seem to think the government is the best means for that. Republicans say that the people should have the power to decide what to do with their money. (This follows in my estimation more of distributivism so I tend to agree with that approach within reason…) So, with Republicans seeming to have more checks on their platform in support of church teaching, I have to lean more that way.
I would hope that the individual plans the candidates put forward will help to clarify who’s the best candidate, but because we live in a more Protestant and individualistic society, I think that the “perfect” option will not be possible for a long time.
And as far as the argument about abortion not “ever” being overturned so we must look at the other issues…. Let us not loose faith in God! This president has been helping people choose sides more clearly. We the faithful can not loose hope in God’s hand in this and the role of our own hands. One vote may not seem like much, but it is for our own hands we are responsible….
And as re:war…. I heard a good priest explain it like this once, “War is a terrible thing. Thousands of good men and woman have been killed in wars. Yes. This must be brought to peaceful ends. But I can not justify the killing of millions of innocent babies with my vote to end war. Ever.” I couldn’t and still can’t disagree….
Peace and good to all.
To clarify I did not say we should ignore abortion because roe v wade will not be overturned anytime in the near future. I said that the abortion rate does not go down when we get a republican president in office. It is put forth sometimes that if we elect a rebuplican president we have somehow taken care of the abortion issue. We know that this not the case. If I remember my stats correctly the number of abortions has not risen with obama in the white house.
Many Catholics I know tell people who are democrats that they can’t be Christians. I am strongly republican but I do like to hear what other faith filled people believe—especially if their opinion is different than mine.
I’ve heard that the number of abortions has increased in recent years. I don’t know if this is due to Obama or the economy. I can’t imagine why anyone would think that electing a Republican president takes care of the abortion problem. Taking care of abortion will take a lot more than one election. But it certainly seems like choosing someone with more pro-life views would be a step in the right direction. If one candidate is opposed to partial birth abortion, supports the babies born alive act and doesn’t feel the need to force Catholic institutions to cover abortificatient contraceptives, that seems to be an improvement over our current situation. I have never heard of someone telling a democrat that they can’t be Christian. That’s really ignorant.
Additionally, the Republican party is known primarily for endorsing candidates who are barely to the right of center on the issues (because most politicians want to be all things to all people…which oftentimes means standing for very little)—which is why we don’t tend to see anyone with an endorsement who is passionate about the right to life.
The abortion stats have not increases in recent years. They are down form the early 90’s from around 1.5 million per year to 1.2 million per year. But the stats I looked at showed no big chnage in recent years. It seems to be that electing a prolife president does not help us make huge progress in decreasing the number of abortions. The prolife movement needs to rethink something. We been marching on washing every January for decades (myself included) yet we so no decrease in the number of abortions. It is truly the hearts that need to change—changing the law would be great but if the hearts are not changed too I don’t think it gets to the botttom of the issue.
Michelle’s comment below addresses the issue of abortion rate statistics. The rate of abortions isn’t the only factor here. Of course hearts need to change. Of course the pro-life movement could use some new strategies. But don’t underestimate the dangerous effects of a pro-abortion president that Michelle mentioned, such as nominating pro-abortion judges who will be in place for years to come, and in legalizing things like partial birth abortion, taking away the freedom of Catholic institutions to withold coverage for abortifacient contraceptives, etc. Furthermore, the laws of the land influence hearts by desensitizing people to evil and making it acceptable.
Presidents nominate Supreme Court justices and other federal judges whose views on abortion stay with us for decades. Presidents set the tone for how the government views abortion by emphasizing enforcement of some laws over others. Presidents appoint cabinet members and other high officials who wield tremendous power and who decide things like “The Catholic Church may no longer receive government funding to help women who have been forced into prostitution” or “Catholic adoption agencies must consider GLT parents” or “Catholic companies must offer contraception and abortion in their employee health plans.” Abortion rates peaked in the late 70’s and have been falling steadily since. Part of this is due to ultrasound technology and grassroot efforts by everyday people to educate women on fetal development: the freedom to stand outside clinics and to distribute literature is protected through the court system with federal judges selected by the President. Laws mandating waiting periods for abortions or requiring women to receive information on fetal development or to view ultrasounds are routinely challenged in courts and final decisions are made at the federal level - by judges appointed by the President. It is not a simple matter to say that “this year, the abortion rate is pretty much the same as last year when that other party was in office, so the President made no difference.” I think the effects of having a pro-choice President now will be felt most over the next 20 years as the judges Obama has appointed continue to serve at the federal level.
Michelle is right about the repercussions of a pro-abortion president. Under former Pres. Clinton, the 1st Amendment right of pro-lifers to peaceably assemble & to distribute pro-life literature outside abortuaries was severely restricted by the passage of legislation like FOCA (Freedom of Choice Act) & FACE (Freedom to Access Clinic Act—which actually deals with racketeering…an issue with organized crime & the Mafia). FOCA, FACE & similar attacks against the 1st Amendment (which only target pro-lifers) essentially killed the Rescue movement, where individuals would peacefully block the entrance to the killing centers in an effort to offer the mothers an alternative to abortion & to save the children who were about to die.
I agree Michelle. This seems to be true not just of the appointment of justices, but in the attitudes of other politicians who are lead by example. The current President has decided not to defend DOMA and it seems many other politicians are using it as license to follow suit. As much as they like to argue against it, it matters what these officials think as individuals about morality and it effects how they apply it.
“Abortion rates peaked in the late 70’s and have been falling steadily since.”
Everything I see show abortion rates peaking in the early 90’s and falling by about 15% since then. It seems like a very small decline over the course of 20 years. I wish it were a decline because everyone is waiting until they are married to have sex and that babies are born to a mother AND a father who want to love and care for them.
I feel less hopeful when I look at the whole picture of the US. But you definitely made some good points.
To clarify, I considered abortion rates per 1000 live births: http://www.johnstonsarchive.net/policy/abortion/graphusabrate.html If the overall number of births drops (if there are fewer pregnancies, in general), naturally there would tend to be fewer abortions. The percentage of women who opt for an abortion instead of birth is a better indicator of how society feels about abortion. {Similarly, you couldn’t really compare the overall number of abortions in Wyoming, the least populated state, with that of California, the most populated state, and not expect that the greater the population, the greater the number of abortions.}
Just wanted to chime in, though I’m a bit late. The president does have a huge impact on this issue as Michelle said through appointing judges, cabinet members and others. It’s important to note that in certain administrations, the executive branch can take control away from the legislature by setting mandates such as the HHS mandate that all insurers must provide birth control. The only way that that can be reversed is through the courts.
Looking at a candidate’s stance on abortion is one important fact, but it’s also important to look at that candidate’s view on the role of the executive branch/federal government. In addition to the presidential election, state-level elections should be followed closely as I think we could see a lot of progress if states step in and argue for states’ rights to decide on these issues at the state level.
My word is possible62—here’s to hope that change is possible!
Welcome to the discussion, dk. :o)
You brought up some important points about the various powers of the different branches of the government. As you said, state’s right are a very important issue. Not only that, but the principle you are referring to—subsidiarity—is a Catholic principle. The tenet of subsidiarity holds that nothing should be done by a larger & more complex organization which can be done as well by a smaller & simpler organization. In other words, any activity which can be performed by a more decentralized entity should be. Essentially, the principle of subsidiarity holds that human affairs are best handled at the lowest possible level, closest to the affected persons. When the principle of subsidiarity is ignored, governments often overstep their bounds (as is happening at an increasing rate here in the US) in managing matters best handled on a more local or individual level.
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